Singles & Dating - 15 June 2007

This guy I met who happens to be (twenty years old times my senior) worked on my car about three years ago.He grew to like me romantically, and we ultimately, became friends.He became aggressive, and started sending me money, and doing other nice things for me, like helping me with my car without charging me, giving me advice, he even rented a room out to me, and he said I do not owe him anything except my body which equals sex.I've told him several times that I am attracted to him in that way, but will always be there for him as a friend, because I do care about him a great deal, but I do not want him in that way, but he tells me he's not leaving, he's not going nowhere, the thing that I'm worried about is that I gave him money to buy a car for me, I paid for it in cash, paid for the parts, and the paint job, that hasn't been done, I paid for this car almost nine months ago to start the body job, but he keeps bs me, telling me it will be done on a certain date, and then when that day

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comes he tell me something different, it;s getting to be very frustrating, so he told me he's going to sell the car,and I went into a fury, and over a month ago, he said that he would pay a paint shop to do the job, but everytime, I call him about it. he just gives me the same ol song, ...oh next week, and it just keep proloning it, I don;t know what to do? And do you think he's playing games

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I also want to add that I've told him from the get go that i am not intrested in having a sexual relationship with him period, but all he says is.."I'm not giving up" I won't slack off" I even told him I was a lesbian..just so he would get ...I do care about him, and I just want to be his friend what's wrong with that?

2007-06-15 17:22:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I didnt have enought room to put on that last question, the long question about the guy avoiding the girl. Well i was also wondering if this guy would ever come back around and would the girl just have to be patient?

2007-06-15 17:10:14 · 1 answers · asked by shortyT 1

she sat by me in english and always flirted with me, gave me her #in my notebook, but i never called, later her friends said that she wanted to go to prom with me, i didn't ask her
now its the end of the school year and i try talking to her but i can never get a convo. started

then i left a note in her year book saying that we should do something over the summer

now i relize i don't really like her but she is one of the hottest people in the schoool

should i just blow it off and don't think about it or what

and i like this other girl but she doesn't like me

so what do i do?

pete

2007-06-15 17:10:09 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it right and proper for women to openly show and tell their feelings to men?

2007-06-15 17:01:06 · 6 answers · asked by blue 1

2007-06-15 16:54:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-15 16:23:03 · 23 answers · asked by everreckless 2

i messed up big time. not cheating or anything but i need to ask him back out because i know he'll say yes and we're good now so how do i do it so it's sweet but not cheesey?

2007-06-15 16:20:34 · 5 answers · asked by duh face 2

I'd known a guy all school year and just 10 days ago we started texting. I like him a lot, and I know he likes me back a LOT. Last Saturday night he finally asked me out in a text, and I turned him down because I'm not ready to have a boyfriend. He blamed the text on his friend, but I really think it was actually him. We texted for 3 days after that, but one night our conversation ended, and that was 3 days ago, and we haven't texted since. He's usually the one to start the conversation...is something wrong? Did he lose interest because I turned him down? I want to let him know I'm still interested, what do you recommend I say to him so we can start talking again?

2007-06-15 16:20:30 · 7 answers · asked by †StrongAsDeath† 3

I have had 2 girlfriends in the past few years that i have been with regularly. This second one I have been dating since mid march and the thing is I really really like her. But I just get bored hanging around with the same person all the time and like when we just talk i already know everything about her and she me. I had this happen with my last gf to. I just need some more excitement ( I don;t mean this in a sexual way) I feel like these women just become someone for me to hang out with when im lonely and I constantly seek them out, I don;t look forward to seeing them, they just stop me form being lonely. I am very young and this scares me because when im single i enjoy the excitment of meeting new people but i get lonely and when Im with someone I get bored but not lonely. I dont think a "when you find the right perosn you will know" answer would me any good, like i said I really like this girl, Im just bored.

2007-06-15 16:14:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do i help my friend, who has been seeing this man for 8 years. Ok, they have some problems, but a major one is that his three kids (18, 15, 12) do not like her. It is because she is very forward and says her opinion. And this was the first woman after Mom. She is not mean to them at all, she just does not sugar coat all of her interactions with them to get in good with them. Man has a second girlfriend now, who is sugar-coating everything. I really thinks he loves the first woman, but cannot stand the bad feelings in his house with his kids. I need advice for the first woman, my friend. She really loves him. She has had kids of her own, so it's not like she can't handle kids.

2007-06-15 16:12:06 · 18 answers · asked by csi7472 3

she talks to me good , replies my email, its been only like couple of weeks that i have met her

2007-06-15 16:03:27 · 3 answers · asked by desperate 1

can i get any kind of stds from eating a girl out, this girl hasnt done anythin with anyone though.
please answer.

2007-06-15 16:03:22 · 2 answers · asked by sportygirl. 1

For instance, would you always want to be at an event that he always attends?

2007-06-15 15:53:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

im sad because i made a mistake by breaking up w/ my bf what should i do to feel better?

2007-06-15 15:49:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

23 yr old out of a 3 yr relationship: My ex has dumped me and it hurts, the catch is for the last 6 months I have been trying to dump him, I just wasn't happy I expressed this to him over the months just never stuck to my guns and went through with it. Well he caught on and ended it with me, but now I miss him more than anything and want him back, Why do I want him back if I was the one that wanted to end it in the first place?? ANY ADVICE

2007-06-15 15:45:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

ive been goin with this boi 4 2months now.he hasnt called me n a month i havent seen hin or heard from him.and he didnt tell me we broke up.i call him but hez never home.do u think its the end of our so called relationship?

2007-06-15 15:41:46 · 11 answers · asked by janae_gaines 2

I have experienced this several times. This is not a bad break up with a fight. She decided to break up. I would like to be friends and still be able to talk and in one day, she does not return calls or emails. She assures me there is no one else.

2007-06-15 15:41:08 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-15 15:34:55 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

to like me i really like him and i might not even see him for like a month or two. i need ta find out how ta make him like me before we go back to skool. ya im only 12 but i got my grades up and im very responseible for my age so plz dont say ne thing like that. only answer if ur giving advice

2007-06-15 15:31:35 · 9 answers · asked by brae 1

2007-06-15 15:28:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i don't really know how, and my friends sorta make fun of me. it's not that i don't want to do it, but i don't know how...someone please give me some help

2007-06-15 15:24:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

There's this girl I like in my class, but i'm afriad to ask her out because the fear of being rejected, what should i do?

2007-06-15 15:20:26 · 10 answers · asked by Rick13143 1

2007-06-15 15:19:53 · 26 answers · asked by Peter 4

i , just think that having this hope is going to get me no where. and at this point i think it's just best to move on. so... how ?

2007-06-15 15:17:41 · 3 answers · asked by strictly_maggie 3

ok there is this guy in my class that I like a lot.. he is rly tall like two inches taller than me, and he is skinny ( like me again), he is also very good at soccer, and running, and If i forgot, he is the cutest guy i have ever had a crush on..but the problem is Im not sure he likes me he has only looked at me about 2 times in a day..and it was for a short amount of time. I need ways for him to notice me. I have NEVER talked to him, because In my school so many people are so immature about everything, that If I go up and talk to him people will laug, make fun of me, and by the end of the day everyone will know!
sos I dont know whether I should be confident and go and ask him, or I f I should just wait until he comes and talks to me ( if he ever does) , OR should I like get him to notice me???

o YA, AND another thing, my friend is obseesed with him, so how do I make sure that I get him one time or another

ADVICE NEEDED!!!!! PLEASE HELP!!!!

2007-06-15 15:08:32 · 17 answers · asked by sparklestream 1

at 24

2007-06-15 15:08:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i couldnt talk and got all choked up

2007-06-15 15:08:00 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

was ur day good? Did u meet n e new friends? did u take a risk? Was today fun? ooo ooo ooo guess what my bff that ive known since i was like younger than 1, is spending the night tonight and tomorrow night and im so excited.

♥ always,
emily

2007-06-15 15:07:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

this is why i hate him: he dated my friend for 4 years, but he was always cheating on her. She knew that but still kept dating him. He is a player. So they finally broke up, he dumped her cuz he already had a new girlfriend. Now he won't stop calling my boyfriend and asking him to hang out and go to party's and new bars, etc. I know because of previous events with other friends he tries to get as many women as he can in one night and then asks the guys he hangs with to take some girls, etc. I can't tell my friend about her ex and what he is doing cuz that would mean breaking up a friendship with her and if she does talk to him, he will call my boyfriend and tell him i asked my friend to tell him not to hang out with him. I just can't tell my bf who to hang out with or not... I am not that kind of person, plus i would really hate it if he did that to me....what should i do?

2007-06-15 15:06:08 · 5 answers · asked by chicken doggie 1

2007-06-15 15:04:24 · 9 answers · asked by Blanca 1