I have experienced this several times. This is not a bad break up with a fight. She decided to break up. I would like to be friends and still be able to talk and in one day, she does not return calls or emails. She assures me there is no one else.
2007-06-15 15:41:08 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Listen, I just divorced from a 20 year marriage and she did that. How can she instantly not feel anything for me anymore? I'm shocked and awed by it. Unfortunately it's been devastating to me! I think I'm going to survive, but it hurts really really bad!
Why? is a damn good question!
Will S
2007-06-15 15:46:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
These women may still have feelings for you but, believe it is in their best interest not to have a serious relationship with you for some reason.
So, to make it easier on themselves they decide to cut you off entirely to avoid getting into another relationship with you again.
Maybe you need to think about what you can do to uphold a serious relationship. You can't win a girl over on charm alone.
And with all do respect. After the girl has "broke it off" it really is none of your concern wether she is seeing someone else or not. Asking her questions like this after a break up only makes you seem controling even if you are just trying to be friendly or trying to start conversation.
Hope this helped.
2007-06-15 22:49:55 · answer #2 · answered by Steph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a woman makes the decision to split from a relationship, it is healthier to make a break rather than to remain intertwined in a relationship with an ex. It is too confusing, dangerous and unhealthy. It's better to just move on!
2007-06-15 22:45:03 · answer #3 · answered by TwinkaTee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To get over someone, you need a little space, if you fall back into the friendship too quickly the two of you slip back into the relationship. A clean break for a month is what you need to be able to be friends.
2007-06-15 22:44:16 · answer #4 · answered by bluechick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi..It could be something you did, that she found out about from a friend, and promised not to tell..Could be a bad time in the month, could be that she just had a bad day..
Give her a little time..And when you feel the time is right..either call her or email her..and ask her what happened?
And then..just take it from there!
Good Luck!
2007-06-15 22:48:54 · answer #5 · answered by howdoilvthee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe the relationship just didn't "click" for her and she wants to have her space to think without influence from you. Time will tell. Don't push to know and maybe you will be friends later. If the intrest just isn't there for her then your better off letting go and there will always be others out there to meet. The relationship has to be 50/50 give and take and feelings.
2007-06-15 22:49:53 · answer #6 · answered by d_deane530 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people just can't do the "just friends" thing after a relationship. I'm going through that right now with a guy, but HE's the one who has broken off all contact. I'd love to maintain a friendly relationship with him, but he can't do it.. So it's not just women.
2007-06-15 22:44:08 · answer #7 · answered by Schleppy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe break up and move on. If a woman does find another man he is not likely to want to be with her if she is still friends with her ex.
2007-06-15 22:45:09 · answer #8 · answered by Cecilia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some women just need time after a break up to let the hurt feelings pass. others are just too stuck up for it.
2007-06-15 22:44:16 · answer #9 · answered by runningballerina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi
2007-06-15 22:42:54 · answer #10 · answered by Sahara M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋