There's this girl I like in my class, but i'm afriad to ask her out because the fear of being rejected, what should i do?
2007-06-15 15:20:26 · 10 answers · asked by Rick13143 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just talk to her, you don't have to ask her out just yet. Otherwise you'll never know what could have been, and you'll always regret it!! While rejection is hard, so is longing after someone that you are unsure about. If she doesn't like you, you can get over her and find someone who does like you :)
2007-06-15 15:25:21 · answer #1 · answered by Lozzie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never fear rejection!!..seriously, fear of rejection can lead you to so much regret..And you don't want that to happen..Maybe she doesn't know you like her and maybe she secretly likes you..you never know until you take action..Trust me, take the chance..and even if she does reject you, you'll gain strength and courage for the next girl..But I don't think she'll reject you..if anything, try talking to her at first and see how she is around you..if she's nice then there's nothing to worry about...
2007-06-15 15:25:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never know until you try. The biggest regret is that you didn't try. What is worse than her saying no. You will have tried and you will get a yes from someone. Everyone is fearful of rejection.
You can start off as friends and see if you would like to get to know her better. Tell her you want to go out as friends. Everyone can do with more friends.
2007-06-15 15:24:12 · answer #3 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll just have to live with rejection. one question: do you know each other? don't ask her out until you get to know her more...to ask her out, get into deep conversation about school, sports, celebrities, movies, pretty much anything. keep talking for a while but make sure you have plenty of time, then look into her eyes and smile...but don't grin awkwardly, she'd think you're a complete wierdo, no teeth, just lips...see what she does. if she smiles back, it might mean she likes you. then ask her, "So, do you have plans for the weekend?" or for friday, or tuesday, or whatever day your planning on taking her out on. if she says no, that she's free, look at her and say, "Then maybe we should get together and see a movie or something?" if she says yes, good for you!!! if she says no, maybe she's just not good enough for you.
~aMy~
2007-06-15 15:29:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok brother this is classic
first you can't be nervous when you get nervous you stumble
and make a plan and plan on what you are going to say it is isn't to go exactly right but you gotta have an idea for what your about do to
and for the fear who cares if you get rejected there are plenty of others out there it is a big world
2007-06-15 15:27:43 · answer #5 · answered by Killer K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do anything. In fact, dont ask anyone out ever. Then you can date rosie palm for the rest of your life and die and old lonely virgin.
better off not reproducing in fact if you dont grow a set you wont have to worry.
2007-06-15 15:56:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait untill you feel you have the best chance possible, then go for it. If not, you will never know what you would have missed.
2007-06-15 15:24:42 · answer #7 · answered by mindthegap49 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just take ur time and ask her when ur ready.... but first try finding out if she likes u too :)
2007-06-15 15:23:45 · answer #8 · answered by nicole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a deep deep breath and just DO IT.
:)
2007-06-15 15:40:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her friends what she thinks of you. if its good, then ask her.
2007-06-17 05:57:49 · answer #10 · answered by neverland22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋