Singles & Dating - 15 June 2007

please help, I REALLY like a guy but I'm 18 and he's 28 and I dont think my parents will approve..what's your opinion on this age difference in a relationship??

2007-06-15 08:50:52 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hey everyone, thanks for reading my question. I'm 18, gone through high school and everything but I've yet to have a girlfriend. I don't have the best of looks, but not the worst either..I'm average in my opinion. Anyway, I graduated in the top 10% of my high school class and one of the ways I am able to talk to girls and become friendly is helping out and going over schoolwork (lame, I know but it works)..I've made a good number of female friends this way and I mean we're friends (they invite me to their parties, etc.) but it never seems to go past the "just friends" stage. I've asked girls out and they all give me "can we just be friends?" No girl, whether it's been through school or friends has ever looked at me as boyfriend material (unless there are secret admirers who never said anything to me) has looked at me that kind of way, I always end up just being a friend who's a nice and sweet guy. These same girls that I want hang out with guys I'd consider jerks and drink and smoke...

2007-06-15 08:49:10 · 6 answers · asked by ILuvTaraReid 2

I am a 30 year old tennis player currently participating in a new dating show on NBC called "Age of Love". In the show, I must date a group of 20-something women and a group of 40-something women in a search for love. I am looking for some advice. Can you help me out?

2007-06-15 08:48:12 · 6660 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you have a crush that you adore and who seems interested, but you are apart for some time-----what is it for you? out of mind or fonder? How soon do you forget them?

2007-06-15 08:45:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is this guy that I met excatly 5 weeks ago. We hit it off really well! He lives an hour away from me so we don't get to see each other that much. When we talk on the phone though lately he will say things to me like why don't you hook up with your friend justin? (justin is like my best friend!) I just tell him to knock it off. But then he says that wants to come out and see me again... what does he want?

2007-06-15 08:44:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Tell me about it and how you got over it or are getting over it now :)

2007-06-15 08:43:49 · 7 answers · asked by ♥Te Amo♥ 2

My good friend of many years is a 30 year old single mom. She has a history of bad relationships and chooses men that are really bad for her. The father of her child abused them both and the next guy after that was abusive too.
Now she has moved on to a married man who has three children. She believes all the b.s. he tells her and hife wife or babies momma (whatever she is) calls her sometimes but she doesn't want to talk to her. He recently went to jail for a domestic dispute and got out only to be back in jail for another domestic dispute. My friend just says his significant other is crazy. I tried telling her he didnt get arrested for doing nothing, he had to have done something. She didn't have anything to say.
She gives him money while in jail and seems to have no intentions of leaving him.
I have tried talking to her about her men before which resulted in her not talking to me for a year and a half. She obviously has serious men issues!
Any suggestions?

2007-06-15 08:37:28 · 28 answers · asked by *Rumer*Severin* 5

My man and I were in the bed the other night and he told me his fantasy of course 2 women.. He said he wasn't asking me to do that ..,but I really was thinking about making him happy by surprising him..do you all think I should or not..

2007-06-15 08:37:18 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

what do you think? 2 good friends fooling around no strings attatched. Can it work?

2007-06-15 08:36:34 · 6 answers · asked by BlondeAmbition 1

Ok me and my ex broke up a month ago, his names brad, we broke up because he was having all these problems a home and with his friends, also he said too many guys flirted with me and he was tired of getting jealous, and he said he didn't want a girlfriend right now but later when he does we would go back out. Well the last time we even talked about this was like 2 weeks ago he said he was getting annoyed with me always talking about it and saying it hasn't even been that long. So i stopped and the last time we talked was sunday.

What should i do? should i call him and talk to him about it because it's been a month and it's hurting me i feel like he doesn't want to go out with me and he keeps lieing to me about wanting to get back together with me. The reason i don't want to call is i don't want to bug him and chase him away.

Please help.

2007-06-15 08:36:28 · 2 answers · asked by Lizzy 2

my boyfriend lies to me but i love him to death shoud we break up?

2007-06-15 08:36:05 · 17 answers · asked by Steph D 1

Ladies, what part of your body is most sensitive to being kissed?

2007-06-15 08:32:42 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I will start Wheaton, MD

2007-06-15 08:31:05 · 15 answers · asked by gia00601 3

If so, why? I'm 20 and ride a motorcycle, but I do it for fun, not to look cool. I often ride with my dad, just to take a break from life...

2007-06-15 08:30:30 · 11 answers · asked by bluedevil1642 7

If a girl flirts with a guy and thinks it's just for fun, what does the guy think? How does he react? If the flirting continues, does he start to grow feelings? Is it unfair for women to flirt if they aren't genuinely interested?

2007-06-15 08:28:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-15 08:27:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

and not have sex???? even sleep in the same bed and be able to keep yourself and your partner from having sex???

2007-06-15 08:25:49 · 15 answers · asked by Poosocks 6

Im not particularly long only 8 inches but its thick, 6.5 inches around which makes condoms really tight to put on an painful. I've tried Magnum XXL and they're still uncomfortable, anyone know where I can get bigger ones?

2007-06-15 08:23:43 · 37 answers · asked by CoolGuy 1

Okay, me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 1/2 years. We live together and have a child together. Before he and I became a couple, he was with his ex girlfriend and they have children and had a house together. He has visitation with his kids and of course his ex doesn't like me and tries to make his life a living hell by always taking him to court for dumb stuff (obviously she still wants him and hasn't gotten over their relationship yet). He's finally getting the house thing situated where he'll be off the deed.
Last year in the beginning of the year, he asked if I was ready to take it to the "next" level with him. Of course I asked more questions about what that meant and it was marriage.
We are going on three years being together and he still hasn't proposed to me. He was with his ex for 8 years and never proposed to her.
Could this be a pattern for him? Is he in a comfort zone? How long should I wait???????

2007-06-15 08:23:41 · 26 answers · asked by jamaica1_9 2

what's your favorite part of a woman's body? T or A? Most of my friends are guys, and the majority love the upper option. I have one friend who likes the lower . . . what is your favorite, and why? what's the fascination?

2007-06-15 08:23:12 · 9 answers · asked by vinsa1981 3

2007-06-15 08:20:53 · 4 answers · asked by rex 2

2007-06-15 08:19:26 · 14 answers · asked by &>smartie<3 2

is there a certain way he looks at u or is there a certain way he acts around u i mean c'mon tell me i need 2 know these things caus i think that we r a really good match and i really want 2 make this work!!!
help me pleaz

2007-06-15 08:19:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

IM 5'5 IN 1/2 AND IM 154 LBS.I DONT HAVE A HUGE BUTT BUT ITS NOT FLAT AND IM PRETTY GOOD SIZED UP TOP

2007-06-15 08:18:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been with this guy for 6months and it has been a big a huge roller coaster ride.. I met him thru this girl who has been friends with him for 14 years- the three of us used to party etc anyway she got a bit jealous of the time he would spend with me and I know she has feelings for him (but he dosn't for her) He has said i shouldn't let her get between us.
I am going overseas in a few days and he needs a place to stay while i'm gone. He has been staying here for the last few weeks. He spent last night with her and her brother and his nephew, as I no longer like to see her because I no longer trust her and he didn't ask me to come anyway... I feel that he should not have gone over there especially since I am leaving the country for 7 weeks...she knows this as well and even put it in her calender!! please help me... I am tempted to turn my phone off and not talk to him b4 i go and not let him stay here. Am I overreacting? I don't think he knows how manipulating she is...

2007-06-15 08:17:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love my boyfriend. And he loves me. I know this. But he's broken up with me twice. He was under aLOT of stress from college problems, as well as exams and major family problems erupting. The first time he broke up with me he was freaking out about us. I allowed for that. He confesses he's very protective of himself.
The second time, he'd been going through a period of so much stress that he wasn't even himself anymore. he was still good to me, but seeing him so distant was making me unhappy. but i stood by him. he broke up with me that time (2 months after the first time) suddenly and rashly. because "he thought he was doing the right thing". we didn't talk for a month because we both had exams. then straightaway he begged for me back. i was very reluctant but he said he'd never been so serious about anything in his life before. his friends have confirmed they've never seen him so set on anything. he even offered to go into counselling if the stress hits him like that again.

2007-06-15 08:13:13 · 11 answers · asked by Chasey Lane 2

Im a submissive and I want to start incorporating sadomasocism/discipline/bondage into our sex lives but I don't know that he'd be into it, and I don't want to sound like a freak, how should I tell him about it?

2007-06-15 08:12:19 · 18 answers · asked by IceQueen 1

I'm a white male. My best friend is a black man of my age. We've been friends for years. Growing up I had a lot of diversity throughout school and my family weren't racist in any shape or form. But, here is the problem.

I met this girl a week ago. She is wonderful! She's out going, funny, we just seem to hit it off. She's asian. But her first lover, and only boyfriend before me, was a black man.

The moment I heard that, for some reason, regardless of all the fantastic years with my black friend, Leon, the stereotypes that I had heard began to rush through my mind.

Before we had sex she mentioned his size and the things he did sexually, etc. And the stereotypes began to bother me even more. We had sex that night, and things went great (at least I thought) but despite the wonderful night, the inadequate feelings I had remained.

Now I refer to the original question, am I a closet racist? I don't want to think like that, but when I look at her, I think of THEM. I need some advice.

2007-06-15 08:11:38 · 13 answers · asked by Noah T 1

2007-06-15 08:09:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am saving myself for marriage and getting sooo frustrated and depressed lately. seems like there aren't any guys out there who also wanna save themselves.
I feel as though i'm waiting for marriage its only fair of my "future husband" to do the same.

Guys- you know best. How many guys out there are really waiting until marriage to have sex?

do i even have a chance of finding someone now? i mean doesn't this cut out like 99 percent of the dating pool?
thanks♥

2007-06-15 08:05:00 · 5 answers · asked by starryeyed 5