My man and I were in the bed the other night and he told me his fantasy of course 2 women.. He said he wasn't asking me to do that ..,but I really was thinking about making him happy by surprising him..do you all think I should or not..
2007-06-15 08:37:18 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He may surprise you and invite another guy so that two men can make love to you tonight! =<)
2007-06-15 08:49:40 · answer #1 · answered by Sir Grandmaster Adler von Chase 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I normally try to give well-thought answers, but this time I just gotta say... it's hard enough for one man to please an energetic and great woman without fail and without always repeating the same stuff.. what more with two?! What's that guy thinking? Okay..now here's something with thought.. Talk to him about it. Don't sound like you're willing to give in, okay(?) but ask him if he's serious.. or ask him what he's willing to do to get that fantasy to become reality... I won't egg you on, that's for sure, but talking to him might help you know him better. Many will say that it's something you can't undo once done, so think hard about it..because it's true.
2007-06-15 10:00:26 · answer #2 · answered by Rogee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only u know if this could damage your emotional connection with your man.
Will u be able to see it as harmless fun or will u just remember anouther woman in your bed.
Will u be left feeling jealous that he has had his fantasy and lets face it anouther woman with your consent (would he allow u to bring a guy home for the same?
Ultimatly how confident r u in urself and yer man.
Be aware it can go wrong both ways i knew a couple that tried it but when push came to shove it was the GUY that didnt like it. seeing sum1 else all ova his woman
2007-06-15 08:55:36 · answer #3 · answered by raven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A 3-some is something that you really need to think about. How would feel about watching him kiss another girl, touch another girl, go down on another girl, and going all the way with another girl. If you know for sure, with out a doubt that you can handle it, then consider doing it with someone that you & him will never see again. Good luck. Think good and hard before you go through with it.
2007-06-15 08:44:00 · answer #4 · answered by kissbutnevertell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if you're 100% sure you can handle it, some women think they'll be alright and then it totally ruins the relationship...
think really hard about it, they say there is a reason a fantasy is a fantasy... because it would never work in real life.
2007-06-15 08:40:46 · answer #5 · answered by Soap Box Preacher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 22:17:48 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My man wants the same thing we have been together for 3 year and NO, b/c you don't know what people have these days and it like cheating in your face. who's to say he will begin to think it's OK to sleep with this person when your not there.
2007-06-15 08:42:12 · answer #7 · answered by gia00601 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. You better think about how you might eally feel after he has had his hands all over some other woman. Maybe there will be a thrill at first, but it may come back to haunt you.
2007-06-15 08:40:27 · answer #8 · answered by Care 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, are you actually into other women sexually? If not are you willing to be with another woman sexually just to please your partner?
If you have one threesome, won't he expect another? Do you want to keep having threesomes just to keep the relationship?
Also, are you okay watching your partner have sex with someone else?
Perhaps tell him you are really turned out by the thought of having a threesome with him and another guy. I have done it and they usually stop asking after that.
2007-06-15 09:18:03 · answer #9 · answered by *Rumer*Severin* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. A threesome is the beginning of the end for a relationship.
Tell him your fantasy is to watch him kiss another guy and ask him if he'll do that for you.
2007-06-15 08:40:06 · answer #10 · answered by Karoline M 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋