please help, I REALLY like a guy but I'm 18 and he's 28 and I dont think my parents will approve..what's your opinion on this age difference in a relationship??
2007-06-15 08:50:52 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there is no age limit whatsoever when it comes to sex. just do it and have fun. i bet a million dollars he only wants to pound your vagina
2007-06-15 08:55:31 · answer #1 · answered by Harinder Gill 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well I think that its not too much a BIG fat difference. I like someone who is ten years older than me. It doesnt really matter much.
The age difference in the relationship i dont think it would be a big deal, age is just a number so dont let age get in the way of things. Be yourself around him, let him accept you for you, he may fall in love with you over time if he likes you alot and wants to hang out more and takes you out on dates.
Just remember age is just a number. You're only 18, you have to make your own choices now that you are an a adult, your parents only have opinions, they cant tell you what to do anymore, they may have to approve that you are dating them, but when your parents give opinions and tell you stuff...take what they say listen carefully, watch, and see if they were right. Most of the time your parents can be right about a guy.
and Most of the time they cant be.
Date him and see how things go, if he says yes. And good luck! I hope my advice was good enough!
2007-06-15 08:58:33 · answer #2 · answered by ♥mcmanda♥ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your parents wouldn't approve for a reason...you ARE too young and this guy only wants you for a booty call. If you were 28 then it might work. He's been there, done that...you're not even old enough to drink yet. Be friends if you must, but don't date or get 'involved'. You'll definitely be the loser in the end..and it won't last. Date someone your own age for now. If you still 'reeeeeeally like him' when you're 28, more power to you!
2007-06-15 09:03:09 · answer #3 · answered by Rocky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're mature for your age, I don't think the ten years makes that much difference. When you're 28, he will only be 38, and the ten years won't seem that big of a gap. The older you both get, the more your age difference won't be noticeable. Of course if you were only 8 and he was 18, that would be a HUGE difference. See what I mean? You go, girl, and get him before he gets away! Good luck!
2007-06-15 08:58:51 · answer #4 · answered by gldjns 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Age differences don't matter. My wife is 9 years older than me and it has been no problem at all. The question you need to ask yourself is if 18 is ready for a serious relationship. From experience who you are as an 18 year old and a 23 year old would be a bigger factor than how much older he is than you.
2007-06-15 09:01:19 · answer #5 · answered by siropusof10ec 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think age differences really depend on the couple. Ten years can seem a lot to some people but nothing to others. Ten years can definitely work, but if your parents don't approve, I'd try discussing it with them instead of rebelling or getting angry.
2007-06-15 08:54:22 · answer #6 · answered by Amanda B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmmmm, 10 years. here's what i think. it's not about age, it's about maturity. he could be 28, but act like a 15 year old, get what i'm saying? so, it all comes to you, cause your ganna be dating him, not your parents.
but on the other hand, ten years is a lot. cause when he was about in the third grade, you were just born.
ten years is two high schools and 2/3 of middle school put together!
he's almost thirty and your still a teenager. see what i'm saying again?
but if you like him, and he's not playin you---go for it.
2007-06-15 09:00:25 · answer #7 · answered by thanks life for the lemonade 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Age difference is fine once you 18 even if your parents might not approve as long as you not like 15 or something and hes 25. But alot of people are going to think its kinda weird sill.
2007-06-15 08:56:02 · answer #8 · answered by Florida Guy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
To be honest, when you are that young, its hard to have much in common with someone who is already settled. Not saying it can't happen, but most of the time it doesn't work. When your 18, and I've been there, things that matter, don't matter as you get older. It'll be fun at first, but in the end, you guys are going to end up breaking up. But then again, maybe not, just really think about it. You don't want to end up with a broken heart.
2007-06-15 08:55:52 · answer #9 · answered by Chrystal 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the maturity level. If your just dating and enjoying each others company, then no. If one of you is ready to settle down, and the other one isn't, then yes!
Also, if he is a creepy 28 (bad job, always partying and hitting on 18 and 19 year olds), then a big YES!
2007-06-15 09:06:13 · answer #10 · answered by kimandryan2008 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, for starters, you are not quite matured. I dated a guy 10 years my age and while it was fun while it lasted, he said I was still a "baby". That was 14 years ago. I wondered what he meant at that point in time but I udnerstand now. While I was matured for my age, I was not matured enough for him. You are still young and yuo need to mingle and learn about life with those around your age. Good Luck!
2007-06-15 08:54:52 · answer #11 · answered by SG GAL 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋