How do you get over someone?

Question

i , just think that having this hope is going to get me no where. and at this point i think it's just best to move on. so... how ?

Answer 1

What do you mean? Hope like "he's going to come back to you, come to his senses"....that sort of thing? There's two schools of thought on this issue. (1) It's important to have hope; it keeps us alive in ways nothing else can. At the same time however, (2) it's equally important never to lie to yourself. When the coffin nail is in place, it's vital we recognize it and move on or we perpetuate our miseries, stagnate our growth, and harm ourselves unnecesssarily. The question is: which situation are you really facing right now? Only you know the full details, so only you know the answer. But whichever reality is yours right now, face it head-on and do what's required with dedication and resolve. If that means hanging in there, stick like glue no matter what else tries to dissuade you. If it's letting go, drop it like it never happened and don't look back. It's not easy either way, but this is how we grow. Best of luck to you as you negotiate this trial.

Answer 2

1.If you start thinking about all the good times you had with this guy....Think of a good time with a friend or something!

2. Cross out anywhere you have written the guy's name down and drwn hearts around him...In notebooks, textbooks, bedrooom wall...ect

3. Since he doen't notice you...just avoid him...

4. Meet new people....Hang with friend more!

5. Develop a crush on another person....

Well....i hope that I could help! Bye...Good Luck!

Answer 3

hang out with other people, get to know people that appreciate you for who you are.

I just got over my first HUGE crush, and then i just recently asked out another girl and have my first girlfriend (that was today, YAY) You really should let out your emotions, it really helps

GOOD LUCK