this is why i hate him: he dated my friend for 4 years, but he was always cheating on her. She knew that but still kept dating him. He is a player. So they finally broke up, he dumped her cuz he already had a new girlfriend. Now he won't stop calling my boyfriend and asking him to hang out and go to party's and new bars, etc. I know because of previous events with other friends he tries to get as many women as he can in one night and then asks the guys he hangs with to take some girls, etc. I can't tell my friend about her ex and what he is doing cuz that would mean breaking up a friendship with her and if she does talk to him, he will call my boyfriend and tell him i asked my friend to tell him not to hang out with him. I just can't tell my bf who to hang out with or not... I am not that kind of person, plus i would really hate it if he did that to me....what should i do?
2007-06-15 15:06:08 · 5 answers · asked by chicken doggie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't see any point to your question. This is such a dumb question. Why are you allowing yourself to be put in this position. Let me guess. You're the one that buys the tabloids whilst in line at the grocery store. Do us all a favor. Go back to school. Get some education. Then get some self confidence. Then get a life.
2007-06-15 15:10:36 · answer #1 · answered by dudley997997 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't exactly tell your boyfriend not to hang out with the guy, let them go out, and trust your boyfriend. In the mean time you and your girl friend should go out. You don't have to mention to her that her ex is out in the clubs trying to get with as many girls as he can. That would be hurtful to her, you would be the bearer of bad news. Don't lie to her, but don't volunteer any info to her. Who your boyfriend hangs out with his none of your friends business. Keep everything seperate and you should be okay.
2007-06-15 15:14:35 · answer #2 · answered by bored. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly just talk to him about it. Tell him how you feel, not that he shouldn't hang with him. If he's a good guy and not a player he probably wouldn't want to hang with him anyway. Hope it all works out
2007-06-15 15:12:53 · answer #3 · answered by Nilly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing....If your boyfriend wants to hang around with that kind of person, it should make you think twice about him yourself!
2007-06-15 15:08:54 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Jamie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok, don't go out with him then
2007-06-15 15:08:33 · answer #5 · answered by zen522 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋