Singles & Dating - 18 May 2007

-I am a single mom and don't have time for 'buddies'. My kids hearts are NOT up for grabs because some guy thinks I'm cool for the time being. He is "scared to get hurt and wants to be just friends and see if it develops". Tha
-The fact is that is a waste of my time. If a guy is really into you, he won't sit around and play it safe. I guess he doens't think I am worth the risk. He wants to sweet talk me and pretends we are a couple, holding my hand and all, but wants it easy. He wants to hang out with me and my kids. He wants to sit on the fence and hopes 'IT will just happen'. That sounds like a cope out to me. Either I am worth it or not. How do I tell him short and to the point, that I have a life that I love and don't have time for mixed signals? Either he is in or out? I don't want to marry him, or even date him exclusively. All I need is a 'lets date casually cause I'm interested'. I need to know that we are on the same page. Or I am wasting my time.

2007-05-18 07:02:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

She's very nice, but people keep laughing and being rude to her as we walk down the road, and I feel bad for both of us,
SHould I dump my friend and tell her to stay at home more?

2007-05-18 07:01:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

my bf touches me during the 2nd day of my period. After being touched, my period stops straight away. Is this normal? Will i get my period back on the 3rd day? or the day after tat?

2007-05-18 07:00:20 · 7 answers · asked by charlene 2

Me and my ex are back talking and we had sex like 3years ago and he wanna have sex with me again I want to too but Im thinkin should I make him wait, because we are in the process of hooking back up

2007-05-18 07:00:07 · 30 answers · asked by Ms.Donna 3

if your friends like the same guy you do and he says that he likes you,but your friends say he is just trying to get sex does that mean they want me to stay away from him so they can have a better chance???

2007-05-18 06:54:53 · 9 answers · asked by Whitney 2

2007-05-18 06:51:08 · 40 answers · asked by love_hugskisses 2

Last night I went out with 2 of my guy friends. I'm one of those "one of the boys" type girls. I have bf's and I act girly but I just get along better with guys I always have. Last night we all went to Jocks and Jills near my house. We were they and my ex's recently made ex was there to. She told my ex I kept looking at her and she was about to smack me, and all this bull crap. She said the guys I was with were huge and fat. They weren't not. They are tall and very musclar. She was checking them out like crazy LOL... I don't care that she did this. I think it's funny, cause honestly she was hanging with Edward Scissor hands but a blond version. I mean this is stupid and so high school. Don't you think...? I wasn't looking at her, it took me forever to figure out which one was her, becuase my ex called me and told me she was there. I was laughing about it. I think she's just jealous of me cause he was talking to me.

I don't know I just want some opions LOL

Thanks!

2007-05-18 06:49:50 · 25 answers · asked by angel2005_2001 5

I've heard that if a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him, and that we don't need to give
advice. Is that true? do guys hate it when girls are concerned and ask them constantly whats wrong.
[&& lets just say that she has been his girlfriend for 7-8 months, and she can detect when somethings up?] does he find this bothersome?

2007-05-18 06:49:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-18 06:48:09 · 24 answers · asked by Sally 1

We've been together for about a year. We're both 30. I've never really lived anywhere else and this would be the perfect opportunity. He does'nt want to move now, he says maybe in about 5 years! I've even suggested moving somewhere else in the state but he wants to stay in the same area. By, the way we don't live together yet.

2007-05-18 06:47:52 · 6 answers · asked by Lee 4

but she has a body to die for....is it wrong to bring along a plastic bag on the date?

I even have airholes punched out already! lol

2007-05-18 06:45:17 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I read some things my girlfriend wrote online and I'm not sure what to think at the moment. I think I really hurt her. I don't want to go into details very much but I told her Thursday night I would not be attending her prom because my two best friends were coming to visit me. I told her we could still go to my prom and I thought she'd understand...apparently i don't think she does.


"Dear You"
"Scott,
I will never understand how you had the nerve to hurt me like this on Thursday. The night before my prom! And how you are not even bothered by your selfish acts towards me. I hope after all of this is over it hurts real bad. I hope one day maybe not soon you realize you lost someone who loved you and truly cared deeply about you and would give anything for you."


-Tonight i am not attending my senior prom. Today I am sitting here more hurt then I've ever been by a guy in my entire life. Today I want to die. Today he lost me forever.....

2007-05-18 06:41:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I like this guy. He is so sweet. He is a virgin, but he's 17. I really like him. He is always there for me and is my best friend. I want to ask him out but am afraid to. I am 13 but I really like this guy. I know age doesn't matter to him. He tells me all the time because I used to like his best friend Ian who is also 17 but I would never go out with Ian. I really like Paul. He makes me smile and he always can cheer me up. I really like him. He is so nice to everyone and respects people. He thinks before he acts and is a good guy.

2007-05-18 06:39:34 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm talking about relationships along with various other circumstances. a lot of women that i know have got controlling and like to throw accusations.

I wo think that its because they feel that they have to find a way to not feel guilty and by trying to find fault in the other person, they can accomplish this.

2007-05-18 06:36:31 · 5 answers · asked by JUST A THOUGHT 1

i started dating that boy about a few months ago. i liked him every since i was in seventh grade, now i am a senior. he is everything that i wanted, but lately things arent so good for us. i dont believe that he mean it when he say he loves me. before i start dating him i was raped twice by my last boyfriend and by a 75 year old man in my church, somehow i find it difficult to open up to him. and i am also mad at him cause he is always flirting.he doesnt think i understand him enough to talk to me i always feel left out. doyou think its jealousy?do you think i am afraid of love.somehow he cant understand me when i say im not ready to make love to him.i dont know wat to do please help me

2007-05-18 06:26:10 · 1 answers · asked by CLAIRE~BEAR 3

I really love this person. The problem is that he pulled back when I got serious and when I wanted to take things forward. He says he isn't "ready" and is uncomfortable with my feelings. He cannot reciprocate. Ironically, he was the one who pursued me. I know for sure he likes me. I am exhausted trying to figure out whether he has any *fears*. Please don't tell me to leave him, becoz I can't and don't want to. Please advise how I shd handle this, if I want us to be together....

I also feel distance has been a hindrance although He says distance is not the reason. We were earlier in 2 different states in the US, and now we are in 2 different countries. I plan to move to his country for job reasons.

A man's perspective will be super helpful.....

Thank you guys.

2007-05-18 06:24:02 · 3 answers · asked by ? 6

I havnt seen my boyfriend in a while and i want to just completely suprise him. I want to try something different, any ideas to make him go wild in the bedroom?? thanks in advance !! ", xx

2007-05-18 06:11:05 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-18 06:04:30 · 5 answers · asked by ? 4

if I went down on my boyfriend in the morning to surprise him and wake em up?

2007-05-18 05:55:55 · 41 answers · asked by u2ugly2nv18 2

but not hurt her feelings? i might be better off just lying. i was thinking about saying hey, do u wanna hold off going out for right now, i kinda dont feel comfortable going out, so that way we just chill sometimes, and i hope that she forgets, my friend tells me thats prolly the best way so nobody gets offended, its an easy let down.

2007-05-18 05:50:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been talking to this guy for a year it was long distance till recently when he moved back home. But since he's been back home he isn't the same no calls or anything. I gave it a month to let him settle in with out saying anyhting, but i haven't seen him once since he's been home. I wrote him a email telling him that i need to move on and i can't do this anymore.That I feel that he is heart isn't into it anymore, and we can remain friends. Did I do the right thing? Or did i act to fast???

2007-05-18 05:49:14 · 13 answers · asked by dreamangel1102002 2

My girlfriend (3 1/2 yrs) broke up with me because I was dishonest about very important facts. Since the break, we've taken necessary time and space to think for ourselves. I even moved out. Currently she feels like she is ready to sit down and talk about things. I want her back so badly, should I lay it on strong or take things extra slow? The situation was a very serious one. I hurt her badly. Now, after recognizing and eliminating the problems and viewing the bigger picture of our relationship, I have made much needed changes to my life. she knows this. what would you do?

2007-05-18 05:46:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I read some things my girlfriend wrote online and I'm not sure what to think at the moment. I think I really hurt her. I don't want to go into details very much but I told her Thursday night I would not be attending her prom because my two best friends were coming to visit me. I told her we could still go to my prom and I thought she'd understand...apparently i don't think she does.


"Dear You"
"Scott,
I will never understand how you had the nerve to hurt me like this on Thursday. The night before my prom! And how you are not even bothered by your selfish acts towards me. I hope after all of this is over it hurts real bad. I hope one day maybe not soon you realize you lost someone who loved you and truly cared deeply about you and would give anything for you."


-Tonight i am not attending my senior prom. Today I am sitting here more hurt then I've ever been by a guy in my entire life. Today I want to die. Today he lost me forever.....

2007-05-18 05:32:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

when we are together alone she always wants it and can never get enough im not complaining but she just wants more and more and when we are apart she wants it over the phone and i have no complaints but i was just wondering

2007-05-18 05:14:32 · 22 answers · asked by Nicholas S 2

Many people let me down. I feel like I got a curse because my dad let me down a lot and now all my guy friends let me down. So this saturday, I suppose 2 be meeting this guy name John but I don't know if he's really gonna come because I usually get let down. He tells me he's coming that day but I don't know. Should I go through with this and get hurt again or should I think positive and think everything gonna work out fine?

2007-05-18 05:14:19 · 6 answers · asked by Inneed 2

and blind dates, so far I have met 3 gentlemen, what I have noticed is these gentlemen have been single a long time, all have set ways but seem nice, anyone else out there want to share expereinces?

2007-05-18 05:12:10 · 11 answers · asked by Jdot 1

2007-05-18 05:10:52 · 1 answers · asked by bj 1

most white guys that i have kissed or made out with arent as good of kissers asmy mexican, salivadorian or other latino guys that i have kissed.

2007-05-18 05:00:37 · 8 answers · asked by bea m 1

i met a woman online who told me she was twenty. her myspace page says she is 21. could it be a sting like that one on nbc? could i already be in trouble or is it okay? i agreed to meet her for this saturday now im very scared. im a good person and dont want to do anything wrong, not to mention be arrested. someone please help. (we havent had a sexual conversation although we did talk a little about relationships) i met her online through a craigslist add which she responded to

2007-05-18 04:57:39 · 47 answers · asked by ukuleleninja e 1

We've been together 5+ years. Long story she was away for a year and a half in europe. Came we got back together. Stable relationship we have a 3 year old together. We recently been talking marriage and i want to. When we first met she said she had been with 7 dudes. About 8 months ago she revelead there were really 16 or 18 fellows. I'm tried looking past it but it lingers in my head every now and then. I dont know what to do. Any suggestions. I'm no angel i've been with 6 other females. I dont want to tell her its bothering me.

2007-05-18 04:51:20 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous