I have been talking to this guy for a year it was long distance till recently when he moved back home. But since he's been back home he isn't the same no calls or anything. I gave it a month to let him settle in with out saying anyhting, but i haven't seen him once since he's been home. I wrote him a email telling him that i need to move on and i can't do this anymore.That I feel that he is heart isn't into it anymore, and we can remain friends. Did I do the right thing? Or did i act to fast???
2007-05-18 05:49:14 · 13 answers · asked by dreamangel1102002 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you did the right thing. It's already been a month and he hasn't made an effort to see you. Even if he did move back, it should have taken maybe a week or two for him to settle down enough to at least visit you once. I would try and tell him again that you are going to move on because it doesn't seem like he's in it anymore. If he still doesn't say anything, I'd just forget about him and move on because he's probably done that himself.
2007-05-18 06:27:22 · answer #1 · answered by angelicasongs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You waited a month? If he was interested, he would have met you with in the first week. So you did the right thing. Why wouldn't he want to settle with you there? I am sure he had some settling to do, but couldn't he have at least taken a few minutes to call you or e-mail you? I don't care how busy I get, I make time to call or e-mail someone I care about, especially if I just got into town and haven't seen them in a year.
2007-05-18 06:01:46 · answer #2 · answered by George P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you did that right thing. You guys have spent so much time apart and both of you have grown as different people. He may not be the same person as you once knew. Moving on at a time like this is the best thing to do. Find yourself someone new who you can relate to and spend time with.
2007-05-18 05:55:03 · answer #3 · answered by The_Morbid_One 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, how 'involved' was he while you were in your long distant relationship? If he said he wanted to pursue an 'in person' relationship when he moved back, then dumping him is the right thing. Have you went to his house to say hi? He might have been just leading you on.
2007-05-18 05:53:16 · answer #4 · answered by nascar4me8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now, my dear you made a "Universe size" mistake there by telling him that you are needy. He thinks he has got you & is taking his time.
ARE YOU A WOMAN OR WHAT?
Its not a girl's job to call him & say these things. Be the woman & hire a freind and tell her to tell him indirectly that "you are sick."
If he comes running to you then he does love you but only sends you a message or something then more work needs to be done.
Feel free to mail me.
2007-05-18 05:57:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, You did the right thing. If he wanted a relationship with you, he would have been in contact right away. Time to move on....
Good luck!
2007-05-18 05:55:41 · answer #6 · answered by joeysdudes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing. If you weren't happy with the way things were going then move on.
2007-05-18 05:55:18 · answer #7 · answered by Lookin-2-Talk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you did, if he was truely crazy about you he would have been so excited to see you. It should have been one of the first things he did when he came back.
2007-05-18 05:54:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just do the right thing..you give what he needs..you give him already a space to do what he needs to do but he did not appreciate it..all you gonna do is move on..you can find who is more than him..just wait..
2007-05-18 05:58:13 · answer #9 · answered by cane_danao2001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. Something isn't right with him--sounds like he is avoiding you.
2007-05-18 05:55:28 · answer #10 · answered by felix8462 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋