I read some things my girlfriend wrote online and I'm not sure what to think at the moment. I think I really hurt her. I don't want to go into details very much but I told her Thursday night I would not be attending her prom because my two best friends were coming to visit me. I told her we could still go to my prom and I thought she'd understand...apparently i don't think she does.
"Dear You"
"Scott,
I will never understand how you had the nerve to hurt me like this on Thursday. The night before my prom! And how you are not even bothered by your selfish acts towards me. I hope after all of this is over it hurts real bad. I hope one day maybe not soon you realize you lost someone who loved you and truly cared deeply about you and would give anything for you."
-Tonight i am not attending my senior prom. Today I am sitting here more hurt then I've ever been by a guy in my entire life. Today I want to die. Today he lost me forever.....
2007-05-18 05:32:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she wrote a second note this morning....
"Today Tops the Cake"
I don't think ever in my entire life have I cried as much as I have today. I don't think ever in my entire life has one person hurt me as badly as I was hurt today. I don't think ever have I felt so much pain as I do right now. I don't think I can cry anymore I feel like I've cried enough. My senior year has been ****...and this just tops the cake for me. I didn't even go to school I was so upset so therefore I can't even go to prom if I wanted to but honestly, i don't think I'd want to knowing he wouldn't be there with me. Knowing he doesn't care and knowing the only person I'd be dancing with is myself. I've never hurt so badly and I never thought that the one person who was supposed to be there forever would just walk out with no good-bye no I'm sorry no nothing. I never thought that the one person who one day could say he loved you the next say " I don't care." I've never hurt so badly as I have today.
2007-05-18 05:33:07 · update #1
from reading those two notes she wrote how hurt do you think she is? and do you think she will ever take me back?
2007-05-18 05:33:38 · update #2
How many times are you going to ask this question?
You ditched her the night before her senior prom so that you could hang out with the guys. You screwed up big time, and the level of insensitivity you showed her will be extremely difficult for her to forgive or forget.
2007-05-18 05:39:23 · answer #1 · answered by Bahmo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she shouldn't take you back. It's not going to the prom that was important, it's was going to her prom. You made the wrong choice, and only a blockhead didn't see that it was the wrong choice. However I have a feeling you knew that going in and still did it. Therefore you need to understand why you choose to take the risk of losing her. You have issues that you don't want to tell...
2007-05-18 12:38:43 · answer #2 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude u missed the important night of a womans life that is our dream come true of going to the prom.I had the same problem what u did to her may not be forgiven i didnt forgive my ex of what he did to me.It hurts alot if i was her i wouldnt forgive but i guess it depends how much u love each other u hurt her bad i wouldnt ditch my love for my friends.
2007-05-18 12:41:55 · answer #3 · answered by kim l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look man it was her senior prom you cant tell her the night before that you are not going your friends will alwyas be there but you prom is only around once. u need to call her and talk to her about it make it up to her my prom is tomorow and i cant go because my boyfreiend is to old and i really wish i could but i cant go with a nother guy. i know how she is felling **** your friends go be with your girl
2007-05-18 12:39:58 · answer #4 · answered by britt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try winning her heart back.there must be some space left in her heart just for you...but it will be a long and painful moment to get her back. be strong. do something in exchange of what you had done to her.like,do something sweet such as giving her roses every day with an apology card, holding a party for her etc.. make her feel wanted to be in love again with you.
2007-05-18 13:13:20 · answer #5 · answered by yuna ku3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude you are a ***. you should not have done that.. you know how important her prom was to her.. i don't give a **** about your friends, you can see them some other time, and they should understand anyway... you ****** up bad
2007-05-18 12:37:20 · answer #6 · answered by wonder 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude what did you do???? You better man up and tell her how sorry you are, before you indeed lose her forever
2007-05-18 12:37:42 · answer #7 · answered by CeCe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you hurt her it's over. get over it my friend.
2007-05-18 12:36:51 · answer #8 · answered by LiL Chrissy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋