but not hurt her feelings? i might be better off just lying. i was thinking about saying hey, do u wanna hold off going out for right now, i kinda dont feel comfortable going out, so that way we just chill sometimes, and i hope that she forgets, my friend tells me thats prolly the best way so nobody gets offended, its an easy let down.
2007-05-18 05:50:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't look at it as dumping her, look at it as ending a relationship and going forward. it is better to hurt her with the truth then to lie, lying today seems to be a standard and we as humans need to fess up and stop taking the nasty way out. you will feel better and you will be a better person for telling the truth
2007-05-18 05:58:09 · answer #1 · answered by Magical 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all say the classic line "babe we have to talk" thenvslowly tell her that you like her a lot but she is just not the kind of person that you see in your dreams and that she is very nice and attractive and shouldn't have to be held down by you. if you say this usually she will not feel hurt. tell her that she have a long life ahead of her and that she should find a guy better off than you are and at the end say that you are truly sorry for breaking up with her but you hope you will still remain friends with her.
2007-05-18 13:06:31 · answer #2 · answered by Jason Z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way to break up with someone without there being some hurt feelings. Lying won't help you or her. Just tell her in a nice way that it is time for you both to go seperate ways. Don't try to give her all sorts of bogus excuses. Just tell her that you have to follow your heart, and it is best for both of you to let this relationship end.
2007-05-18 12:54:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the truth. Don't be mean and nkick her to the curb. She's going to be sad no matter what but it's better to just be honest. Do it to her face and be as nice as you can. Tell her you wanna be friends even though you guys have broken up. Tell her you still love her just in a different way. You'll be fine, just try not to make her hate you.
2007-05-18 12:57:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the world of dating feelings are going to be hurt. If you want to avoid this as much as you can then just simply put it all on you. Take the blame for it and keep your mouth shut about the other's problems and just move on, don't hang out.
2007-05-18 12:55:24 · answer #5 · answered by iirtrade 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont' have too, just stop talking to her. Avoid her calls and don't return any. She will get the hint after a while or better yet break-up with you. That way she can be the bad guy instead of you.
2007-05-18 12:55:06 · answer #6 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends on the girl. Some don't get it unless you make everything clear. You don't have to hurt her feelings but you may not want to leave any doubt either. Just be honest and not wishy washy.
2007-05-18 12:56:02 · answer #7 · answered by joker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say "Sweetie, I just don't feel like dating right now. I'm still to young to be serious with just one girl, I should be hanging with my buds and I really should be concentrating more on my studies." Tell her that she should feel free to date other people, and if some day your paths should cross again then you can date again.
2007-05-18 21:18:10 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Twinkle♥Toes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man just tell her strait up.Say baby i know we done been through alot but i don't think its gonna work out because of what ever. then tell her im sorry im not trying to hurt you in anyway, but im not into this relationship! Its not good to lie, so don't lie tell the truth. Tell her that y'all can still be friends if she wants.
2007-05-18 13:00:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its clear you still young need experience man
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2007-05-18 12:57:58 · answer #10 · answered by igia g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋