Me and my ex are back talking and we had sex like 3years ago and he wanna have sex with me again I want to too but Im thinkin should I make him wait, because we are in the process of hooking back up
2007-05-18 07:00:07 · 30 answers · asked by Ms.Donna 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WAIT. Sex changes everything, if you've had it then you know. It's been a long time since you and he did anything like that, whats waiting a little longer going to do. Be sure that you want each other for reasons more than just the physical, if you jump into bed to early it may only end up hurting you both.
2007-05-18 07:03:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I feel its nice to have a guy there on the sidelines for you, but you need to give yourself a chance to meet more people and have a better choice, don't take this as not being putting him aside, but more of giving each other space to explore, he seems to have done much of the exploring, if he really wanted you back, i'm very sure he wouldn't have done what he did over the summer. So i'm not asking you to be a floozy but take your time, University or there on, will always have opportunities to meet people and the older you get, the better quality people come along, so keep being friends to many of both sexes, you don't really need to get involve at all, concentrate on studies, graduate, get a career, before really deciding on who you want to be with for life. Relationships are a passing phase during the school years, many high school sweethearts no longer remain together, why? because it is and I can't really explain it. My best guess is that marriage plans without having the pressures of life in the real world tends to diminish the love, mainly because love ain't everything. In the working world, when one is independent, that person stands a higher chance to maintain a relationship, to shower you with real love and able to handle pressure without starting to blame or argue over little things. I know its cool to be in a relationship and all, but keep it simple while still in study, else every little emotional upset could ruin your future. Hope an old man's advise or you could say mistakes in life could help you make the right choices.
2016-05-22 08:27:58 · answer #2 · answered by mildred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a guy, If I'm hookin back up with my ex, I want the sex. That's what I'm after. Feelings and all of that would come later...if at all. Girls want relationships, guys want hardcore sex.
If you want to keep him, make him wait. If he waits it out, you know it could last for a bit.
2007-05-18 07:03:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You got divorced in the first place because you didn't communicate very well. Talk with your ex, not us.
Brutally honest conversations are the cornerstone of successful relationships.
If you want to put it back together then learn how to communicate. If you are just wanting to have a power struggle and have a friend with benefits, then it doesn't matter....
2007-05-18 07:05:17 · answer #4 · answered by flyfish_777 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you're having doubts you should pay attention to them. Think about what it was that broke you guys up in the first place. If things have changed and the relationship will be long term or for life then that is something you should talk to him about.
2007-05-18 07:04:56 · answer #5 · answered by astroeyes2000 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the guy. I'll date a girl whether she has sex with me before or after we date. But he may just be pretending to be interested to get in your pants, so you may want to wait to avoid getting your feelings hurt.
2007-05-18 07:03:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ms Donna
I think you should do what you want to, if you want to sleep with him again then do so, but take care of Ms Donna and make sure you find out where he's been at the last 3 years so Ms Donna doesn't end up catching anything. Be careful and think of your own happiness if this will make you happy then go for it.
2007-05-18 07:03:10 · answer #7 · answered by Juleette 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
YOu're either hooking up or you're not..there's no "process of hooking up"...I wouldn't be dishing out anything just because you both "want" to have sex* If that's all it is..there's no use hooking back up* GoodLuck~
2007-05-18 07:07:36 · answer #8 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't have sex until you're either back together, or have decided not to be together for good. otherwise the process of hooking back up will suddenly slow wayyy down.
2007-05-18 07:02:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I like the second answer. SPongebob lol.
Make him wait.
But be careful as to he dont feed you a bunch of crap jsut to get it.
If he shows you he really wants to be with you. Hed wait right?
A good one will wait.
2007-05-18 07:04:36 · answer #10 · answered by baby_rost 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋