Singles & Dating - 28 March 2007

i find this question fascinating. while with my exboyfriend, i felt as if our connection and bond was so close that it would be impossible to replicate or better it. we were so in love and knew each other on such an intimate and un-self-conscious manner that i started thinking we were soulmates, even though id never really thought about the term before him. he made me believe in the idea of serendipity. but when i asked my exboyfriend about his feelings on the topic, he was hesitant to agree with me, and i don't think it was because he didn't think i was his soulmate, but that he didn't think that they exist at all. given the social stigma placed on sentimental males in our society, i think his hestitance was normal. but sometimes, especially now that im not with him and i feel the absence of that connection so painfully, i wish that boys (or, my boy) believed in the idea of the one perfect someone for you and knew its resilience. what do you think? is this ridiculous? or is there more

2007-03-28 18:57:46 · 7 answers · asked by PBJgeorge 1

My ex have been telling my fren that i am a heartless women, i am a liar and i like to hide this and that etc.. By the way, he is a POSSESSIVE man who always like to ctrl my life(girl out there, im sure u know how's the feeling) and so i break off with him by all my means. But, on the another hand he came to me and said that he hope that i can give him another chance. If then why still want to bad mouth me!? I hate him so hypocrite.

2007-03-28 18:56:18 · 9 answers · asked by Its me! 3

there is this girl who looks at me in class and whenever we make eye contacted she smiles at me. what does it mean?

2007-03-28 18:56:14 · 11 answers · asked by artie garcia 1

i like this guy and he likes me,
but he likes other people more.

what can/should i do?


btw i go to a small school, so there are pretty limited options for "moving on"

2007-03-28 18:55:41 · 2 answers · asked by karl z 1

only who have picture and only single girl response..and she hav to any messenger for chatting..:)

2007-03-28 18:53:42 · 7 answers · asked by samrat_nokia 1

[alcohol] It's really unattractive - do they even realize that?

2007-03-28 18:53:18 · 26 answers · asked by destroyedradio 5

assume you already know the girl...

"i like you alittle and i'd like to get to know you better, but uh what's your deal? you got a boyfriend?"

2007-03-28 18:52:16 · 14 answers · asked by waddle02 2

how many of you would actually give up your current life (jobs, friends and everything), and move to a different country with a girl you like?

2007-03-28 18:51:55 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

makes x amount of money and I..dont.. but can be so much more fun in a real way..like dancing in the living room. Do I have a chance with most or is it all about the money?

2007-03-28 18:51:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am from a latin country and when i came here everything was different!!.. I have a 'friend' that I like, we hooked up a couple of times and he told me he likes me, the problem is that he doesn't ask me to be his girlfriend... I think that he just likes me as a 'friend'... but some friends tell me that guys from usa are like that. is there any guy who wants to explain this to me?

2007-03-28 18:50:42 · 11 answers · asked by Lulu 2

but i dont no how to come at her like i dont no how to ask her out how do i come at her

2007-03-28 18:50:12 · 5 answers · asked by diacfludwtfwm 1

I slept with this guy I have liked for awhile now. It's been two days and hasn't called. I wont call him because I know he knows my number. How long should I wait before I give up?

2007-03-28 18:49:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-28 18:49:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think you're amazing, and whoever knows you are lucky!!!

Or did you already know this?

2007-03-28 18:48:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

hi all

my best frient just broke up with her Fiancé of 2 years as she cought him cheating. to try and cheer her up i would like to cut her a CD. any sugestions on good break up songs?

i need feel-good girl songs and, as bad as this sounds, songs about being better off single and songs that ditch men in general.

so far i have 5 although i dont know who sings them all.

1. Natasha bedingfield-single
2. girls just wanna have fun
3. Irreplaceable
4. strong enough-cher
5. i will survive

i want to start off the C.D with depressing songs-i think she needs a good cry-and end it with happy life-moves-on type songs.

2007-03-28 18:48:41 · 5 answers · asked by Nal 2

There is a girl who is in my bf's class that is crazy about him. She calls him all the time, invites him to go out, tries to work with him on all projects, and she knows he is with me! It drives me crazy! I'm so jealous and he just thinks its cute and i'm making this all up. I'm not! She even makes and brings him food, just for him, no one else. Is there anything I can do to get her to back off?

2007-03-28 18:48:08 · 10 answers · asked by Freaked out 3

I don't know her e-mail address & nothing other else ..i'm not joking I'm serious so pls help me..

2007-03-28 18:47:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

So finallly I asked one of my best girlfriends what would be the chances of us becoming more than friends and she said pretty good. unfortunately this happened over MSN but we need to hide this from her best friend who also likes me. now that we know that we like eachother more than friends. This is until sunday haha from girls in this situation should I now be putting my arm around her etc or will this freak her out she put it out there she wants to date me advice??? we both know we are going to start dating I just dont wanna mess anything up at this point I like her alot. more than infatuation

2007-03-28 18:47:20 · 3 answers · asked by tobosahge 2

I tried to hint a little bit of disapproval when my ex told me he quit his part time job? and now he hasn't responded in three days when we had been responding to each other's mails within a day. I just asked him "Have you made any friends at work?" He wrote back: "[my name], I have quite a bit of money right now. [my name], I quit my part time job this month. [my name], did the doctor recommend that you start working full time in Japan?" I just told him that I'm working in Japan from May; he congratulated me. We have agreed to see each other when I return to Japan next month. I wrote back: "the doctor is recommending that I make my own decision. The doctor is not making opposition to my working in Japan. If you quit your part time job, do you have time on your side? How do you spend your time every day?" Now he hasn't responded in three days! I wanted to hint a bit of disapproval, for his sake, because I want to encourage him to try to be productive, but on the other hand this is a

2007-03-28 18:46:34 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just don't get it ! I admit defeat . answer me this......what makes woman STAY happy ?

2007-03-28 18:46:06 · 14 answers · asked by brother_nature_2006 2

The girl i'm obsessed with has a boyfriend but we see each other and have sex. I asked her one day when we got into a fight why do you still come and see me if you love him. She said she loves him more than she loves me but i make her feel beautiful and wanted. So i asked her why dont you leave him and come with me and once again i got i love him to much to leave him. Since then i'm refusing to see her while she is still with him . I know i dont love her i'm just obsessed with her but i'm missing her so badly it hurts. and its effecting me to the point where i'm depressed and all i think of is her. Shes everything i want in a girl except the cheating part and lately i feel like i will never meet anyone else.

2007-03-28 18:45:50 · 5 answers · asked by Rodney, j 1

I met this woman she is madly in love with me. True. She does so much for me, loves me and cares for me. But I do not seems to care for her, and hurt her feeling all the time. She gets so depressed, and suffer so much sadness. I told her from the beginning, lets be friends, and take it slow. Please be patient with me, etc. But we keep having sex which confuses our relationship. We even talked about not having sex, but we are both weak. She wants me all the way, and told me she is passionately in love with me. She is so wonderful and loving, but I just can not fall in love with her. I have never met anyone who treat me so kindly and loving me so much deeply. So, I am also sad, scared, scared to hurt her, scared to loose her, and scared I will never meet anyone...I've dated many, but nothing lasted. I suffer anxiety and depression, most people do not understand, nor want "trouble" like that in relationship. Well, I also know many who has issue and illness but in love, dating, or married.

2007-03-28 18:43:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 32 and have an wonderful husband of the same age.We've been married for 7 years and he's truly exceeded all my expectations of married life.He's always told me he would do absolutely anything for me but if I were to ever cheat on him,that'd be a deal breaker for him.My husband travels every few months on business leaving me alone for 1-2 weeks at a time with nothing to do but shop and socialize.He's always had an issue with me having my ex boyfriend who was at one time his best friend in my life.I chose my husband over the ex and that effectively ended the friendship.I've had no contact with the ex out of respect for my husband but when the ex recently invited me to attent a fundraiser with him while my husband was away I couldn't refuse.With the help of a little champaign I ended up sleeping with the ex.If you were my ex and you cared about what I though of you,would you tell my husband anyway just to rub it in?

2007-03-28 18:42:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a really great friend, and she and I have been friends for years. You couldn't ask for a better friend. However, when I like a guy, they tend to like her instead. In fact, most of the guy friends I have, I have because they had a crush on her and ended up meeting, and becoming friends with, me in the process. I told myself that they like her for the same reason that we're friends, and if I enjoy her company I'll get over it and realize that our friendship is above all this guy stuff. It's not like she's mean, she's very mature about all of it ( she never returns their advances, and makes it clear that she's not into them like that). For a while I did really well, and when we went out, I enjoyd her company and just settled on the fact that I could get guys later. However, a guy I liked showed up one night when we were hanging out and made it quite clear that he was there for her. I was mad, she kept asking if I was OK...I don't know how to be better about all this?

2007-03-28 18:41:45 · 4 answers · asked by Alice 2

or do all men with or without good careers can all turn out to be jerks? I just never had the opportunity to date a professional such as a lawyer, doctor, policeman, fireman or medic.

2007-03-28 18:41:25 · 2 answers · asked by Dreamyeyes 1

2007-03-28 18:40:41 · 6 answers · asked by juniper 4

My girlfriend is upset and not talking to me . how long will she last ? she is crochetting on the sofa and I'm hanging out in yahoo. Someone out there must know something about these things ..How long will she give me the silent treatment ?

2007-03-28 18:39:37 · 4 answers · asked by brother_nature_2006 2

I have been having sex for quite a few years now, yet it still hurts me every now and then. With my first partner, we were each others first and I was my current partners first. I know everyone will say "Go to a doctor" but I have done that already and they cant help me. I have tried lubricant, but it stings and doesnt help at all. The weird thing is, sometimes I dont hurt and sometimes I do, what could be wrong with me??

2007-03-28 18:38:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

How can I be good at social conversation and be comfortable with people I am with, especially in a group situation at dinner table. I just feel like I am an idiot says odd things or just be dead silent since I am so terrified to say something. Same with visiting some one's home, I feel so odd and uneasy while I am staying over friends house, just do not know how to act around. If I try to be just me, it seems irritate hell out of everyone. I have had a nice friend came to stay, she was wonderful and so much fun. She also stayed with my other friends house, everyone loved her. I guess because she was comfortable with her self, and has a great social skill which has been developed since child, its a built up process. I missed all that since I have been always suffering from social anxiety disorder. I was always odd one, but popular in school, cause I was so odd. But I am a 40 year old mature adult, I can not be odd and be a class clown like when I was 15.

2007-03-28 18:37:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i put my picture on this site for fun to have it rated, on a 1-10 scale my average is like a 4... i mean a 4!!!! a 4 is like butt ugly , am i really that bad?do people give low numbers on those sites just to be funny or to make people feel bad?i know im no brad pitt but i cant be a 4 :-( ... just be honest and JUST GIVE ME WHAT NUMBER U THINK I AM and if u wanna give stupid answer go somewheres else ... this is my myspace, and no im not doing to to give it out i could care less bout that $HIT... http://www.myspace.com/17185526 thanks for your opinion and im not a mean person in the picture i just dont smile im really a sweetheart!!!

2007-03-28 18:34:54 · 16 answers · asked by ctdude24 2