There is a girl who is in my bf's class that is crazy about him. She calls him all the time, invites him to go out, tries to work with him on all projects, and she knows he is with me! It drives me crazy! I'm so jealous and he just thinks its cute and i'm making this all up. I'm not! She even makes and brings him food, just for him, no one else. Is there anything I can do to get her to back off?
2007-03-28 18:48:08 · 10 answers · asked by Freaked out 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Jealousy spurns on more attention, go up to her and tell her if she wants your boyfriend she can have him if that is her intent Either he knows she likes him and is playing stupid or he is actually stupid to the situation. Tell him that you talked to her and whatever happens, happens...you don't care anymore. A man is not worth fighting over unless his is your #1, even then...no man is worth losing sleep over. It worked for me...
2007-03-28 18:56:24 · answer #1 · answered by Chrys23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah...I'm having the same exact problem right now...this girl's all over my boyfriend...yet he has the balls to tell her to back off....
Buuuut....what I did before he began telling her to leave him alone, I kindly told her to back off, and then she didn't listen, then I got more angry about it...but if you get too worked up about it, that'll give her what she wants....
what ever you do, do NOT break up with your boyfriend, and try doing "things" like making out or whatever in front of her face....that's what I always do. :P
Good luck!
2007-03-28 18:53:37 · answer #2 · answered by Frailyn Dresden 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your bf and tell him how you feel about the girl classmate, if he cares about you he will talk to the girl to stop and if he doesnt, he enjoys what the other girl is doing so they are bound to hook up ferther.
For your case you cant confront her unless she does,then fight back he will have to choose from the two. Good luck
2007-03-28 19:36:01 · answer #3 · answered by Musumba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember, your target isn't the girl, but you boyfriend. If you try to warn that girl, your boyfriend may think that your Meany. What you need to do is grab your boyfriend's heart. Don't do anything to the girl, love isn't a guilt.
2007-03-28 19:00:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell it to her face that she is too close to him, and that if she doesnt back off, theres gonna be problems. Then sit down with ur bf, and tell him how you honestly feel, about how he reacts to her, and that he also needs to tell her to back off.
Good Luck :)
~J
2007-03-28 18:52:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
HE needs to talk to her, NOT you. Thats not your job,.... and if you do,... it makes him look stupid,.... that he didnt do it himself. Let him be the man. When a man shuts a girl out,.... very rarely will the girl continue,.... if she does,... then take your claws out.
2007-03-28 18:53:24 · answer #6 · answered by Photographer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her... and tell her to BACK OFF!!!!!
If you trust ur BF then there shouldn't be any problems...
And if there is... Then his not worth it..
2007-03-28 18:51:26 · answer #7 · answered by purple_85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BEAT THE **** OUT OF HER. A FEW *** WHOOPINS AND SHE WILL BE MORE THAN HAPPY TO ATTACH HERSELF TO THE NEXT MALE THAT PASSES HER A SECOND GLANCE!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-28 18:52:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the only one who can do anything about it is your boyfriend!!!! she wouldnt continue doing all this if he isnt excepting it!
2007-03-28 18:51:49 · answer #9 · answered by Jay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u culd possibly....
SLAP A HO!!!
2007-03-28 18:53:08 · answer #10 · answered by sheldon p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋