I slept with this guy I have liked for awhile now. It's been two days and hasn't called. I wont call him because I know he knows my number. How long should I wait before I give up?
2007-03-28 18:49:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, i dont cook. my fault for being dumb and sleeping with him.
2007-03-28 18:55:01 · update #1
I have heard I am great in bed...
2007-03-28 19:00:31 · update #2
Stock up on the condoms and go to town. Maybe the next one will call. Then again, Maybe you should stop being so damn easy and you will get the respect you seek.
2007-03-28 18:56:50 · answer #1 · answered by relintles1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the guy. If the guy's an asshole, he'll know you're waiting for him to call, so he'll delay calling, thinking that will cause you to want him more, or think about him more. Most times, that could be a week or more. (Sadly, I know this from my brother doing this to women.)
If he's a nice guy, which honestly, I doubt, he should call you by tomorrow and have a GREAT explanation as to why he didn't/couldn't call you the next day. But if you really want to, call him, or preferably, ask him to meet you somewhere, so you can ask him point blank, what's going on. And if you're face to face, you can see his reaction and gauge if he's worth you're time or if he's a loser.
2007-03-28 19:01:19 · answer #2 · answered by SweetMahogany 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can just keep yourself occupy and not think about it until he called if he doesn't in like a few more days Call him he may be feeling as awkward and unsure about everything as you are
He may not think you want to hear or speak to him again so after a few days call him you can pick up from the conversation whether he wanted to speak to you or not if he tries to keep it short then you know the answer
Good luck
2007-03-29 00:45:01 · answer #3 · answered by canielany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no formular that says if he sleeps with you he should be the first to call. You should call him what if he is in trouble and he cant call you.
When you call him try to find out why he has not called you lately. On the other hand it depends, is he the one who normally calls or you call. If he always calls and after sleeping with you no more calls then he was interested in only sleeping with u nothing else. Communication very vital in a relationship.
2007-03-28 19:22:18 · answer #4 · answered by Musumba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear letty G
Dump that guy and next time pick a winner. Watch a guy with other girls to see how he well act to you. I can not believe girls do not ask his last girl friend how he is. He well be different with me NO NO hell no he well be the same with you as he was with his last girl friend. I would have sent Roses to the place where the most people are that you know.Was you any good in bed. If you say yes dump that guy and next time pick a winner. Happy hunting for a winner.
2007-03-28 18:59:23 · answer #5 · answered by kiss4u 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just call him. how he reacts will tell you exactly where he's at. if you wait you might get left without an explanation. guys do that kind of sh*t. so avoid the not knowing, pre empt it by calling him. if he reacts all awkward that might mean there wont be another rendezvous. if he's cool you can make plans to hang out. either way you'll know where you stand.
2007-03-28 18:54:52 · answer #6 · answered by asg_is_chillin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why should he call you? He already got what he wanted. Did you cook him breakfast before you left the house?
2007-03-28 18:53:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give up by how you should have. just give it a little more time. he may think you don't like him. and hes waiting to see if you call him.or hes shy. if you want to call him give it to him with both guns. ether way it gos
2007-03-28 18:57:43 · answer #8 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should have called the following morning...
At latest by that following evening...
He should have sent you flowers the next day...
2007-03-28 19:01:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he is smart, he won't call. that way, he is a jerk and will be respected by women, including you.
By all means, don't wait. There are plenty of jerks you can reward by having sex with them.
2007-03-28 18:53:28 · answer #10 · answered by fromorto12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋