i find this question fascinating. while with my exboyfriend, i felt as if our connection and bond was so close that it would be impossible to replicate or better it. we were so in love and knew each other on such an intimate and un-self-conscious manner that i started thinking we were soulmates, even though id never really thought about the term before him. he made me believe in the idea of serendipity. but when i asked my exboyfriend about his feelings on the topic, he was hesitant to agree with me, and i don't think it was because he didn't think i was his soulmate, but that he didn't think that they exist at all. given the social stigma placed on sentimental males in our society, i think his hestitance was normal. but sometimes, especially now that im not with him and i feel the absence of that connection so painfully, i wish that boys (or, my boy) believed in the idea of the one perfect someone for you and knew its resilience. what do you think? is this ridiculous? or is there more
2007-03-28 18:57:46 · 7 answers · asked by PBJgeorge 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think we all want to believe in soulmates, but in the presence of reality and how fragile a lot of relationships are nowadays (look at the divorce rate), a lot of people may be questioning that.
Personally, I believe soulmates exist and I think I'm lucky enough to have found the man whom I think is mine. He doesn't believe in soulmates, but loves me unconditionally nonetheless.
2007-03-28 19:10:01 · answer #1 · answered by Remi Hime 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing ridiculous at all about soulmates. I do believe I have a soulmate out there and I'm aching for him to find me.
Too bad that you broke up with your boyfriend. But you never know...if you're really soulmates then you're bound to be together again. Isn't that a wonderful thought?
And don't worry whether he believes in soulmates or not...he may call it by any other term...what is important is what you believe in your heart.
God bless.
2007-03-28 19:09:16 · answer #2 · answered by tin2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would really, really love to believe in the concept of having "soul mates" - to think that I was destined to be with someone before I even know what being in love with someone was like. Unfortunately, I too have had just about no luck with love lately.
2007-03-28 19:04:37 · answer #3 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys believe in having lot of soul mates - which means lots of sex with lots of chicks
Wilt Chamberlain had 20,000 soulmates
it's all about basic biology
2007-03-28 20:49:00 · answer #4 · answered by JET99 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think so i'm still looking 4 mine i had it once and let it go so i know what 2 look 4 this time
2007-03-28 19:03:56 · answer #5 · answered by crengle60 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes!
2007-03-28 19:01:47 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didnt but after I met her I do.
2007-03-28 19:06:47 · answer #7 · answered by saturn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋