My ex have been telling my fren that i am a heartless women, i am a liar and i like to hide this and that etc.. By the way, he is a POSSESSIVE man who always like to ctrl my life(girl out there, im sure u know how's the feeling) and so i break off with him by all my means. But, on the another hand he came to me and said that he hope that i can give him another chance. If then why still want to bad mouth me!? I hate him so hypocrite.
2007-03-28 18:56:18 · 9 answers · asked by Its me! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wait
so
what is your problem?
if you think he was bad the first time
why do you think he would change?
just forget him and move on
and tell him to stop bothering you
tell him what you think
2007-03-28 19:01:00 · answer #1 · answered by Babaloo S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you given in to him before... have you gotten back with him when he came crawling? if, NO, then good for you.. you are better than that and just say NO.. i see it too often that woman know it is 'wrong' or 'they should do it, get back together', but they do after a little sweet talking etc... this is called dependancy.. stay away from it... if you hate him and you think he is a hypocrite... and he is bad mouthing you, then why are you even considering getting back with him... say NO and stay firm; move on to the next man, even if it has to be a rebound, it is better than falling back into this "BLOODY HELL'S" arms... good luck.
2007-03-29 02:01:32 · answer #2 · answered by mrjoh2001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all madam the type of boy u faced is just like me.
now let me tell u the reasons behind it.
u see there r two kinds of boys
one is caring
and one is careless
and if u do look deep into his heart he is caring
why is he soo possesive and why is he doing this
cuz he wants to see u all protected and safe from things
and why he came back if he never cared.?
yes he does care but he just wishes to see u like the girl of his dream .
and u kno what if a girl does bcome like such type of boys want them too b then boy even gives his life away for her.
all u hav to do is to b honest nice and let him kno u love him.
dont call him ur bf call him ur lifepartner .
i also have same prob
but i wont tell what happend
some girls just dont realise why boy is so possesiv
ppl demand true love
but at same time they say oh i need freedom
what is this
u shud first of all think on urself r u playing ur role well like u shud not saking with other boys (means not even paying attention to them) and just keep him in ur thoughts .
well i kno no girl does if u really loved him u wudnt hav got sick but deal with it and solve it instead of leaving right away.
but he proved his love he came back and asked chance.
he is over protective and more the boy is over protective more it means he loves u.
thats all
or there r ppl who have wives but at same time they tell them to go hav sex with other men.
r they better or the one u hav
think on it such boys r really rare
2007-03-29 02:07:54 · answer #3 · answered by saad ahmed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This actually happened to me. My ex badmouthed me, but he wanted a second chance.
The only thing you can do is tell him you will not give him a second chance, and that you do not want to have any contact with him anymore.
2007-03-29 02:05:05 · answer #4 · answered by Krista Aya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks like he still loves you GO FOR IT BABY. you still dig him to.and that's the way a man tells all his Friends to make you bad and not him. that's the way of life. by him and so on.have a good one
2007-03-29 02:04:26 · answer #5 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably talking trash about the way you talk too if you talk the way you are spelling and wording things.
"I hate him so hypocrite"
HAHAHAHA!!!!!!
2007-03-29 02:05:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So ignore him. If you do not like him just forget about him and pretend that he does not exist.
2007-03-29 01:59:20 · answer #7 · answered by happy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone don't give him another chance you are smart for living him, and who cares if he lies to your friend your friend should know you better
2007-03-29 02:03:48 · answer #8 · answered by odd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick him to the curb.
2007-03-29 02:00:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋