Singles & Dating - 25 March 2007

So my bf, hes a great guy but he has a bad temper, he doesnt hit me or nothing but he gets really mad alot, only at me not his other friends (not bc of me jus takes it out on me) i have no problem being there for him no matter what but he asked one day y i was sad and i told him and he told me nicely not to talk about anything that has to do with problems to him cause he doesnt want to here it, but the other day i was sitting next to him and he was tlking to his friend cuz she was sad and he was listening and being nice and im not a natuarlly jealous person i could b overreacting but isnt a gf a higher priority. Every time i try to talk to him he yells at me and gets really pissed. He really would do anything to get me back and i do love him. How could i discuss this with him w.o him getting mad? What should i do/say? Please help. Thanks!

2007-03-25 06:43:03 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

hey im a seventh grader and at recess i ALWAYS play basketball. there are these 2 guys tht i like and it looks like they are always flirting with me. im not sure if they like me, but i think they do. i would ask them out but one of them broke up witha girl who really liked him, and she is my friend so if i ask him out then she will hate me. and the other person there is a girl who really likes him but if i ask him out then she will hate me. im really confused right now bc all of my friends are like, "ask him out!" wut should i do?

2007-03-25 06:42:59 · 13 answers · asked by Em 1

2007-03-25 06:42:39 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Right before Christmas, my fiance decided we should take a break. We are both fairly young (I'm 26, she's 23) and felt like she needed to take this time to experience life before she settles down. She has flat out said that she is not looking for another guy and doesn't want another guy. I feel like this is the woman of my dreams and the one I want to spend the rest of my life with. However, is it wise to remain friends on this break or should I give her space? I don't want to do anything that would potentially jeopardize our future relationship, if we have one. Any advice is welcome as I am at a loss for what to do!

2007-03-25 06:42:10 · 3 answers · asked by kandifan 1

Yes, you've guessed it, I'm single male looking for a female. So, some good answers please, so I can say Ya-hoo!! Thanks

2007-03-25 06:41:44 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

I will be 18 in august and my boyfriend is 22. Do you think he is too old?

2007-03-25 06:41:02 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

So my best friend dated this girl seriously for a year and they were about to move in together last summer and she 'took a break' from him suddenly. And a week before the break he told me she said there was a guy at her work named Andy who had a crush on her. Well a few weeks after the break she is living and dating a guy named Andy.

And then last January she was with this other guy Matt. So in five months since they broke up she's been with two other guys.

Anyone else think this seems kinda overdone? I mean you're in a yr relationship with a guy, you have sex with him, you're about to move in together, and then when you break up you're able to be with two guys in just five months post break up?

Do you think this girl ever cared about him? Is she just really severed with codependency issues? Is being with two guys in five months after a serious breakup normal? Living with a guy a few weeks after normal?

And then she tried to justify it saying she didn't have sex with the guy.

2007-03-25 06:41:01 · 4 answers · asked by Timothy 1

I've been dating this 30 year-old guy for almost a year now...and I really love and care about him. Throughout our relationship he's been going through a mid-life crisis and is extremely emotional. About six months into our relationship, he said he couldn't be with me because he needed time to get himself together. At first, I was hurt but I gave him a chance and stood by his side. We eventually worked things out and got back together. About a week ago, our relationship was having some problems and we were arguing a lot. He again, told me he needed time to get himself together. When he told me this, I was so hurt! Why does he keep needing breaks? So over the past week, I feel like I'm chasing him! He barely calls me or wants to see me. I would think he would want my support or be scared to lose me! So, after three days of making myself look like a fool, I told him off and announced that I want him out of my life. He hasn't contacted me in 3 weeks. Was I wrong?

2007-03-25 06:39:38 · 5 answers · asked by justasking 3

I im'ed a girl on match.com who I felt I had a lot in common with. We were on year apart in age, she loves music and teaches it as well to elementary school kids full time. I am studying to teach it as well. So, after saying our hi's, how are you's, I said, "So I see you're into music." She says, "yeah, well it's kind of a requirement." Now, is it me, or was that a snotty reaction on her part? The conversation didn't last more than 5 minutes after she claimed to have to go do her laundry. Was she snotty or did I say something stupid to gain a reaction like that?

2007-03-25 06:38:41 · 12 answers · asked by justellemJimsaidhello 1

I used like this boy ( lol i don't ne more ). then all of a sudden, he started hanging out with this other girl up until last Friday.
( the 23rd ) Then he just apoijized 2 me 4 not hanging out with me ne more. ( he said it ). I hav e his # and I'm not afraid 2 call him ( or maybe i am) but he said he'd call melast friday an dhe didn't. i saw him in church this morning and he was giving my juicey looks. what should i do now?

2007-03-25 06:38:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-25 06:37:53 · 7 answers · asked by vanilla 1

2007-03-25 06:35:04 · 9 answers · asked by Steady As She Goes 2

for Ladies. do like tall big guys or short Lil guys. me personally I love tall big guys. I don't know why . I recently start dating 6.6 or 6.5. and hes really big not fat but u know big. from south Asia and I don't know I think tall guys are sexy.and they can protected u. my best Friend she was making fun of him when she saw him with me for the first time. but I don't really care hes really nice and I like him a lot and Oslo I have this crush in south Asian guys by the way I am from north Africa so my skin is White. is this is normal. I am 5.3 21y and hes 6.5 23y. is this is normal???! and what about u Lady's u think big guys have big packages

2007-03-25 06:35:01 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-25 06:32:52 · 13 answers · asked by DAVID G 1

i haven't tried meeting anyone from the internet before...i always thought before it seems lame--desperate kinda thing yanno..but everyone is trying to get me to join some singles groups etc on the net...good idea or bad?..

2007-03-25 06:30:07 · 9 answers · asked by Jel 2

I am just wondering. What attracts a guy and why when I show him the attention he needs he just goes away. I'm an attractive girl and am a good person. I don't party nor drink and am still a virgin.. not saying these qualities make me good but this is an example I am giving. Please tell me what do guys want in a girl?

2007-03-25 06:29:44 · 11 answers · asked by Sweet_Elizabeth 2

i have serious dark circles problem since i was teen and it's getting worse with time, no matter how hard i tried they just stay. i wear makeup daily since i am so unconfident to go out without wearing it.. lately i have started to see a guy that i really like, he has never seen me without makeup and he keeps telling me that i'm pretty --- this makes me feel bad. i am wondering that sooner or later there will be someday that i don't wear makeup before him (eg. waking up in bed....), will i scare him off? any guy would like to share? :(

2007-03-25 06:28:49 · 15 answers · asked by EE C 1

My g/f is going to turn 20 and I just want to give her a good time for her birthday. I was wondering if anyone knew where I could take her like around Brea or LA. Thank's for your time, bye.

2007-03-25 06:28:36 · 6 answers · asked by MD 1

2007-03-25 06:27:58 · 3 answers · asked by freddy 5

2007-03-25 06:27:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am an Australian girl and have been dating my German boyfriend for 2.5 years. 1.5 years ago I made the decision to move to Europe to be close to him, and I found a University course in English only 2 hours away over the border. So far this arrangement has worked really well, and we've managed to see each other almost every weekend. The problem is that my degree is finishing in September and I've got no idea how we can be in the same place (or even this close) afterwards. He's unwilling to get a job at a non-German speaking company so early in his career, and my German is nowhere near good enough to get a job in Germany. So, I'm looking for jobs in the UK instead (it's still closer than Australia!) But the question is, even if we survive another year of distance, what happens then? Is there any way for this to work in the long run?

2007-03-25 06:27:39 · 7 answers · asked by MS1465 2

me and my bf are both 16
and are ready to have sex for the first time,
i am worreid as to how much it wil hurt,
and am worried about condoms splitting.
How should i bring it up?
and what do i do if it hurts?
should we carry on, or stop?

please help me!

thankyou

2007-03-25 06:26:52 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok. i really really like this guy at my school, & i think he likes me too, but i'm not sure. have any tips that i could do 2 mayb help him notice me a little more?

2007-03-25 06:26:52 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok this might sound trivial but my guy friend told me that his mate came round his place the other night and brought a drug with him. My guy friend said he tried a bit and may even do it again. As far as i know he's never done drugs before but i am worried about him. I have known him for nearly a year and he's been so lovely, i have deep feelings for him. But why would he go and do something like that, i thought he was getting his life back together. What do i do? He knows i'm not happy about it. I can't see how he would be trying to impress me cos he knows what i feel about drugs, i mean i even tell him off for smoking! Help!!

2007-03-25 06:26:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i found out that my babyfather has been cheating on me for the past four months. He swears to god that he was't cheating until i texted the girl whom he was cheating on me with and pretended as if it was him. She told me everything that happened between them how much they had sex, where and when. When he came in from work i gave him the phone with all the texts the girl send to me pretending as if it was coming from him. He was so surprised that he treatened to hurt me. He want to make it up but i refused as it keeps happening over and over.

2007-03-25 06:26:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

...is she still a virgin? we started to fool around, and i had it in the general area. now i have sex MANY times, so i know exactly where it was and what i was doing. i didnt even go a quarter of the way in, just enough to be on the tip of the inside. so w/out going all the way inside, nothing was bleeding, and nothing was expanded. i dont think i can say we had sex, but it came pretty close to it. so what is "a virgin no more" is it going inside at all, or all the way where it hurts and it could be bleeding as well?

2007-03-25 06:25:14 · 13 answers · asked by brianju 2

i've like this guy since i was 13! we've known eachother since i was 2! i'm 17 now. the last time we hung out we were together for over 7 hours! we havent seen eachother for like almost a year before that night. but the whole time he kept sayin i changed in a good way and we're like the same person. he dates other girls that treat him badly. people i work with say he always comes in looks around and if i'm not there leaves. when i talk about collage he jokes around and says he'll go with me. hes really protective over me. like if guys are lokking at me he'll hold my hand. he always wants to meet my ex boyfreinds or guys i talk about and wants to beat a guy up that i had sex with because the guy i like says he didnt treat me right. when he sees my friends and i'm not there he'll ask them how i'm doing. he stayed at my house for dinner once and said he's sick of chassing the girl. he wants her to chase him. and i want the guy to come to me first i'm sick of chassing. should i go 4 it?

2007-03-25 06:23:01 · 1 answers · asked by kaylia j 2

I recentyly meant a man here is the crisis i am 32 he just turn 50 we went out one time he is a manager where i work in a total different department.

He was engage for about 2 months they call it quits.< they only knew each other for three months. I don't wont to be a rebound fling. I know he has to drink after work everyday he makes me laugh when i am around him.

What should I do? leave his ole butt alone or just contiue to be a friend.

2007-03-25 06:22:46 · 5 answers · asked by the sweetest 2

meaning "i love you"without saying the words "i love you"as i say the words too many times in the day,i really cant help myself but the three words do get said quite a lot,well a hell of a lot actually.i want to say it all the time(which i do) but think it can take away that special meaning(not that it does)at special times,in other words i think i am over using the word and just want other words that do mean the same so i dont wear out the special 3 words....

2007-03-25 06:22:03 · 18 answers · asked by Sugarlump 3

okay so my bf has divorced parents so he spends 2 wks with dad, and 2 wks with mom. when hes at his moms, i can see him whenever we want, so we pretty much see each other every day. but when he goes to his dads, we dont see each other at all cause we are not allowed to. i am soo miserable and unhappy for 2 straight weeks and my bf KNOWs i am unhappy without him. but he never makes me feel like he still loves me or misses me. if he knows i am so unhappy, why doesnt he try to make me happy by letting me know he cares? i also already talked to him about this in the past and he said WHATEVER. weve been together for 2 1/1 years. is he worth being miserable? i am 17 by the way

2007-03-25 06:21:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous