hey im a seventh grader and at recess i ALWAYS play basketball. there are these 2 guys tht i like and it looks like they are always flirting with me. im not sure if they like me, but i think they do. i would ask them out but one of them broke up witha girl who really liked him, and she is my friend so if i ask him out then she will hate me. and the other person there is a girl who really likes him but if i ask him out then she will hate me. im really confused right now bc all of my friends are like, "ask him out!" wut should i do?
2007-03-25 06:42:59 · 13 answers · asked by Em 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go out with with the nerd in your math class the one with the huge glasses and make his day lol
2007-03-25 06:46:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just give it time. Anything real, and good is worth waiting for. Besides if he likes you (or the other dude) as much as you say, than you will get asked out soon. On a personal note, most guys sucked...that is until I met my husband. Don't worry too much either way. Since you are in Gr.7, I'm sure you will have many relationships before you find "the one".
2007-03-25 06:51:22 · answer #2 · answered by Luckylady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey
i'm a seventh grader too. you should ask the second guy out who wasnt dating anyone but that has someone else crushing on him too. theres really no excuse for her to hate u unless shes a good friend of urs that told you she liked him and confided in you. other than that there is no reason u should ask him out. if u are still skeptical then wait until the guys ask you out. that way, no one can hate you and you are not embarassed just in case the guys u thought liked u really dont like you.
by the way, u have recess? at my school we didnt have recess after elementary school
2007-03-25 06:49:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well what I would do in this situation....if the girls and you are like realy close...best friends then I wouldnt ask them out cause that would ruin your really great friendship over a guy.But if there just friends that arent super close and you guys are just friends and your not afraid to lose them at all then go for it. Oh yea before you do either decision ask the guys if they really like you.....if your afraid of getting turned down.And if you guys are best friends you and the girls I would go ask them if you can go ahead go ask them out.
2007-03-25 06:52:40 · answer #4 · answered by Dareian S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in 8th grade and you should just ask one of the guys out if the girls are really your girls then they shouldnt care who u go out with as long as your happy sure they'll be mad at you for awhile but they'll talk to you sooner or later
2007-03-25 06:52:24 · answer #5 · answered by Jakele K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out with your friends that went out with the guys if it would be OK to go out with him. if it is ask him out. if not wait a while til their hurt from breaking up is over and then ask him out.
Good luck!!
2007-03-25 06:49:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're young enough to learn this now - DO NOT ask boys out. Ever. If they want you, they'll come get you. You don't want it any other way. Think about it.
2007-03-25 06:48:32 · answer #7 · answered by Ade 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask him out! every decent looking guy has a girl who likes him somewhere. So hurry up!
2007-03-25 06:48:35 · answer #8 · answered by cosmicwoman 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well girls shouldnt ask out boys. if they really like you, they will be the ones asking you out. and if your girls are your friends, wont they go by "chicks before d*cks" haha
2007-03-25 06:47:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
nothing, the right time will come, just wait a couple fo years, you got a long way to go
2007-03-25 06:46:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋