So my best friend dated this girl seriously for a year and they were about to move in together last summer and she 'took a break' from him suddenly. And a week before the break he told me she said there was a guy at her work named Andy who had a crush on her. Well a few weeks after the break she is living and dating a guy named Andy.
And then last January she was with this other guy Matt. So in five months since they broke up she's been with two other guys.
Anyone else think this seems kinda overdone? I mean you're in a yr relationship with a guy, you have sex with him, you're about to move in together, and then when you break up you're able to be with two guys in just five months post break up?
Do you think this girl ever cared about him? Is she just really severed with codependency issues? Is being with two guys in five months after a serious breakup normal? Living with a guy a few weeks after normal?
And then she tried to justify it saying she didn't have sex with the guy.
2007-03-25 06:41:01 · 4 answers · asked by Timothy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK obviously she wasn't ready for committment, but the thing is SHE was the one who said she wanted to move in together. SHE was the one always talking about kids and stuff. They planned on the moving in together 8 months prior.
2007-03-25 06:58:49 · update #1
I'm sure she wasn't ready for committment, she just didn't know how to tell you. she wanted to play the field and not really make a committment to anyone. I think she cared enough that she was afraid to break his heart. I don't know what is normal and what isn't perhaps it is for someone who is commitment-phobic
2007-03-25 06:52:45 · answer #1 · answered by countrygrl278 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she's not ready for commitment...I mean if she really wanted to be in a really serious relationship with him, she would've stuck with him.....She's just afraid that if she stays with this guy she'll find someone else that she's thinks is better for her, and one day she's gonna realize she left him for the wrong reasons and she's gonna want him back.
2007-03-25 13:46:53 · answer #2 · answered by Shan_Shan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost i think you talking about it is kinda imature! It isnt your situation and your posting it online? This is so obvouis i dont know why you asked! Obvously she didnt care about him! And your right some people dont wanna be alone! Tell your friend to move on and get over it! Surely complaining about it wont change her ways! She has to want to change!
2007-03-25 13:47:01 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stay away from her and don't try to figure out what makes her tick.
2007-03-25 13:47:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋