I am just wondering. What attracts a guy and why when I show him the attention he needs he just goes away. I'm an attractive girl and am a good person. I don't party nor drink and am still a virgin.. not saying these qualities make me good but this is an example I am giving. Please tell me what do guys want in a girl?
2007-03-25 06:29:44 · 11 answers · asked by Sweet_Elizabeth 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, no virginity does not matter to me in a guy. What matters is that he is loyal, faithful, a good Christian man and is loving towards me. I am 21 years old by the way. To better explain myself I am a great person that cares for others way more than I care for myself. I stand up for what is right and I am really really understanding, fun and outgoing. Guys do like me but the one guy that I like does not like me anymore. He used to like me but I have bothered him so much by messaging him on Myspace. I have never meet this guy but I am in love with him. He told me that he loved me but then later changed on me. I pushed him away with revealing too much of how I felt towards him. What can I do to get the chance to meet him in person. If he first told me that he wanted to meet me but then I told him it was not the right time. I have been talking to him now for 11 months now. We even went to the same high school but we never had a class together. Give me advice on how to get him back.
2007-03-25 09:50:55 · update #1
bout the only thing i could say would be more then likely is sex.that all wemon and for some one to care for them and to hold them at night.and to keep them warm at the most.
2007-03-25 06:36:25 · answer #1 · answered by Dillon H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost, never say that by not drinking and staying a virgin is a bad quality. You are blessed to stay that. As for the question, as 26 year old male, I prefer someone whom I can have a direct, stimulating conversation. I know...I know...It's unorthodox. Guys nowadays are pigs...Plain and simple. If these guys in your school want one thing...and you are not willing to part with your virginity...Then move on. You sound like a smart girl. Go with your instincts. And if you don't find it now, be patient. Love typically finds you...not the other way. Suerte.
2007-03-25 13:34:21 · answer #2 · answered by facetofacerules 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It really does depend on the guy. Me personally, I like a girl who appreciates me, doesn't take me for granted, and is good fun. Someone who is honest, caring, laid back and affectionate. I have had a tough past so I like to know I really am important to the girl, and I don't mind her not being so strong as I have the experience to support her.
Some guys like girls who are less affectionate, stronger and independant.
Looks are also a lot more important for guys as they are for girls also. And guys like different types of looks.
2007-03-25 13:48:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im attracted when a girl isnt acting fake, be yourself thats the best quality in a person. With all the damn MTV and Paris Hilton crap polluting girls minds its hard to find someone who isnt influenced by that crap, atleast around here it is
2007-03-25 13:34:31 · answer #4 · answered by Inked 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends how old is a guy.... if he's 15-25 yrs then everything he'll think about is your boobs or but... it wouldn't matter if you're stupid or smart... then from 30 and so on they will think more about settling up- wanting to find a parner for life coz they can't date forever... they start to think about family and kids... and then it wouldn't matter do you look like some celebrity... of course they will be seeking a girl that has some specified look that he likes but first he will try to find a person who is not an ignorant idiot... except he's one too... because i'm sure you wouldn't like to live with that kind of one forever... so it all depends of age and if guy is mature for his age... hope i helped....
2007-03-25 13:41:59 · answer #5 · answered by fighter 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex. Physical attraction. Casual attitude. Ability not to embarrass him.
He wants to be able to show a girl off to both his friends and his family, yet have her be a freak in private.
2007-03-25 13:33:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys want hugs , kisses , physical attachment , girls should wear mini's
very understandable to his needs - half the time sx
2007-03-25 13:32:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
100 percent truth is sex
2007-03-25 13:32:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
challenge
2007-03-25 13:33:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
slavery
2007-03-25 13:31:43 · answer #10 · answered by nobody 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋