A few weeks ago, for various reasons, I woman I know told me that she wasn't attracted to me, never thought about a relationship, didn't feel any chemistry (just a mental attraction), she doesn't treat me any differently than her guy friends, etc. This came as a major shock to me, as she sent off many, many signals that she wanted to more than just friends. This was not my imagination either - lots of people made comments to each of us saying "you make a nice couple," "looks like you have a hot and heavy relationship," etc.
She knew I was interested in her, and said she was sorry for not having told me sooner. She claims that doesn't understand how her behavior could have misconstrued - she is just a naturally friendly person.
Here is what I am trying to understand - can she be that oblivious to what she is doing, even after many, many people say otherwise?
2007-03-17
10:40:48
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aggiesfan1982
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