My girlfirend decided to split up with me because I decided not to marry her only knowing her for a few days apart from a six months long online relationship.But she is still texting me, telling me that she worries about me, trying to help me with my things, even trying to find me a new girlfriend.. I dont get it.. I told you if she wants me there is still a chance for a relationship then she says, no , because I didnt want to marry her.. she still emails, texts her exes too.. what am i to do?
2007-03-17 10:55:17 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I mean i told HER not you lol.... thats a mistake sorry
2007-03-17 10:56:50 · update #1
just dont reply to any of her calls,texts,emails...sounds like loony material...i know it sounds really harsh..but if she likes you sooo much then why does she still text her exes. trust me the more you reply you are giving her false hope. just move on and ignore her and hopefully she will do the same.. before you end up giving into her whim and marrying her and ruining your life x good luck x
2007-03-17 11:04:04 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♥Cat Lady♥♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first let me tell you that you made the right decision of not marrying her after a short time of knowing her. I can tell you to ignore her, or tell her off, but that is obviously not the answer. I think the real thing is that she really does care about you. Maybe a little obsessivly. I think she is not wife material for you,but maybe a very close friend. Tell her to back down a little and give some space. Tell her you are not ready for a marriage, and that if she can't understand that, and respect your wishes, then you don't need her in your life. She obviously doesn't care about you, and is a bit selfish on her own needs. Good luck man.
2007-03-17 11:00:16 · answer #2 · answered by EternalBlueMemory 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that the contact is confusing you, then ask her to stop!
OR
Have you told her the reason for the marriage refusal? If you love her but just quiet rightly need some more time, then just tell her that your just not ready for that type of commitment YET, but your not ruling it out in the future.
If your against marriage per se, then you must tell her the reasons why, and ask her to accept that you can commit to someone without the legal formality that marriage is.
A possible compromise would be to offer to get engaged BUT on the understanding that marriage is way off in the future.
GOOD LUCK
2007-03-17 11:13:35 · answer #3 · answered by Lizzo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She acts as if she was a schizophrenic or something...? But if she decided to split up then and she says she will not change her mind then there is no point in trying to convince to act in a normal way in the first place, because she may act that strange all the time?? and who would want that?
2007-03-17 11:01:11 · answer #4 · answered by kamqx 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he receives excitement from in case you do not use any prolonged emotional speeches or raise any raw themes,or use excuses in simple terms be honest short and compassionate, do not use cliches in simple terms sit him down privately and clarify you imagine there is themes in the courting that cant be worked out and probably we ought to both be happier going our separate procedures im going away for a three hundred and sixty 5 days and picture it should be too hard to purpose to make this artwork lengthy distance even as issues are so hard now im sorry,i imagine its magnificent if we in simple terms flow on do not say you adore him/you'll continuously love him (care about him) i love some different person/you do not love me do in simple terms not provide pretend wish or disillusioned him anymore, the faster you do it the more advantageous powerful decrease off contact its magnificent in the lengthy time period strong success,
2016-11-26 19:23:55 · answer #5 · answered by veldkamp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
married after a few days? you were wise to get out. Ignore her texts and block her e-mails. Go out and get yourself a girlfriend and have a proper trelationship before you think of marriage. Tell her to get a life too!
2007-03-18 12:54:15 · answer #6 · answered by Lynne Wright 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to be in contact with her, just tell her that. Being honest and forward is usually the best way to handle things. Some people can stay friends with their exes, some can not. If you're not one of those people, I would just tell her that.
2007-03-17 10:59:29 · answer #7 · answered by chisaitorachan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say just get out of there! If shes that obessive about marriage then next thing you'll find out that your a dad! Honestly if she cared about you then she would try everything to make that relationship work but obv. shes more bothered about getting married.
2007-03-17 11:05:50 · answer #8 · answered by Nay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have always been suspicious of anyone man or woman wanting to get married too quickly - a generalisation, but I tend to think they are control freaks wanting to pin you down. Stay away from this one - she sounds like a bunny boiler.
2007-03-17 11:02:55 · answer #9 · answered by Bexs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she still cares about you obviously, but rejects the relationship based on what you don't want. She will keep calling/emailing etc. until she finds another guy. So, unless you're ready to commit, you aren't going to get back to with her. Sorry to bust your bubble.
2007-03-17 10:58:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋