My girlfriend is a very closed person and it take a lot for her to open up. Me on the other hand, I'm very communicative and expressive, which I always thought it was a good thing.
Don't get me wrong, I'm not whining, crying, nagging, and complaining about things. I'm also not arguing, blowing up, screaming, cursing or nitpicking everything little thing.
But if she does something that bothers me, and I tell her about it, her reaction is "well if I'm so horrible then I'll leave alone since I'm the worse girlfriend in the world". I know, very dramatic...
I do everything for this girl, and I would like equal, if not near eqaul treatment. But me telling her that makes her say "so you only do nice things to get things in return?". Which isnt the case. I do them because I want to. She wants to far less often.
I don't even know my question, maybe its 2... Any way to handle this and why the hell does she get defensive? She is so insecure...
2007-03-15
08:13:41
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