For past 2 years ive been dating this guy... i ditched my family told my mom she was stupid and i hated her and stuff... this guy had complete control over me and i didnt even realize it i moved out of my house for him, and broke my families heart and now i found out what an asshole the guy really is he was dating someone else and cheated and **** and now my parents wont let me move back home... im only 17 years old and i cant live on my own. i know that what i did was so wrong and now that i lost everything important to me in life im clueless on how to get them to forgive me... any ideas please share this is so important to me
2007-03-15 08:08:02 · 3 answers · asked by jennifer l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take it one step at a time. You need to rebuild your credibility with everyone. Show how responsible you are in small ways and do what you say you're going to do. Your family is hurt and is going to punish you, but you can't let that go on for long. Everyone needs to act maturely, and you need to lead the way. Apologize profusely, but don't let that mean that they get to control your life. Start making plans to move out on your own, even if it's going to be a couple of years. You're not a bad person. You just made a mistake. It won't be the last one. We all make mistakes. Learn from them and strive to be a better person. I wish you all the best.
2007-03-15 08:33:01 · answer #1 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Maybe the parents of a friend will take you in. It helps that you'll be going off to college soon -- RIGHT????!!!!! -- and they won't have to put up with you for long.
2. You owe some apologies. Make them. Make them WITHOUT asking for anything at the same time, or else they're not real apologies.
3. If your parents don't take you back, then either they are way out of line or there's a lot more to the story (drugs, etc.) Even then they should take you back. If this is some kind of "You're no daughter of mine, you disobedient ****!" kind of scenario, you have a bad set of parents, and there may be no fix with them.
4. Jobs and cars are both very important for independence. But the biggest thing is doing well in school and then going to college.
2007-03-15 10:55:48 · answer #2 · answered by Curt Monash 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to your parents one last time. Tell them they were right. Parents always like to hear that.lol Is there a friend or friends family you can go to stay with until you can get on your feet. Good luck. If it makes you feel any better the truth is I moved out of the house when i was 16 with this guy my mother hated. She was right and I was back home in 2 months. Good luck to u.
2007-03-18 08:26:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋