Okay so I have been considering on weither or not to have sex. I know I have already posted a question on weither or not to break it off with my boyfriend because of my dad well my answer to that was a big fat NO. I think I'm falling for my boyfriend and I think I'm falling HARD!! and He has already told me that he loves me . and that he LOVES spending time with me and he loves my mom and all this other stuff now I have told him that I am a virgin and he is fine with that and i told him that I will be ready when I'm ready and that if he tries to pressure me there will be problems with us and he hasn't pressured me at all. And like the more time I spend with him the more I get this sexually attraction for him. and like I don't know if I should tell him or if I should just let it go and when we both are ready to have sex then we will talk about it but I think I'm ready to have sex w/this guy but my mom is like your not ready u just think your ready...What should i do?
2007-03-15 08:16:13 · 7 answers · asked by NavyBaby09 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nobody can tell you when is the right time.. not even your Mom.. Because you will fell.. Obsviouly you will get more affective with your bf every day.. I think you should just go slow.. and think about it.. Please be protected ok?
And if it was your father's or mother's decision.. you would never lost your virginity! They'll always think you're theirs little girl.. And they forget that life is going on and you're growing more every year! If you love and if you feel that your bf loves you.. and you think it's the right time. Do it.. but make it special ok?? Unforgettable!
Good Luck!! ;)))
2007-03-15 08:24:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the right time is now .. almost. Get on birth control pills. After the correct amount of time has passed (I think you have to wait a month) then you should have sex. Be ready to have lots and lots (and lots) of sex after you get started.
If you need your parent's permission, talk with your mother. If she doesn't allow you to get on birth control, you should not have sex. Be prepared for a long talk with your mom (and dad) after you broach the subject of birth control. Just don't try to sneak around it, and try to respect your mother's decision if she forbids birth control, though I doubt she would.
2007-03-15 09:17:01 · answer #2 · answered by Martin Pedersen 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you have to keep putting "like" in your sentences, you must be very young and probably not ready for sex yet.
2007-03-15 08:19:47 · answer #3 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if one can ever be "ready" completely. How old are you? At some point, you'll just have to "do it" and see. Just make sure to use birth control when you do.
2007-03-15 08:21:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont have sex w/ him, u might regret it later- and i know u dont think u will, but u might. and is that rele a chance worth taking?
if u rele feel that way, go make out w/ him. if hes fine not having to have sex thats good, dont ruin that for urself
2007-03-15 08:20:23 · answer #5 · answered by neverland22 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
guys lie to get sex - don't believe a word
2007-03-15 08:24:25 · answer #6 · answered by Jim G 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go for it but use protection and play safe
2007-03-15 08:19:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋