me and my bf are very sexually active but he keeps on asking me to say naughty and nasty things to him while we are having sex, i do say things but im out of words and need to know what els i can say or do? help, what should i say what voices should i make?
2007-03-15 08:14:53 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You might ask him for some examples the next time he asks, he sounds like he has some things in mind.
2007-03-15 08:18:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think it is very sweet that you are willing to go the extra mile for him, just the fact that you are trying to do more should show him how much you love him. If you want to think of naughty and nasty things to say, just tell him the truth, speak your mind, tell him what you want.
Tell him that he is a horrible lay. Tell him you would be perfectly fine with a guy who is 4 inches, if it was 4 inches wide. Tell him that you are thinking of leaving him because the sex life is horrible....tell him all he does is beat around the bush. Let him know that you are thinking of filling the bush up, and dating black guys. Tell him that he is nothing but a 2 pump chump and that he will never be half as good in bed as his father.
I really hope I helped. I am not much on talking nasty, but that seems like if i was on the receiving end of that, it would seem pretty nasty. I wish you two the best of luck.
2007-03-15 08:23:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
LOL. Think about the times when you have been the most excited ever. Also after you have had a couple of drinks. What were you thinking? Say those things. Let your mind keep going, without censoring yourself at all. Just say anyhting that comes to mind. He will love it.
2007-03-15 08:20:27 · answer #3 · answered by F 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ONLY say the things that you are comfortable saying. i suggest that you rent an erotic film and watch. You can learn a lot about what turns your man on from the pros. But Never ever do or say anything sexual that makes you feel uncomfortable.
2007-03-15 08:22:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-18 14:29:25 · answer #5 · answered by hayakawa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably talking dirty turns him on and nothing is wrong with that, however he is putting pressure on you and this can eventually ruin your enjoyment. You should feel to say naughty things not be forced to say them.
When you are not in bed, explain to him that it makes you uncomfortable to have to focus on finding dirty things to say and hopefully he will stop. Interestingly if you are not pressured, you might find yourself actually saying more than he wants you to when you are fully aroused. Relax it will happen, trust me.
2007-03-15 08:24:10 · answer #6 · answered by ann t 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have read this in magazine...overcome the guy with sex really turns them on...try to instruct the guy what to do
..like.."I want it harder...touch my...<
2007-03-15 08:40:57 · answer #7 · answered by glam gail 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, one of the easiest things is to just narrate what's going on. So whatever's happening with whatever part of your body, just say it out loud, you know what I mean?
Another thing is to just flatter him. Compliment his size, performance and precision.
Other than that, be open, honest and raw with what you want and how you want it. Don't be shy. It's sex, it's supposed to be crazy and fun. Just be open with what you want and tell him.
Finally when things are wrapping up, ask him what he's gonna do and tell him how much you want it.
That's my advice.
2007-03-15 08:21:12 · answer #8 · answered by bitchlips411 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
ask him one word he wants to hear, get up in his face and whisper it.
Tell him if he wants to hear it again, he better beg for it.
I did this with my bf and we are always vocal - he liked it a lot.....
Depending on what you normally say and how vulgar you are.
That totally depends on you and your bf.
Mine came natural I never was vocal before with anyone else.
I also like it when he does it too.
Ask him what he wants to hear. Certain words help some dont.
2007-03-15 08:20:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, don't tell your boyfriend " your dic- is bigger than your dad's." He will know you are lying. I had the pleasure of someone asking me if it was okay if swallow your c_m. I would say that was an attention getter. Tell him stories about all the black guys you have been with and during sex lie to him and say he is the biggest and he hurts you even though you seen babies with bigger packages. I hope I made a difference, Dr. Dick Fitzwell
2007-03-15 08:27:43 · answer #10 · answered by Dr. Richard Fitzwell 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋