Singles & Dating - 14 March 2007

My boyfriend of 3 years and 7.5 months and I had an awful dispute mainley because of me. That was 5 days ago. he told me the day after the dispute that he thinks its best we are just friends and he still loves me and wants to spend his life with me but he just doesnt see that happening. Well, I've been talking to him 2-3 times a day. He calls me. other than that he wont return my calls. He leaves his phone off the hook. He works in a town 50 minutes away and he stays over there and doesnt come home. He says he is going to come see me and stands me up. I know hes hurt and said he needs to clear his mind. I ask him when are we gonna talk and he says "Whenever we see each other" But when will we see each other if he never comes home and i dont know where he's staying at? Also I bought him some baseball tickets to a really big game for us to go together. I dont know if he will still go. Do you think he will? I want to save this relationship. HELP

2007-03-14 14:11:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i love him a lot so i dount no where to go with this

2007-03-14 14:11:41 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am curious....as a guy has never told me this.

2007-03-14 14:09:29 · 12 answers · asked by Lana Marie 2

My situation is the follow; I'm married and this co-worker it is as well. Whenever he can and very lightly he touches me, he makes excuses to send me emails or to call me, but it is always work related.
One night after a business dinner (and we were drinking), we shared a passionate moment. Next day everything was fine, normal as usual and we had ever talked about what happen.
A month and half later he tells me that he's going to be in town to this especific hotel, so I invited him for a beer During the whole evening we talked didnt talk about anything personal or very minimum. At the end of the night, he asked me for a hug, and I gave him one... then I saw he tilted his head to kiss me but he didnt; then we left. Two minutes later he calls me to thanks me for a wonderful night and to tell me that he had a nice time...
What the hell? I feel like I am getting mix signals in here. Does he like me? why the shyness? am I stupid? I am confussed and I need some advise. Help!

2007-03-14 14:09:02 · 9 answers · asked by dragonfly 2

http://www.highheelschatroom.com/
I know this one but it never seems to have anyone in it

2007-03-14 14:08:12 · 3 answers · asked by docile_fool 1

I love this girl dearly and cherish the time im with her but im not her first love and she has just come out from that relationship. She tells me she loves me but I unfortuantely I dont believe it even though i want to. She and her first love did everything together and well she is my first. But the problem is whenever im with her she always mentions about her first love whether it be i went to the beach with him or i had a summerjob with him. I know it might sound like im jealous but we have been together for almost 6 months(short or long however you want to see it) isnt it time she moved on. Maybe she isnt meant for me and maybe i should just let her go back to her first because it seems he will never leave her mind?

2007-03-14 14:06:28 · 14 answers · asked by cupidscircle 1

I really like this guy and I used to think that he liked me too. He sat in fromt of me and he would alwayz talk to me. He would flirt with me and I was flirting back. I don't really know if it was something i did or just he doesn't like me anymore, but he moved seats and sits with some of his other guy friends(he was surrounded by my friends and 1 guy) My friends said she asked him why he moved and he told her that it was because one of my friends was alwayz messin with him b/c she hated him for some strange reason(she didn't know that I liked him, but my friend who asked him why he moved did know that I liked him). She told me and a couple of dayz later, I asked him but he wouldn't tell me. In fact he doesn't talk to me at all anymore! I don't know if it was something I did or it was just some strange guy thing. So, I was wondering how I could get him on his own to ask him what's going on and find out why he really moved because I don't know if he really moved b/c of my stupid friend.

2007-03-14 14:05:59 · 3 answers · asked by lovin' it 6

Me and this girl are getting closer to becoming bf and gf. What are some ways to flirt to seal the deal. Like sometimes we makeout how can i get her to go farther like us starting to take off clothes. What are some ways I can make her enjoy making out with me more?

2007-03-14 14:05:59 · 13 answers · asked by buddyzion 1

Ok, so I wasnt planning on going to prom. I think it is over rated, and not worth my time.

In my town, they do Alcohol tests... And the building is like an hour away...

I dont want to have to rent a tuxedo or anything... or have anyone take us there... and it is just my friend that wants to go with me.... IDK, what should i do, should i go or not?

2007-03-14 14:05:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

im 13 and theres this guy that i went out w/ last year but i broke up w/ him and he just told my friend that he liked me again and she told me and i sorta LOVE him but more as a friend but i think hes one of those people who will sorta commit suicide if the person he likes/loves hurts him but just a few weeks ago he told me that he had sex w/ this girl and i flipped because hes only 13 also but hes one of my best friends and if he askes me out what should i say???

2007-03-14 14:04:26 · 8 answers · asked by .michellee. 2

Should women be more aggressive or less? Do men like women with a take-charge attitude? Read the following link. I saw it today on Yahoo.

http://health.yahoo.com/experts/menlovesex/22610/are-women-too-aggressive

Let me know what you think.

2007-03-14 14:03:52 · 7 answers · asked by Matthew D 3

There’s a girl in one of my classes whom I like that is the same age as me (20). I first met her in class a few weeks ago and overall she seems like super friendly person.
I’m trying to figure out if she likes me and if/how I should ask her out.
She’ll often go out of her way to talk to me after class and does cute silly things like block my walking path with her chair.
Anyways, I seem to be at a “stalemate” with this girl in the sense that every time we talk all we do is say average things like “So what class do you have next?” or “How was your test?” etc.
I really don’t know what to say to her to see if she’s interested since we only get to talk to each other for 5min after/before class. I want to ask her out but I really want to find out that she has some romantic interest in me first.

If there is any advice anyone can offer in any way here it would be appricated!

2007-03-14 14:03:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend of 3 years and 7 months, told me 5 days ago that he's had enough. He thinks I have mistreated him and will never change. We are childhood sweethearts and have known each other since we were three years old! I am so scared because he is the only thing I know in life. He said he thinks we should be best friends. he said he still loves me and wants to spend the rest of his life with me but just doesn't see that happening. i love him more than life itself. i still talk to him 2-3 times a day. Most of the time the conversation is "How are you doing?I was just checking on you. "Sometimes when I tell him I love him he doesn't say it back. He also stands me up when we are supposed to see each other. I am so hurt and confused. I know I was terrible to him and he was nothing more than sweet to me. Please help me someone before he leaves me for good. This is our first seperation. He is also staying in the other town he works at at night instead of driving 50 minutes home.

2007-03-14 14:01:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-14 14:01:52 · 5 answers · asked by mohamedelgarhy2001 1

she acts as if im the devil himself, she cant stop telling people how much she hates me. She identifies me out of a crowd really easily and shes always trying to dodge me like if im walking by, shes walking the other way. She purposley looks away when im in her eyesight. Could she still like me (shes my ex)?

2007-03-14 14:01:39 · 1 answers · asked by big e 2

Everyone else seems to be on, why not Detective Leane?

2007-03-14 14:01:19 · 14 answers · asked by Detective Leane 1

women keep saying they're attracted to personality but that's not true. women may enjoy being around guys with a good personality or look for that in a relationship, but i'm talking about SEXUAL attraction. meaning, the things that make a women want a guy sexually, not for a friend or a relationship. they often say they're attracted to confidence, but most guys out there have confidence. yet women are not attracted to most guys they meet, so it's not that simple. unless they're talking about *********. they say sense of humor, but come on. do you see comedians getting all the women. maybe women prefer guys with a sense of humor, but it's doesn't really matter how funny the guy is. to me, it seems the main factors women consider are popularity, talent and good looks. is this true or is there something i'm missing?

2007-03-14 14:00:12 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2

Is there someone in your past, an ex partner, that you will always have somewhere in your mind? There'll be a song that will remind you of them and the good times you had?

I'm speaking from experience here. I have an ex and I always wonder "What if?". What if I'd done this where would we be now?

Am I making sense? Am I on my own? Talk to me peeps.

2007-03-14 13:59:47 · 26 answers · asked by chris0072k 2

2007-03-14 13:59:45 · 9 answers · asked by Clarizzle.(: 2

ok heres my delema. i just done chatting with my best friedn (whos a guy) and we finnised up a rather disturbing conversation(thats wat i thought at least) about how much he loves me and wants to be with me forever. it was sorta scary to me because he hangs out with me and my boyfriend everyday alomst, adn on the weekends at my house as well. he begged me not to tell my boyfriend(i wasnt planning on it) but i did at least want to ask my bf for advice about my best friedn(without telling a name). can anyone pleeeez help me???

2007-03-14 13:59:20 · 2 answers · asked by KO 2

I'm so confused.....

2007-03-14 13:58:54 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to know what you guys think about it.Good or Bad? and any advice I would appreciate it.

2007-03-14 13:58:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

As a single father of , I find it hard to let people in.
Then a girl comes along who wants to join the union of my family with her 7 year old son .
Who I like but not sure I can love.
Do I let her in, on the chance that my feelings might grow or hold back from any commitment, until I know for sure I can love this women.

2007-03-14 13:58:03 · 5 answers · asked by kevin d 4

anyone up for a movie and snuggle on the couch???(boys only for the snuggle part:) it'll be fun!

2007-03-14 13:57:54 · 5 answers · asked by forget_me_not 3

well when i first saw him i liked him and until a month later we began talking. he used to call me everyday and everything was just right then we got into an argument and its wasn't bad cuz we got over it then we still talked but yet things changed he called less anyway i still had feeling for him so i slept with him then i thought i was pregnant and i told him did a test and wasn't then things got worst but yet we slept together again and after that he lied to and i was very angry about it anyway i didn't get my period that time round again and i tld himand he said i trying to tag him cuz i told him after 3 months of missing my period we got in a really bad argument and now i wished it would all go away because he is everything i ver wanted and we don't even talk anymore and i am finding it hard to let him go and i want to fix everything and start a fresh with him i really wan be there for him in way that he needs mei feel very happy when we are talking to each other and its hurts me

2007-03-14 13:57:50 · 2 answers · asked by asera 1

My boyfriend isn't treating me like he really cares about me. He's always being rude to me and acting like he likes my friends more then me. He hits me all the time too. All of my friends have told me to break up with him, but I really don't want to. We have been together for 10 months. What do you think I should do???

2007-03-14 13:57:47 · 39 answers · asked by ~~leader of the bad girlz~~ 1

been together for a year and a half and im in love with him. He says he just doesn't feel a spark and hes not in love with me anymore. I'm not sure what to do because he said I'm his best friend and he still wants to talk to me and stuff. I want him back so bad. Should I just let him have his space or try to get him back? I asked if it was over forever and he said more than likely. He said a couple of times that we MIGHT get together in the future. Does he still like me? I'm soooo confused and all I do is cry but I told him I'm over him now bc he felt really bad about breaking up with me. He even cried and he never ever cries. Do we have a chance in the future or should I just drop him and move on :(? Does he love me or what? He always says he loves me when we get off the phone, but just as a friend. He also told his parents he broke up with me so it's serious.

2007-03-14 13:57:37 · 5 answers · asked by contr0lx113xa0f 1

I like him alot. But he seems to be annoyed with me alot...I dunno why. Got any advice???

2007-03-14 13:57:18 · 5 answers · asked by l∑†s p@®†¥ msg me :)=] 4

i want to be a better kisser, i just want to make him go crazy. I've been told im a good kisser, but i don't know..what makes it good guys...what makes it good

2007-03-14 13:57:08 · 4 answers · asked by Sam 1

OK, I'm having a lot of problems with this and its kinda hard to admit it. I just can't talk to girls. I can talk to anybody except the girl I like. People keep telling me to not get nervous, to suck it up, and not to show that I'm nervous when I talk to her. The bottom line is I just get flustered and things just don't come out right, and no matter what im going to be really nervous. How can I fix this?

2007-03-14 13:56:48 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous