ok heres my delema. i just done chatting with my best friedn (whos a guy) and we finnised up a rather disturbing conversation(thats wat i thought at least) about how much he loves me and wants to be with me forever. it was sorta scary to me because he hangs out with me and my boyfriend everyday alomst, adn on the weekends at my house as well. he begged me not to tell my boyfriend(i wasnt planning on it) but i did at least want to ask my bf for advice about my best friedn(without telling a name). can anyone pleeeez help me???
2007-03-14 13:59:20 · 2 answers · asked by KO 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well you need to tell him (the best friend) whether you love your boyfriend and there is no chance of a romantic relationship with the best friend or not. I guess it comes down to which one do you want to be with and if the best friend cannot be satisfied being only a friend, then maybe its time he left out of the picture and happily ever after with the boyfriend. You will have to be firm and clearly state your message to the best friend, if he can't get over it and be just a friend its adios. Don't be too nice about it or he might get ideas and pursue you sexually.
2007-03-14 14:04:53 · answer #1 · answered by Cynthia W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAhaha you poor poor child. This happened to me soooo many times in my life. AHAHAHH It was horrible. Well, I used to be engaged so Id tell them DUDE YOUR MY BEST FRIEND, BUT IM ENGAGED
Then I didn't have that excuse so I stopped hanging out with people. I dated my good friends twice, and both we broke up within two days but remained good friends. Maybe try it hahha.
2007-03-14 21:04:15 · answer #2 · answered by Jenny A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋