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Should women be more aggressive or less? Do men like women with a take-charge attitude? Read the following link. I saw it today on Yahoo.

http://health.yahoo.com/experts/menlovesex/22610/are-women-too-aggressive

Let me know what you think.

2007-03-14 14:03:52 · 7 answers · asked by Matthew D 3 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

7 answers

Never they should be more agressive. Men like to know that we still spark a fire once in a while also & not just the naughty side though that's always great also. Selfish or not we need to know once in a while that she thinks of us or misses us especially when we arent around. I had a friend I worked with who we easily would see each other every so often usually but when we didnt she would page me over the pa system to call her or she would call the extention I was at just to say hi & my co workers would give me a hard time because I would blush & get all goo goo because it was nice to know that even though we were seeing each other so often & not far from each other that she thought about me even if I wasnt in her area. Even the most secure guy needs a little reassurance once in a while because its keeps it new & doesnt make us feel like we're the only ones. I like taking charge but it is nice to once in a while have it repaid. I went on a first date to a public park & while we went for a walk to talk & work out the nerves of a first meeting she attacked me on a park bench & was the best sex I'd had. Well next to the time on the side of the freeway in San Fransico during rush hour :) or the time on the hood of the car in a church parking lot ... Men should be agressive as long as the woman is able to understand the difference between that & something criminal but woman should be also because again we need to know that especially after a while in the relationship she still thinks of us once in a while &/or we still light that fire once in a while..

2007-03-14 14:12:44 · answer #1 · answered by mas8baller 3 · 0 1

I agreed with everything on that article except the crossroads part. But maybe that's because of the way it was written.
I think women should be a little less agressive to come to a crossroad, and a little more aggresive in getting the message across when the crossroad has occurred.
In other words, they should make the decision to stick with a guy, or they should make the decision to break up with them, either way they should be assertive enough that it's clear what they've chosen (and it may just be that they choose to let the guy pick, but they've got to provide the options to us.).

2007-03-14 21:13:11 · answer #2 · answered by DatingZion 3 · 0 0

I think it should be 50-50. If something is wrong in the relationship, then be aggressive about it, and fix it,. It shouldn't have to be a fact of the woman being more aggressive than the man. It should be 50-50 if you want the relationship to work.

2007-03-14 21:07:39 · answer #3 · answered by ♥♫i luv♥♫juicy fruit♥♫gum 6 · 1 0

I read that earlier. If she doesn't show any interest he isn't going to bother wasting his time. I think she chooses the one she wants , and he is so smitten with her adoration.
After that, I think he wants to play a little with her brain and make her wonder if he is interested. The ridiculous thing about it all is that she may be doing the same thing. So, go figure no one gets anywhere at all.

2007-03-14 21:09:17 · answer #4 · answered by pitch 2 · 0 0

i think that men and women in a relationship should both be aggressive and keep eachother guessing so your relationship can always have some type of spark

2007-03-14 21:12:35 · answer #5 · answered by Lue Lue 2 · 0 0

It depends on the Situation.

2007-03-14 21:17:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

It all depends...If you have a woman that is Very Multi-Task then yes

2007-03-14 21:07:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 2

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