women keep saying they're attracted to personality but that's not true. women may enjoy being around guys with a good personality or look for that in a relationship, but i'm talking about SEXUAL attraction. meaning, the things that make a women want a guy sexually, not for a friend or a relationship. they often say they're attracted to confidence, but most guys out there have confidence. yet women are not attracted to most guys they meet, so it's not that simple. unless they're talking about *********. they say sense of humor, but come on. do you see comedians getting all the women. maybe women prefer guys with a sense of humor, but it's doesn't really matter how funny the guy is. to me, it seems the main factors women consider are popularity, talent and good looks. is this true or is there something i'm missing?
2007-03-14 14:00:12 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Either looks or money. They're whores.
2007-03-14 14:05:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
All girls, no matter what background, are hardwired to look for a permanent mate.
We aren't near as visual as guys. If a girl dresses and moves sexually, most guys'll get sprung. But if a guy tries to move and dress in a sexually attractive manner, most girls will respond two ways:
--to the random hot guy, "oh, gross" or casually "he's hot"
--to her own guy, she'll giggle, thinking, "he's so cute!"
BUT, if a guy she has been introduced to already comes over and gives her a big gentle friendly hug, and says "it was so sweet of you to come to my game" or something, and touches her arm as he turns to go, she's gonna think about him for a long time.
We're turned on by touch not sight, but we don't like it when a guy comes on too strong, that creates distrust.
Basically, if she's not likely to enjoy your company, she's not likely to want to sleep with you unless she's drunk. You simply have to have some kind of emotional connection going first.
2007-03-14 21:25:57 · answer #2 · answered by skunkytruck 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's wonderful to have a guy with popularity, talent, and good looks if you just have the luck. But you know, my boyfriend right now isn't popular. To be honest, he wasn't that good looking to me at first. But as we got to know each other, he seemed like the hottest guy, and he had a lot of talents that I didn't know about. It's just that super hot guys (who look like celebrities) get a lot of attention from girls, and it seems unfair to other guys who don't look exactly like an actor from Hollywood. But don't worry, you'll soon find a girlfriend, who will think that you are the best in the world. Don't stress it, and don't be jealous. :)
All the best,
Just-me
2007-03-14 21:34:21 · answer #3 · answered by just♥me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no girls deffinitly look for personality in a guy. With girls most of the time they look for a deep down emotional conection. If they are looking for physical things, me personaly i look for the eyes, but grils really aren't that shallow. Yeah there has to be some physical attraction, but if the guy has a perfect body, but is a complete *** then she's not just going to stick around. Personality does deffinitly count
2007-03-14 21:05:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. Personality
2. *Good Looks*
3. Smart
4. Good Job/Good money
5. Respectful
6. Nice & Sweet
7. Commited
and finally
8.Funny
2007-03-14 21:09:23 · answer #5 · answered by Alex C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a woman wants these things from a relationship with a man.
1) Kindness
2)passion
3)mystery
4)compassion
5) genuine laughter
6)security
7)a best friend
however, this is not the tools allways used to attract a woman even though it is how you KEEP her. they are totally different things.
2007-03-14 21:26:13 · answer #6 · answered by summer girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assholes.
Any girl who says a nice, romantic guy is BSing you.
I learned that the hard way =(
2007-03-14 21:03:55 · answer #7 · answered by MidnightSlayer28 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok, so maybe I'm shallow, but first, I look at their looks. They have to be at least decent looking.
and if that's good, I look for personality.
He has to be able to make me laugh, intelligent, and NOT arrogant.
But yea, I need to laugh.
Oh yes, romantic would be nice :D
2007-03-14 21:05:33 · answer #8 · answered by Into The Sunset 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well,i think girls like what they don't have,and what seems to them hard to get,i mean just behave as a man in his coolest,but don't show extreme interest in her,of course keep up yourself unchallengeable esteem!!
2007-03-14 21:07:28 · answer #9 · answered by Dioscore D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls do look for personallity, of course attractivness gets our attention but personallity keeps us with a guy
2007-03-14 21:07:53 · answer #10 · answered by Amy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋