i love him a lot so i dount no where to go with this
2007-03-14 14:11:41 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him and if he loves u he will respect ur concerns
good luck
2007-03-14 14:13:37 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is coming from a guy. If you feel that youre not ready to, DONT. He may feel that hes ready to, but if youre not and then you do, you will probably end up feeling like you made a VERY BIG mistake, or got used. Make sure, %200, that you are ready to do whatever it is he wants to do. If youre not, tell him youre not. He will probably get disgusted, or mad, that doesnt matter, all that matters is your comfort level, because if youre ready, then you know you did it for the right reasons, and not just for him. Hope this helps.
-Brandon-
2007-03-14 21:17:33 · answer #2 · answered by Brandon B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the gut, I always say. If you're not ready for this 'next
level' then play it safe and say no. If he truly loves you he will
understand. If love depended upon whether or not you have sex, what would happen if you could no longer have sex?
Doing it under pressure is no way to go.
2007-03-14 21:16:43 · answer #3 · answered by Robert B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you should look at how long you've been in this relationship.If your not ready you should tell him and if he is a good boyfriend he will understand and wait until you are ready don't do what your not ready to do just because he want you to.
2007-03-14 21:22:22 · answer #4 · answered by mz.atl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are ready you will know with no doubts or nagging questions. Therefore, if you are not, which you are not since you are doubting yourself, tell him that. Takes me about 3 months for the first peck, so dont feel bad,
2007-03-14 21:18:50 · answer #5 · answered by Jenny A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No do not go to the next level....you are already doubting how you feel. tell him that you are not ready...and he needs to slow down...love is patience, kind, faith...and trust....see if he really understands that. It seems like you two are young...so that is one thing I would ake upon...you have alot of time to have fun...i would not sleep with the first boy who takes my breath away...because basically its not going to last forever....he needs to slow down and realize he is not getting in ur pants...or anything in that realm. Take care of yourself babe. Do not rush. because you will make mistakes that will hurt you forever. God Bless... and please take upon my advice.
2007-03-14 21:16:47 · answer #6 · answered by old 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its all up to you! If you are not sure then maybe you should wait. By the looks of it, it seems you are not. So its better to hold off on it. Just let hm know that you are not ready he should understand.
2007-03-14 21:15:23 · answer #7 · answered by star86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you doubt that you are ready then you likely aren't. Don't ever sleep with someone you aren't sure of just because you are afraid he'll leave you. If he's that kind, then he'll probably leave you sooner or later anyway.
2007-03-14 21:16:06 · answer #8 · answered by neoimperialistxxi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well first of all you don't sound ready- but its your decision. whatever you decide, make sure he's respects that and he doesn't treat you like a dog. if he truly loves you, he will stand by your side no matter what. cheers!
2007-03-14 21:17:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
by your spelling your way to young for that.. that is, wants,level, doubt,ready,doubt,,but then again you could be drinking like i do sometime when i ask a question.. if that is the case then it is all up to what you think is best,
2007-03-14 21:17:12 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋