My situation is the follow; I'm married and this co-worker it is as well. Whenever he can and very lightly he touches me, he makes excuses to send me emails or to call me, but it is always work related.
One night after a business dinner (and we were drinking), we shared a passionate moment. Next day everything was fine, normal as usual and we had ever talked about what happen.
A month and half later he tells me that he's going to be in town to this especific hotel, so I invited him for a beer During the whole evening we talked didnt talk about anything personal or very minimum. At the end of the night, he asked me for a hug, and I gave him one... then I saw he tilted his head to kiss me but he didnt; then we left. Two minutes later he calls me to thanks me for a wonderful night and to tell me that he had a nice time...
What the hell? I feel like I am getting mix signals in here. Does he like me? why the shyness? am I stupid? I am confussed and I need some advise. Help!
2007-03-14 14:09:02 · 9 answers · asked by dragonfly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry but I forgot to mention that, I have not sleep with my husband since 2003, we are only married in paper.... but that is another issued.
2007-03-14 14:25:23 · update #1
He likes you but your married and hes married and he doesnt know if he wants to have an affair or not
2007-03-14 14:14:17 · answer #1 · answered by Alex C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to run out and divorce your husband and tell your co worker youre free then he can divorce his wife and you 2 can get married and cheat happily ever after on one another .If you had kissed him(sounds like he may be feeling a litttle guilt or waiting for you to make the next move) he probably would have kissed you back.Why are you willing to destroy your marriage and his wifes life?Is it because you are BOTH selfish nimrods?Think about it and get back to me,I'll be here all week.
2007-03-14 21:15:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all he is probably a misogynistic pig. If not then he has no respect for you, as he should respect you and the ring you wear. I would assume you are happily married, but even if you aren't, this is a can of worms you don't want open. Plus if you feel uncomfortable, and it seems you do, you should report him for sexual harassment and file charges.
2007-03-14 21:16:33 · answer #3 · answered by bolinger81380 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like the both of you are on the verge of having an affair. Work is work and you both are married. Where are the boundaries? Oh well........hope your hubby doesn't have a co-worker like you have and he has the same problem.
2007-03-14 21:13:55 · answer #4 · answered by chazzz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me that you like him as well or you wouldn't be going out with him...especially since you are married. Regardless of how innocent this may all seem on your part, I think you need to respect you marriage and not go out with this guy again. It's obvious he is trying to get something going.
2007-03-14 21:13:39 · answer #5 · answered by Fireanddesir 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are married, you even spending business time with this gentleman is wrong. imagine the same thing,but your husband was touching,and getting close to some other lady,you would get furious right? cut your ties with this man if you love your husband.
2007-03-14 21:15:04 · answer #6 · answered by i tell it like it is 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe eh wants to pursue something with you but thinks you don't want to because you both are married. Do you want it or do you not? It's up to you on this one.
2007-03-14 21:12:55 · answer #7 · answered by Angel*Eyesz 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes you are stupid...he is married and so are you...what are you? A wh*re?
2007-03-14 21:13:01 · answer #8 · answered by *<dEzI>* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wrong girl n get oevr it. It might be something wrong with you.
2007-03-14 21:11:28 · answer #9 · answered by chocolate~bunny 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋