Why is He Doing This To ME??

Question

My boyfriend of 3 years and 7.5 months and I had an awful dispute mainley because of me. That was 5 days ago. he told me the day after the dispute that he thinks its best we are just friends and he still loves me and wants to spend his life with me but he just doesnt see that happening. Well, I've been talking to him 2-3 times a day. He calls me. other than that he wont return my calls. He leaves his phone off the hook. He works in a town 50 minutes away and he stays over there and doesnt come home. He says he is going to come see me and stands me up. I know hes hurt and said he needs to clear his mind. I ask him when are we gonna talk and he says "Whenever we see each other" But when will we see each other if he never comes home and i dont know where he's staying at? Also I bought him some baseball tickets to a really big game for us to go together. I dont know if he will still go. Do you think he will? I want to save this relationship. HELP

Answer 1

look, not all love is meant to be. If he doesnt go to the baseball game with you then he is implying that he doesnt want anything to do with you as of a girlfriend. I think he just doesnt want to hurt your feelings so he keeps saying yeah i still like you when really he might not.

Answer 2

Leave a message when you can and tell him frankly how you feel. Then expect no return phone call, but give it a week for him to respond. If he doesn't move on. You need to start over with someone new - and that's fun too.

Answer 3

Sorry to say chickie, but he's gotta go. My boyfriend sucks too, and I need to let him go, and it's been off and mostly on for 4 years. It hurts, but maybe, if you completely ingnor him, he'll get the picture and try to find you, then you can talk.

Answer 4

Sometimes if you love someone you have to let them go, if they come back they're yours forever if they don't they never were.

Answer 5

OK, u need 2 go to him!! QUICK!!!! i would do it asap !!