Singles & Dating - 12 March 2007

I met her, talked to her and then took her out, had dinner, watched movies and kissed many times. When asked if we could settle, she said no and took off.

My second attempt: I met her, a different girl, talked to her and then took her out, had dinner, watched movies and kissed many times. When asked if we could settle, she said no and took off.

My 3rd attempt: I met her, talked to her and then took her out, had dinner, watched movies and kissed many times. When proposed to her, she turned me down.

4th attempt: I met her, talked to her and then took her out, had dinner, watched movies and kissed many times. This time I tried to get her pregnant. She lived on birth control pills. Ask her to spend a night, which is did, but would not spend two consecutive nights. So what continue the relationship? So I moved on.

Is there another way I need to approach girls so I can accomplish one of their hearts? I tried to be VERY mean, but didn't help me, either. Your advise?

2007-03-12 16:50:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i've been seeing my boyfriend for a year now, and I couldn't love him more (i say that all the time, yet I find myself loving him more as days pass...weird, huh?), but because it's outside of my race i'm getting a lot of heat for it. my parents are CONVINCED that this is a dead end relationship and i should get out of it immediately. I disagree. We've been so happy for the past year and we haven't even fought once. We're two mature adults who know how to handle a relationship.

The other night I was at a party (my bf wasn't there) and i was hangin out with some guys outside, just talking. The guys have a tendency to make sexual innuendos and i played along. (i.e. we were smoking hookah and they were pretending the tip was a penis and they were holding it down near their crotch and i would smoke it, etc.) I was having fun just getting along with these guys really well (these guys ARE of my race) and I wonder how different things would be if I wasn't with my boyfriend, but...

2007-03-12 16:49:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i need to know what i can do to be more romantic pleeeeeeeze help me!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!

2007-03-12 16:48:34 · 5 answers · asked by ? 1

My boyfriend of four years has always been romantic and loving. But now lately he's been working a lot and hardly has anytime to talk to me. When he does, he's tired and doesnt want to go out or do anything. I, however, go to college so when Im done studying I wanna go OUT! But he hates when I go out without him and I hate it when he goes out without me. So im fustrated in my room wanting to go out but not being able to because he's "too tired". Any suggestions???

2007-03-12 16:48:32 · 11 answers · asked by Mari 2

I just want to know how you met your boyfriend or girlfriend if not at a party or at school. I'm done with school and just got dumped by my GF. Not sure where to go from here.

2007-03-12 16:48:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just don't understand him. He's attended every outing I've been to, msgs me everytime I'm online, generally seems like he cares.. but he said that b/c he's trying to get his life together, he wants to still get to know me so that sometime down the road maybe something can happen btwn us. I can't deal with this... I just can't go 1/2 way into this relationship, it's starting to hurt. how do I deal with this?

2007-03-12 16:48:12 · 12 answers · asked by mellei 1

hey, im a highschool kid who has a college boyfriend. everyone at school talks about sex 24/7. but im not the type that would talk about sex to everyone and anyone. it seems like to get in with the crowd is to talk about sex. dont get me wrong i had sex before. but i had sex because i love the guy. my friends had sex just to lose it and fit in. now that my boyfriend is off at college i been getting cravings. i told this to a friend and he offer to be friends with benfits. i know its wrong. how can i stop getting pressured by my peers? and how do i control my cravings? i dont wanna cheat. plus sometimes when i hear people talk about sex, it gets on my nerves because they dont know what they are talking about.. how do i control myself?

2007-03-12 16:46:46 · 17 answers · asked by Curious 1

So I like this guy. Maybe he likes me, maybe he doesn't - who can tell with these annoying mixed signals?

Regardless, I need to become better friends because he is a great guy, we have a lot in common and we work together at a volunteer club.

But the way I feel makes me so nervous and awkward that we are really strained around each other.

When we have something to talk about its great because we have very similar senses of humour but when the ideas run low the silence gets really uncomfortable. Online we're fine too (we joke back and forth on myspace all day) but in person I choke up, mumble, get stuck for words and end up avoiding him so I don't have to deal. I think he's picking up on my nerves too because often the awkwardness seems to be mutual.

Has anyone successfully made friends in spite of romantic feelings?
Has anyone overcome the nerves those feelings give you when talking to someone you like?

2007-03-12 16:46:43 · 7 answers · asked by two_red_ribbons 2

WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 3 YEARS. I LOVE HIM BUT I THINK I MIGHT HAVE TO CHEAT ON HIM. WE JUST GOT ENGAGED ON 12-23-06 BUT I'M HAVING SECOND THOUGHTS.

2007-03-12 16:46:30 · 13 answers · asked by Sharicka H 2

2007-03-12 16:45:48 · 25 answers · asked by eMeLyN [$] 1

i lied but i want her to forgive me. she wont even talk to me. i need some good ideas help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-03-12 16:43:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have a great co-worker, & we hit it off in all aspects. she is getting married in june to this great guy who i really like. wonderful guy and they have been dating for 5 yrs. now the question i have is this...we have been for the last couple of months giving each other hugs saying hi and goodbye. how it started, who knows, but we have been. the thing is, her hugs are getting more & more deep you can say. like i got an extra hug from her for no reason, she stood up and said "give me some of that lovin" and just came over and hugged me. some others, she gave me a hug goodbye and then put her head on my shoulder before we let go. another one was where after the hug, she put both of her hands on my face telling me how cute i was..like "you are so cute" etc. so my women friends say she has a thing for me, ive said no for the longest time, but now i am really starting to see it. is this a school girl crush? should i stop hugging her? i dont want her to like me b/c she has a man? opinons?

2007-03-12 16:43:14 · 10 answers · asked by brianju 2

2007-03-12 16:42:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

he broke up with me...TWICE! and all in 3 months...although we were kinda seeing each other b4...but there was just so much drama and stuff...and he says he loves me but he needs to grow up...so I promised him I'd wait for him...but it sounds as if he just doesn't want to be with me every...and I just can't hate him...and I still love him...how do you get over someone when your heart doesn't want to?

2007-03-12 16:41:59 · 20 answers · asked by Po_0ffie 2

i've got a pair of jeans that i got at good will for like 5 dollars. they fit good but are really in good condition. they aren't like destroyed bt they aren't very stylish either.
i really like that super hollister jeans destroyed look.
but how can i do it myself.
i don't have the money to splurge obviously i'm shopping at good will.

2007-03-12 16:40:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

im been top of my class for a long time and so has this other guy who is a complete nerd. im not nerdy. but this other guy keeps on making fun of me that i like him but i dont. im not sure if he doing this because he likes me or that the other nerdy guy likes me. my freinds tell me that the guy who bugs just bugs because he likes me. what should i do?

2007-03-12 16:40:34 · 10 answers · asked by anoneemus 1

What do you do when you do everything you can for a girl to notice that you like not only as a friend but a lover? But she never budges to actually say that she likes you?

2007-03-12 16:39:46 · 10 answers · asked by Mark L 1

so ive talked to this guy online since like october. when i see him in the halls ill say hi. sometimes online ill say stupid things to him and i dont know what his impression of me is. hes a really nice guy and everything but im afraid of what he might think. so many people have a crush on him cuz hes a hott and athletic senior and hes really nice, but he doesnt have a girlfriend. so im trying to talk to him and get him to hang out. ive asked him a couple times to hang out but it hasnt exactly worked. we have been having better conversations lately but i think i screwed it up. tomorrows his birthday and i told him to come into this class that i have ( he ordinarily comes in once in a while to say hi to the teacher) and i think that plus a couple other things i said kind of weirded him out. then i asked for some help on my batting cuz hes really athletic but i dunno what he thouht of that. i dont want him to think im weird or trying too hard or anything. what are your opinions?

2007-03-12 16:39:45 · 8 answers · asked by summer 1

2007-03-12 16:39:07 · 4 answers · asked by rcngpntbll 2

ok i really dont like him like that but i like him and he seems to have to much feelings for me to break up with him so what do i do i dont want to hurt him but i dont want to be with him forever

2007-03-12 16:37:58 · 8 answers · asked by Emily B 1

then you ask them a question about what you were sayin and they have no clue

2007-03-12 16:37:35 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

He does not wanna be with me because he think iam a player?
and he also found his self a new girl. but i really want him back what should i do?

2007-03-12 16:37:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

well theres this guy ive gone out with him like 5 times in the last 2 yrs but the problem is when i am going out with him i dont want to be going out with him and want to break up with him but once i do break up with him i like him again and want to go out with him again...whats goin on? whats the matter with me?

2007-03-12 16:36:44 · 1 answers · asked by ? 2

OK, this time tell me what women really want, WITHOUT using any of the following words (or any synonyms thereof):

nice
responsible
loving
caring
well mannered
ambitious
well educated
selfless
sensitive man
funny
romantic
honest
respectful
understanding
giving
faithful
mature
generous

PS: and don't play dumb by asking me what I mean - you all know perfectly well what I mean by the qustion. ;-)

Love Jack

2007-03-12 16:35:06 · 30 answers · asked by Jack 5

ive been talking to a guy for a year. he tells me that he likes me more then a friend and if his life was not crazy right now he would consider going out with me. but the other day he told me he wants me to be happy but not with him. i am so confused. can somebody help me?

2007-03-12 16:34:43 · 6 answers · asked by sunshine24 2

im a virgin and my bf wants to do it.i want to know everything,like does it hurt,how does it feel,and so on....

2007-03-12 16:32:51 · 11 answers · asked by evee 1

it's not such a great one. you want to eventually have physical relationship.
she wants to use protection. you 'can't ' use protection.
do you get a blood test, a confirmation of 'cleanliness'. and then take your chances? what do 'you' do?...........
again for the ladies and the gentlemen.

2007-03-12 16:32:30 · 15 answers · asked by lil' angel 6

Aside from the ones on here of course. They exist, just none anywhere in the "real world".

2007-03-12 16:31:42 · 24 answers · asked by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6

I was very young when I did, and I was wondering if anyone else was as young as I was? Please be honest. Dont lie to sound cool or something like that, and please dont waste my time by preaching to me about how sex is wrong, ok?

2007-03-12 16:31:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I personally get turned on everyday and there are times when i gotta have it all the time and even when i cant get any from a guy i do it myself some people think thats wrong what is ur opinion?>

2007-03-12 16:31:11 · 4 answers · asked by omarionsgirl1983 4