im a virgin and my bf wants to do it.i want to know everything,like does it hurt,how does it feel,and so on....
2007-03-12 16:32:51 · 11 answers · asked by evee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay -- seriously.
DO NOT do it because he wants to do it. He'll probably leave you after it anyway. That's the ulterior motive of most guys; be with a girl long enough to get in; and leave her.
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If it's your first time it's going to hurt you - bigtime.
You're going to be having something stuck in a hole that you usually urinate from. And if he's big down there; it'll hurt even more.
You will more than likely bleed; when your hymen is broken (or "cherry is popped") and that will be your "loss of virginity" sign.
You'll be sore the next day; and the pain will hurt even more when you urinate.
But after the first time or two; if you do it regularly; you'll get use to it and you're hole will get accomodated to his thing.
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I suggest you wait until your married; or until you can afford a kid or medical treatment.
For all you know he can have Herpes, AIDS, HIV, or other std's.
I suggest you be careful.. Sometimes condoms break; and you end up with a lifetime of regrets;
2007-03-12 16:41:14 · answer #1 · answered by thepenpal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first time is not a magicial experiance like some people say. Though every woman is different, it is probably going to hurt. Some women bleed the first time and others have to stop due to pain. However, before any of that the issue is if you want to. If you have to think do I want to, then wait. Until you say, Yes I want to, I feel I am old enough to take the responsibilities that go with it (not only birth control methods but STD prevention), and I care about this person then wait. If he isn't willing to wait then don't wait for the door to hit him on the way out!!
2007-03-12 23:40:18 · answer #2 · answered by kodiackgazer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait as long as you can it does hurt!! But also if you with a guy that cares he will respect your wishes towait and if you proceed he will care enough to be gentle with you, and not leave right after. I bled for 3 days and never saw the guy again or never heard from him either, I was 16 I didn't have sex for a whole year after that. wait... the longer the better.
2007-03-12 23:39:55 · answer #3 · answered by Daisy Mae 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl everyone is different. I had a friend who had sex and when he put his penis in her,it just slid on in. It may be different for you. I know I was very very tight and it took forever for my bf to get it in. It hurts and it may cause some bleeding. Make sure you're emotionally prepared for this. It can be a very traumatic experience. Best of luck!
2007-03-12 23:37:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well make sure your ready to do it also. dont just do it because he wants to. it depends on the person to and probably their pain tolerancy. it didnt hurt me but it was a little uncomfortable. some girls want to stop though because they think it hurts. it just depends its different for everyone. the first time there isnt much pleasurable feeling either. it takes a couple times for that to happen. but you just have to relax. the more tense you are the more its going to hurt or be uncomfortable. but its not bad. just make sure your ready to do something like that first. and hes the one you want to take that from you.
2007-03-12 23:40:31 · answer #5 · answered by sunshine24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's an AMAZING feeling. You feel so extremely close to the person after. It hurts a little the first time, but it's worth it. it feels like an amazing explosion inside your body.
If you decide to do it, make sure this is the right guy.
And USE PROTECTION OR YOU WILL GET PREGNANT!!!!!!!!
best of luck while "doing it!"
2007-03-12 23:38:02 · answer #6 · answered by Emily 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are with the right person, it feels right!! Make sure this is really what YOU want to do, and YOU are ready. If the answer is yes then it will all come naturally. Good luck!
2007-03-12 23:38:16 · answer #7 · answered by amyl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you Love him and he Loves you it will be an experience you will never forget.Just make sure he's gentle ,if he get's too excited it could end up painful!Take your time and enjoy yourselves,
and use protection Please!!!
2007-03-12 23:41:27 · answer #8 · answered by Sandora 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one can describe what sex is like --- its different for everyone --- and you wont know till you "do it" --- just make sure you are comfortable safe and always use protection
2007-03-12 23:40:00 · answer #9 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obcourse it does not hurt. Its pure pleasure.
2007-03-12 23:37:59 · answer #10 · answered by Woody 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋