it's not such a great one. you want to eventually have physical relationship.
she wants to use protection. you 'can't ' use protection.
do you get a blood test, a confirmation of 'cleanliness'. and then take your chances? what do 'you' do?...........
again for the ladies and the gentlemen.
2007-03-12 16:32:30 · 15 answers · asked by lil' angel 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
see this is exactly what i'm hypotheticaly thinking. i understand that the guys say they 'can't feel it'
however i think in today's society, that it is only logical, and an intellegent thing to do to protect you and them...
i know that i am not wrong. i guess i'm just looking to find someone who can give me an explination of why you would put yourself in such a position as to not 'protect, or be protected'
all points of view would be greatly appreciated..
thank you.
2007-03-12 16:43:53 · update #1
If they wont use protection,even the thinnest condoms,dump them they are a inconsiderate,dangerous time-bomb just waiting to go off.
2007-03-12 16:48:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No one "Can't" use protection. That is an excuse guys use to get out of it. With the extremely wide variety of condoms today that are so thin guys can barely feel them there is no excuse. If a guy continues to say he "can't" and a girl wants to that is a deal breaker. On an issue THAT important a guy should respect a girls wish.
2007-03-12 16:36:36 · answer #2 · answered by kodiackgazer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tests aside, the protection is too important an issue. No protection, no sex. He can find appropriate protection even if he needs to see a Dr. Call your Dr. to verify his story.
2007-03-12 16:40:39 · answer #3 · answered by Nort 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't protecting yourself from anything, and you don't feel comfortable with their sexual past, I would consider not having sex at all. Some std's don't show up for long after the fact. Not to mention the risk of pregnancy would be significant.
2007-03-12 16:38:12 · answer #4 · answered by xobacookies 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i say protect yourself. i had buddies in the army who didnt do that. and i tell u what from what im told by them and my own expierence. cause i had the test done when i left the service. just to be sure. gettin rodded off the ranges makes u want to use a condom for the rest of ur life no matter if ur married or not.
2007-03-13 12:27:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Obvously a set of tests will tell you 99.99% of the time.
It will not tell you about HIV exposure necessarily, however.
Regarding unprotected sex, I would make sure you know all about menstrual cycles and safe periods. You can get the best available data by a Google search.
2007-03-12 16:39:09 · answer #6 · answered by bak2deefuture 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he won't have the skill to tell. era. Your equipped to accomodate all sizes and there is no problem with the version. circulate on and forget approximately approximately it. Your no longer a skank. Your no longer a whore. Your a individual who enjoys intercourse with men who're huge. There are others who think of in any different case than you. So, the international is going on and, have confidence me, there are extra serious themes.
2016-11-24 23:46:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Test for STD's..
52% of US women between 15 & 19 have chlymidia...
2007-03-12 16:37:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no you use protection; sounds like he's giving you nothing but an excuse because he doesn't want to use protection; there are numerous kinds so if he is saying he's allergic buy a different brand.....
2007-03-12 16:36:08 · answer #9 · answered by abc 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Great Ethical Question. But I'd must use protection. lol, better safe than sorry.
2007-03-12 16:37:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋