so ive talked to this guy online since like october. when i see him in the halls ill say hi. sometimes online ill say stupid things to him and i dont know what his impression of me is. hes a really nice guy and everything but im afraid of what he might think. so many people have a crush on him cuz hes a hott and athletic senior and hes really nice, but he doesnt have a girlfriend. so im trying to talk to him and get him to hang out. ive asked him a couple times to hang out but it hasnt exactly worked. we have been having better conversations lately but i think i screwed it up. tomorrows his birthday and i told him to come into this class that i have ( he ordinarily comes in once in a while to say hi to the teacher) and i think that plus a couple other things i said kind of weirded him out. then i asked for some help on my batting cuz hes really athletic but i dunno what he thouht of that. i dont want him to think im weird or trying too hard or anything. what are your opinions?
2007-03-12 16:39:45 · 8 answers · asked by summer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're trying too hard for the wrong thing. I know at this time in your life this is completely normal, but so is life. Lighten up. Focus on becoming somebody not just hooking up with the school jock.
2007-03-12 16:50:37 · answer #1 · answered by Johnnie C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you or he wouldn't come to class. Ask him on the phone if you said something to upset him. Tell him you say things out of nervousness and want to make sure you didn't hurt him. Tell him that you like him and care about what he really thinks. Ask him if he thinks you are a good person and you are worried about upsetting or saying the wrong thing to people and what impression are your giving people because you don't want to give someone the wrong impression. He will come around when he realises that you are human and screw up like everyone else. Take care Heather
2007-03-12 16:46:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just a person like you me and everybody else. A Humanoid. Just be you and ask him the questions you want answers for. If you ask him to hang out and he says no ask him if he is not into you. Be brave take a risk. If he is into you he has made the decision after the first 4 minutes of meeting you. He is most probably scared of rejection. Just a humanoid.
2007-03-12 16:48:10 · answer #3 · answered by Jack N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay i dont think you did much wrong, he may be a little put off, but please no worries. Just breathe and do your best, don't make yourself vunerable and make him think that he can have his way with you, i hate to say this because i am a guy but.... make him work for you still. You did what you could you offered chances for you two to hang out, if he takes them great, if not oh well. Dont throw yourself at him, you'll just get your heart broken!
Good luck
Dont have sex before your married if this works out
2007-03-12 16:45:01 · answer #4 · answered by Stupendous Man! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down!!
Now do not worry that what he will think of about you. Just stop saying some stupid and nonsense stuff to him just have control on yourself..
Their is another technique which i use see in life we should care for only those persons who care for us so in the same way think about this situation if he also cares for you or something like that than only care about him and think &worry that what might he be thinking about you??
2007-03-12 16:49:53 · answer #5 · answered by neil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how are you able to tell in the adventure that your boyfriend is sexually annoyed? he's respiration and not having intercourse. yet heavily, the final way is to ask him. Couples must be open approximately issues like that. in case you have been having intercourse and you unexpectedly cut back it off, yeah, he will probably get annoyed. some men get very actual and verbally abusive to every person around them whilst they are sexually annoyed. He would become disturbing or easily annoyed at common many times happening issues (like no longer having the flexibility to artwork the microwave spectacular or something).
2016-11-24 23:46:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HERE IS A CONCEPT...BE HONEST AND TELL HIM YOUR FEELINGS! GUYS ARE NOT MIND READERS
2007-03-12 16:42:45 · answer #7 · answered by ***BUTTERFLY*** 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
punch him in the face.
2007-03-12 16:42:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋