My boyfriend of four years has always been romantic and loving. But now lately he's been working a lot and hardly has anytime to talk to me. When he does, he's tired and doesnt want to go out or do anything. I, however, go to college so when Im done studying I wanna go OUT! But he hates when I go out without him and I hate it when he goes out without me. So im fustrated in my room wanting to go out but not being able to because he's "too tired". Any suggestions???
2007-03-12 16:48:32 · 11 answers · asked by Mari 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah, go out with out him..At least he will see how important it is for you to let your hair down once in a while and relax.
I'm not saying go out all the time alone, just make a stand and go out without him once.
2007-03-12 16:52:06 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Pamela♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you guys meet up for lunch or have breakfast before classes or before he goes to work. Me and my guy have the same problem. He works from 8am-5:30pm. Then he goes to school from 6-10:30pm. I work from 3-11:30pm. We hardly ever have time for each other until Saturday evening when he gets off of work. So when we can we eat lunch together or breakfast. It will help the loneliness. I feel lonely sometimes. Sometimes I feel like seeing another man because I get so lonely during the day. I don't because I love him. What I learned was to " look for a solution, never look for a problem". It'll work out
2007-03-12 16:57:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know he doesn't have to work so hard to make you happy.
Let him know it is ok to work hard, but not to pull everybody else load as well.
Let him know that you love him, & as long as the bills get paid, you are not concerned about the money.
Then, work it through that you have a regular sleep schedule, drink powerade or ensure if you must, & after you rest up...
Start going back out.
3 elements are:
Work (in moderation)
Exercise (in moderation)
Sleep (at least 8 hr a night)
Eat (3 balanced meals daily)
This should help resolve the conflict/
Sometimes it happens, a guy tries too hard to provide till he sacrifices even the relation, thinking she can't possibly like him as good if he doesn't buy her the world.
2007-03-12 16:57:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I m not sure but for anything I would think he would want to take his girl friend out and enjoy the moment. I would say check if he has interest in other girl or talking to any other girl... Because come on he can't be that tired, even on the weekends? so, look into it... And if he's too busy for you, look for another guy that is not...
2007-03-12 16:57:00 · answer #4 · answered by Rain L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 23:48:40 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion is this: When he's too tired to go out, just cuddle. Nobody is too tired to cuddle, and it will make you both feel better. If you really can't stand just hanging out, then I guess you should talk to him about it and see if you can find some sort of compromise. Good night!
2007-03-12 16:54:51 · answer #6 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to get the time that you are both going out without each other to correspond in each of you schedules
or simply tell him that you need to go out...if he doesn't want to, have a girls' night, that can be just as fun...he may start missing you too and decide that it's worth it to go out with you even if he is tired
2007-03-12 16:55:08 · answer #7 · answered by lizzyhappy2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a night in. rent some movies, invite people over, just so you don't have to necessarily "go out." do your socializing at home!
2007-03-12 16:54:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're young. Live your life the way it's natural and satisfying for you...not someone else.
2007-03-12 16:54:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make him go out and have fun. Make it last dude, dont be bored and just tell him to go out.
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2007-03-12 16:51:56 · answer #10 · answered by Phlow 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋