Singles & Dating - 1 March 2007

I have all but left my bf, (we live together, but dont even speak or sleep together, i am stuck in the lease for another 2 months) Anyways, i used to work with this guy who is very sweet and cute, we went out a few times and flirted etc, and ended up sleeping together twice, (this was in december) I still see him occasionally on the bus and we talk and flirt, last time i saw him, i gave him a hug and he said "dont worry this isnt the last time we will ever see eachother" i really think that he likes me, but he is very shy, I contstantly think about him, i even dream about him sometimes, i guess that i am afraid to call him, i dont know, should i call him and ask him out or something? I have very strong feelings that i may regret it if i dont, but i dont know why i havent done it yet. Any input?

2007-03-01 23:12:10 · 3 answers · asked by goaway 2

I was at a party with my friends last weekend and one of my girl friends put her hands down my shorts and played with my thing for a dare. i was really embarrssed because my boyfriend was there and saw it happen. i was sittng on a sofa and she just came right up in did it. i like her alot but what should i say to her? i was drunk so my reactions were slow, but still she didnt have to pull my shorts down in front of my boyfriend and touch me, just to impress some other drunk guy!

2007-03-01 23:08:10 · 7 answers · asked by Lisa girl 1

2007-03-01 23:07:49 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

Or vice versa ;)

'Cause I do. **** yeah.

2007-03-01 23:07:45 · 14 answers · asked by davesmithistheman 1

In a bar or a club, what is it about a girl that will make you decide whether or not you'll approach her?

2007-03-01 23:05:38 · 21 answers · asked by Si 1

my boyfriend has lost a bet and we have a fancy dress party.
I get to pick the clothes he wears to it off the internet.
My question is what shall i make him wear?
Links are welcome.
x

2007-03-01 23:05:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you guys like girl with straight or curly hair? Do you like those who usually let their hair go, or tie back their hair? Or maybe you like those who spend three hours with hairspray and hair dryer? Just want to know....and just to tell you guys, i'm the girl who usually tie back my wavy black hair, and sometimes clip them up, and rarely let them go.....do you think i'm looking OK?

2007-03-01 23:01:13 · 12 answers · asked by Isabel 2

me and my boyfriend have been together for ages, i mean nearly a year, and i went to his house once, and later found out it was the mother of his kids' house.

ever since he comes round my house

hes never took me to where he SAYS he lives (with his parents or sometimes his sisters)

and because my house isnt free anymore (her family) we dont have any sex..it must be living with his baby mother?

he makes excuses as to why i cant go to his, he says my age or sometimes says because i'm not a christian his parents will be dissapointed...but yet hes had 3 kids out of wedlock?!

we go out near enough everyday..but it seems he isnt willing to tell me the truth, or take me to his "home"..we havent had sex in a month and it because i cant go to his "house"

he must still be living with his babymother...

Help me...i sound so niave, i know i should just leave...why is he lying..he must be having sex with her so he doesnt need it with me and we just hang out. were like friends :(

2007-03-01 23:00:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I dont no if I am sopose to be happy or sad. I do not feel that age but it sounds so dam old. Wow I guess I just should be glad to be alive and healthy right.

2007-03-01 23:00:27 · 10 answers · asked by babycakes3557 3

2007-03-01 22:59:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My love and I have 9 years difference in age.Problem is never calls,emails,talks,chats,meets etc since our relationship is steady.We dont push it to happen since we both live in 2 countries.We love eachother dont want to break up neither is cheating.We plan to marry sometime.We have known eachother all our lives and in love 5years.What to do to get this person to meet,chat,email,call etc as things are steady between us without rocking the boat?

2007-03-01 22:59:02 · 14 answers · asked by moonzsunzstarz 1

i found my bf chatting to some girl on net.and this thing is disturbing me.i am with him from past one and half year.we have an serius relationship.i told him about this he feel sorry and even says he is not involved with any other girl. but i am not able to trust him anymore.should i give him a chance or leave him.i love him a lot

2007-03-01 22:58:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Jealous is an attitude of mind and is not based on sex. Jealouse is the feeling when the person is in the state of dependence and does not know about himself properly . As the individual moves to independence by understanding and recognising himself . He becomes content and stabilised. and understandingly seeks friendly help and gives a friendly hand to those arround .

2007-03-01 22:58:27 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

am good lookiing,but lilttle bit fatty ,when ever i meet with my boyfriend i tried my level best to look good even that day every one says u r looking good but nt my boy friend it hurts me really then i decide will do more in next meeting but ..........help me plz

2007-03-01 22:54:44 · 3 answers · asked by white passion 1

does it matter where you come from, how poor you were and what you've been through, when you have made it and progressed in life and in love?

2007-03-01 22:52:28 · 24 answers · asked by ? 1

I thought he was the one. We were in a long distance relationship. We've kept in touch for less than 2 years, when we the time we agreed upon to meet draws near HE DISAPPEARS. no replys despite daily e-mails, sms, missed calls to his phone.
GUYS, WHAT GIVES? last time we talked was Valentines and we told each other I Love Yous. Now I don't understand the silent treatment...sigh!

2007-03-01 22:51:08 · 24 answers · asked by kitten 2

2007-03-01 22:50:15 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want my love to kiss me without seeming desperate or throwing myself at my love or hints arent working how to get my love to kiss me?This is important as its my first kiss so love must be worried too.Please serious answers best answer 10points.No jokes.

2007-03-01 22:50:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

do you think people who are capable of committing suicide are more than capable of killing somebody else? ie.(murder)

2007-03-01 22:48:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know this guy since highschool and i had a crush on his best friend (who happened to like me to). Anyway when things didnt work out with me and his best friend I started to notice him and well lots of things led to me thinking that he was interested in me. (He asked my number a thew times and i started to see him at places that i hang out ). But he never did something other than that. This has been going on for years! I like him but i know i can live without him. So two weeks ago after not seeing him for a while, me and one of my gf went out and she noticed a guy looking at me. So i turned around and saw him again. Still he didnt do anything! When we were on our way out he called my friend and asked us to have a drink with him. The whole time he talked to my friend and when I said we should leave he asked me for my nr? I said no but my friend gave it to him. A week later he sms me giving me his name and nr !

What on earth am i supposed to do and think now?

2007-03-01 22:47:36 · 7 answers · asked by rissienr 2

Pub crawl/ Bar hopping ect..

All advice is welcome. Do's & Don'ts, clothes, hair, make-up, flirting tips anything and everything a girl will need.

2007-03-01 22:43:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

im a college student..im fall inlove w/ a High School student....she's pretty like a Fairy...she's always in my mind...but im a coward person..i mean little bit shy to court her..but i think she's got crush on me also..i dont want to lose the oppurtunity....I want her to be mine....would someone help me plss...Her name is Clarisse "Lala" Montecillo™...

2007-03-01 22:43:13 · 5 answers · asked by ††kaNji†† b 1

2007-03-01 22:32:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i never planned to meet someone so young. first of all he lied about how old he was he told me he was 34 even though that is younger. I have tried to let him go cause I feel like a mother image. But he keeps begging me to give him a chance. My friends and family say he is nice and if he treats me good go for it. Is this wrong.???

2007-03-01 22:31:26 · 20 answers · asked by babycakes3557 3

I have talked to this guy for awhile in passing and he asked me out in jan - dating ever since. Things are great. He says he will do anything for me and I don't doubt it (he drove 60 miles to take me to breakfast after work one morning).
The problem is me.
On the outside I am friendly and inviting, but I let no one get close to me.
This is because I am a "cold" person. I dont feel much. I am detached - emotionalally and physicially. Last night he said that he loved me, and I could not say anything. Even when we are "together" I am just going through the motions for him. Is there something I can do, he is starting to worry?
Note: I have always been this way. Not just with him.

2007-03-01 22:31:10 · 13 answers · asked by shae b 1

do you think timing is everything in relationships

2007-03-01 22:20:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is this guy that I think I have a crush on. But I don't want to, because I know that he'd NEVER like me back. He's just way too out of my league, plus I think he thinks I'm weird anyway.

I just had a dream about him, we were writing notes back and forth and stuff, and he said that he wanted to be my friend forever or something. And when I woke up I was REALLY sad that it wasn't a dream...

How can I stop liking him? It's so hard to, but I need to.

2007-03-01 22:19:42 · 7 answers · asked by SarangHaeyo 2

My ex of 8 mths broke up with me 1 mth ago. We reached a situation where that was probably for the best because she was adamant her unhapiness over the previous 1 mth was caused by our relationship. That coincided with her suffering from depression which I thought was causing her to be negative about us. She refused to accept this despite her dr saying she was depressed, giving her meds & referring her for counselling (which she says she won't do).

I decided to give her some space and haven't contacted her for 3 & a half weeks. We last spoke 2 days after the break up. She said that "it would be nice to see me when I'm ready" and we agreed to meet after a couple of weeks. I haven't contacted her & she hasn't contacted me.

I have been clear for a few weeks that I want to try & get her back. That is why I decided on no contact, to give her space. I am not sure when to contact her!?

I want to try & get her back but know if I push too much she will pull away

Any thoughts people?

2007-03-01 22:19:39 · 6 answers · asked by bepositive1976 1

At first i thought it was just a cover- so that he does not have to reveal his true feelings, but I am not so sure anymore. He tells me things like "get off me!" and "rape!" And the newest, he tells me my tongue is "slimy"! At first it was funny, but its getting old and I feel like I am the butt-of all his jokes. And almost like the whole relationship is just a big joke to him! Does he not take the relationship seriously? Am I making a big deal out of nothing? Is he just trying to avoid dealing with his feelings?

2007-03-01 22:14:46 · 3 answers · asked by teresaannburr 3

i don't know why people would merry to get a green card? How much would someone really pay to get inside the us?

2007-03-01 22:12:47 · 11 answers · asked by mo1979ca 2