i found my bf chatting to some girl on net.and this thing is disturbing me.i am with him from past one and half year.we have an serius relationship.i told him about this he feel sorry and even says he is not involved with any other girl. but i am not able to trust him anymore.should i give him a chance or leave him.i love him a lot
2007-03-01 22:58:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know exactly how you feel...i've just found out that my boyfriend has been chatting to a girl on the net and emailing her and i hacked into his email and it was more than just general chat. I packed my bags and he begged me to stay saying it meant nothing and he was just having fun. I'm still not entirely sure I believe him but we're making changes in our relationship that will hopefully improve things. I'm just waiting to see how it goes really. It is confusing so if you get a solution let me know!
2007-03-01 23:07:06 · answer #1 · answered by knickersknight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
basically its like this... if it is innocent he shouldnt become uncomfortable if you sat next to him whilst he was chatting with her. That way, you'd know whether its innocent or not. Its all in their behaviour when you're next to them and how he treats and responds to your presence. If he is totally cool and chats with her normally, whilst you're drifting in and out of the room or sitting next to him, including you in their conversation then you should know where you stand. If, on the other hand he's a little uncomfortable changes the subject or the page for that matter then its not as innocent as he makes out. Thats when you question yourself as to how much you're prepared to be made to feel unworthy. Trust and openness is important if you value yourself.
2007-03-02 11:04:48 · answer #2 · answered by chiccigyal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry too much. What you need to realize and accept is that all men will cheat. Even if they are married to a supermodel that treats him like a god. What should be important to you is the way he makes you feel and that's it.
2007-03-01 23:04:19 · answer #3 · answered by aj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately you didn't say what he was talking about if he just chatting then you are worrying yourself unnecessarily but if it more than just chat you must have the strength to kick him on as you deserve better but please remember we all need our own space and this might be his way of letting off steam,if innocent let it go as life too short,but if not be strong x
2007-03-01 23:24:29 · answer #4 · answered by taharniegsi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i chat to lots of men on the net,
doesnt mean i would run off and sleep with them and leave my hubby, i love him too much
trust your man if you dont you might end up pushing him away
2007-03-01 23:19:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well most relationship you need to have trust and in this case you dont seem to trust him. maybe it would be best to tell him how your feeling and if he is able to understand and make a compromise with you then he is worth it. if he is still doing it again then you know he doesnt care about your feelings.
any one who cares about their loved one shouldnt and wouldnt want to hurt them in any way and if he does then you know
2007-03-01 23:04:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating A? Was he kissing? Well give one more chance, but it's the last warning. If he does it again, he's history.
2007-03-01 23:03:02 · answer #7 · answered by Robby M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends on whether it was a friend of his, sit next to him and see what he chats about, it might just be a friend....
if you love him a lot, then i think leavng him would be a difficult descision....
if he starts hiding things from you then it could be a sign...
2007-03-01 23:04:40 · answer #8 · answered by Vinz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say but if you don't have trust YOU HAVE NOTHING...Leave the creep and find yourself someone who deserves you, hope things workout for you....
2007-03-01 23:04:08 · answer #9 · answered by Ã?â?¥Ã?ÄPixie Queen~* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say give him a chance. and if he dose not change in a month time then leave him. or stay until you find some one better.
2007-03-01 23:07:53 · answer #10 · answered by mo1979ca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋