Singles & Dating - 1 March 2007

we have been together 6 1/2 years and he was a virgin when we met he said he was curious as to what it would be like to have sex with someone else so he went to a brothel and did the deed when he came home we made love and he gave me a STI which 2 months later when he told me about what he had done was treated and cleared up can i ever trust him properly again or will it always be on my mind?

2007-03-01 00:57:47 · 37 answers · asked by RACHIE-D 1

i'm 21 and i am tired of dating guys my age.. i'm looking for an older guy.. around 30-35... what should i do to attract a good looking wealthy older man???

2007-03-01 00:56:25 · 10 answers · asked by heather j 1

My fren was tellin me how too much sex for a lady not
goodi.e. evry day or even once a week. I then asked her how too
does too much sex effect the ladies body? then she said that her puss becoms wider, her **** get flabbier as in too soft along with the bum and so forth. she then said that it ages a woman as well, and that it is not neccesary to have sex because it would become boring?

tell me wat u tink guys

2007-03-01 00:55:35 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-01 00:54:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

im a size 10 and rather attractive yet my boyfriend always says iv put on weight and he doesnt see me as hot anymore cos weve been together over a year. when i go out wearing a skirt or a low top he says i look like a slag and easy when i think i look really nice! im fed up of been put down when i know other guys find me attractive, how can i make him stop puuting me down like this?

2007-03-01 00:51:14 · 58 answers · asked by kate 1

Okay I am going to take my GF to the prom soon and I kinda do not know how to dance at all. She told me that she isn't much of a dancer either but somthing tells me she can do more than she says.

Even If I do not know how to do anything else I was woundering if anybody could just give me some basic priniples to slow dancing. I know thats like hard to do, and easyer to show but i just really need help.

2007-03-01 00:50:47 · 7 answers · asked by Remnant 2

i have meet plenty of guys, but i am not up for the drama, single or otherwise. are all the good men taken.???? i find, that the ones i met are either married, in jail, or guy!!!!!!!!!!!!! or maybe they are not just in my state. if find that most men, don't seem to be too honest. w hat's up with that????

2007-03-01 00:48:58 · 19 answers · asked by snetta1 2

2007-03-01 00:46:50 · 11 answers · asked by puertoricanchula23 1

Is it worthwhile to be in a non-relationship that is being with someone sexually doing all the things that people in relationships do and you are happy the problem is he does not want to make things official and be branded as my boyfriend. He saids he isn't sure if he wants a relationship. Does it make sence to be with I him? Hoping he changes his mind

2007-03-01 00:43:36 · 16 answers · asked by Ans 3

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 and 1/2 yrs. He has an ex-wife and 3 children and he's 11 yrs older than me. We had problems @ first since this ALWAYS bothered me. About 2 mo. ago I began dating a friend from college who I am very attracted 2 and have a great time w/. He is my age w/ no children.I broke up w/ my boyfriend 4 3 weeks since I felt so guilty.Then I got the feeling from the new guy that he only wanted 2 be friends so I went 2 lunch w/ my ex and told him we could get back 2gether.(after he asked) The next day I told the new guy we should just be friends since that is what HE wanted.I told him I dont just want 2 "date someone" since Im getting older and have already done all that.He told me I had him all wrong and I misunderstood him and hes upset cuz he "thought we were starting something". So now Im back 2 square 1 Im with my ex and seeing this guy.I really like this guy?? But Im scared to break up w/my bfriend in fear of the new relationship not working.

2007-03-01 00:40:06 · 17 answers · asked by emkmusic 1

2007-03-01 00:39:27 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

So I met this girl at a night club the other night and she said she will be back tonight at the same club and asked if I would be there. I said yes and she said I will see you there then. During that night we danced and kissed a bit. We talked a bit as well and I eventually gave her a ride home. I would like to, after tonight, take her out possibly. I got her number the previous night and I am wondering how I should go by doing this. Is it best to just have fun that night and then call her later and set up date or should I try to set it up at the night club. Also, I bought her a drink last time and I am wondering if I am obliged to buy for her again tonight? It can get really pricey.

2007-03-01 00:37:55 · 14 answers · asked by styler 2

I know that there are different sizes and shapes but i want to know what is it about BBW's that turn you on?

2007-03-01 00:37:27 · 7 answers · asked by Queen of the Nile 2

I have lived in the UK all my life. My darling is Korean and grew up in Korea. He is in the UK temporarily and will eventually return to his home country. We have discussed about what will happen then. He has asked me if I would come with him. I told him that I was unsure as I am not Korean, do not speak the language and am not too familiar with the culture. He has said that he could emigrate to the UK (even though he'd rather live in Korea) but I think this might be unfair on him as his English is not proficient. However, I am worried that if I live in Korea I would be unable to find work as I do not speak the language at all. My darling says that I could stay at home but then he wants to live with his extended family and I wouldn't be able to communicate with them. If I moved to Korea do you reckon I will face prejudice?

2007-03-01 00:36:32 · 12 answers · asked by Cassidy 2

Theres this boy that I really like but I cant even speak to him its like everytime I see him my heart starts going faster and my stomach gets weaker Help Me!!!!

2007-03-01 00:36:12 · 6 answers · asked by kwatkins061793 1

My bf is the sweetest guy in the world. I love him so much, I just don't want to get married right. I want to make sure we can live together first. I know that you don't really know a person until you have lived with them. He's has always lived on his own and I'm still at home with the parents. My parents are saying that I'm making a huge mistake. I have a back up plan if things don't go right though. If things do go right we are going to get married. My parents are wanting to talk to me tonight about this decision I have made. My mom was crying this morning when I talked to her. I feel bad but I want to do this. My parents still treat me like I'm 12. I'm not. I'm responsible. I pay for my truck, insurance and gas to put in it. I don't ask my parents for anything. I know they are going to try to talk me out of it. But I'm 21 I gotta get out on my own sometime.
Advice would be greatly apprecaited.
My bf doesn't expect me to much into the apt either. I told him I would only be able

2007-03-01 00:33:38 · 8 answers · asked by angel2005_2001 5

What is the best way to help your girlfriend if she is still recovering from another relationship?

how can you help your girlfriend?
the situation:
the girl has an ex and she broke up with him because she is so wasted from him because the guy didn't cherish the girl's love for him? now i comforted her and told her that i love her and now were together but our problem is, she want to go back to him because the guy is begging for her but she's not sure if she will be happy to him if she give him a chance, but I told to her that i will give to her all of the things she want to have from his ex. Is it right? i really love her.

2007-03-01 00:30:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i love her and i dont want to lose her..how to get interest...help me plzz

2007-03-01 00:29:39 · 7 answers · asked by gaf 3

This young woman had the nerve to tell me that men who are overly affectionate, too nice, or wants you to have their baby are trying to trap them. I think some women overlook things and tend to miss out on a good man. What do you think?

2007-03-01 00:29:07 · 6 answers · asked by hardworkur84 2

I'm 34 and I've been divorced for almost 7 years. Since then I've had one very short relationship and I haven't even been on a date in over 3 years.

About 18 months ago I moved to a new town for work. I didn't know anyone here to start with. Unfortunately it's a smallish community and there is very little in the way of a public social scene and virtually no night life. Plus everyone knows everyone and it's hard for an outsider to make friends (I've heard this from others too). I know there are (presumably) single women my age because I see them at work, but I never see the outside of work.

I manage a movie theatre and all my employees are teenagers so it's not really a possibility to meet people through them - although I'm nearly the same age as some of their parents. I also don't think it's right to hit on customers.

I'm not really comfortable just approaching strangers. What can I do to develop some dating prospects?

2007-03-01 00:28:51 · 3 answers · asked by Justin H 7

Lol...I don't really understand why guys/gals call their lovers baby...or how it came to be..when baby is actually a newborn kid..so are they trying to insult their lover by associating them with a newborn child who doesnt knwo a thing?lol...just curious...some interesting answers..plz!

2007-03-01 00:28:31 · 7 answers · asked by Remus L 2

Sometimes when we are in a relationship, either friendship or love, some people still have this thing inside of them that they just keep it for themselves. Why? Maybe because they are embarrass to say it, or to scared to tell it to that somebody because you may upset them or make them mad.

So tell me, What are the things that make you upset and you can't let it out for some reason.

2007-03-01 00:28:20 · 8 answers · asked by Josylou 1

ok, so its my guy...i don't even know where will i start. So, he always tell me that he loves me and said that im his only one, but, I found out (in his website account) that he still loves his ex-girls...and i also found out that what he told me, he also said to his ex-girl...and not only that, i also find out that he was courting another babe!! I wanted to break up with him, but we are partners in this big play that will be shown in a month, and im sure that he will be affected with this and its kind of ackward because in the play he is the prince and im the princess!! i dont want the play to be ruined!!!...help me!! its so complicated..and whats worst, im starting to fall for him!!!!!!!!

2007-03-01 00:22:41 · 9 answers · asked by sigh.. 1

me and my boyfriend been going pout for 6 months, for valentines i thought we was going out, he daint call me to say happy valentines day. i called him and wish em. than he stop talking to m, whenever i call he aint pick up ma calls. and i find out that j\he cahange number cause he daint want me to call him. i wanna konw what to do cause i really love him.

2007-03-01 00:21:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-01 00:21:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

What if you've only slept with one guy your entire life and then realise that the relationship does not work out.... Is it possible to find a good, respectable guy who doesn't think that you are used goods?

2007-03-01 00:18:09 · 21 answers · asked by WHATEVER!!` 2

how can you help your girlfriend?
the situation:
the girl has an ex and she broke up with him because she is so wasted from him because the guy didn't cherish the girl's love for him? now i comforted her and told her that i love her and now were together but our problem is, she want to go back to him because the guy is begging for her but she's not sure if she will be happy to him if she give him a chance, but I told to her that i will give to her all of the things she want to have from his ex. Is it right?

2007-03-01 00:17:54 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

This guy i work with is always asking me out and I was completely honest and said I only wanted to be friends. Now he is just so persistant and asks me out all the time and now its to the point where I want to avoid him. What do i do? He doesnt listen when i say no.

2007-03-01 00:17:30 · 8 answers · asked by Amy 1

I met a young lady on a matrimonial website & we hit it off very well. She had a prior relationship 3 years ago that she ended & admits to feeling guilty about as she sorta "strung the guy along" and did not verbalize her concerns regarding their relationship that she felt wasn't everything she wanted. This young lady suggested to me that we need to meet in the early stages to assess if we should move forward with the relationship. I agreed & visited her last week after a month & a half of communicating & we had a great time...very relaxed, fun & open. We kissed & to describe the intensity of the passion, our tongues were on fire. She later told me that she felt something was missing & she wasn't feeling something but still wanted to give it a try with me. She wanted things to "flow freely without defining anything". I understand that she is in final semester of grad school and has a lot going on in her life...I am just wondering what she is feeling and what I should do..

2007-03-01 00:17:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

A suttle breeze, a calming wind
That’s where her story did begin
There was a time, she longed for glory
Each day in life, a brand new story

She played the hand that she was given
She loved it all, this game called liven
She never thought that she was better
But she was perfect to the letter

She was never wanting, for a friend
But now her heart, she will not lend
She loved a guy, she thought was true
He was handsome, eyes of blue

They would stroll and they would walk
He had her heart, he talked the talk
Her heart was pure, her body warming
She could have men, they all were swarming

Then all she wanted, was this man
But in time, she knew his plan
And in the end, she did get strong
She found his ring, rat move along

2007-03-01 00:16:15 · 13 answers · asked by edgar b 1