ok, so its my guy...i don't even know where will i start. So, he always tell me that he loves me and said that im his only one, but, I found out (in his website account) that he still loves his ex-girls...and i also found out that what he told me, he also said to his ex-girl...and not only that, i also find out that he was courting another babe!! I wanted to break up with him, but we are partners in this big play that will be shown in a month, and im sure that he will be affected with this and its kind of ackward because in the play he is the prince and im the princess!! i dont want the play to be ruined!!!...help me!! its so complicated..and whats worst, im starting to fall for him!!!!!!!!
2007-03-01 00:22:41 · 9 answers · asked by sigh.. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
let that dude go he made a fool of u and did u wrong 4get about the play becuz he dont deserve u
2007-03-01 00:26:44 · answer #1 · answered by pain&pleasure 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Definitely break up with him now! There is no sense in torturing your heart like you have been and shall be while still with him. A player like that does not deserve someone like you. At least you have the heart to think about the result of the play production. That, in itself, speaks much of your character and integrity. And THAT, we already applaud you for!
The play will not be performed honestly the way it is regardless. If you stay with him, you already know the facts and cannot give your 110% due to knowing he is a player with you being his so-called princess. You tell him, he cannnot perform 100% knowing that you know of his cad lifestyle and he won't treat you like a princess. Play production always have back-ups just in case something serious happens. Or, you both can be adult about it and carry through for the sake of the production.
Your relation though.....I would truly recommend that you break up as soon as possible. It will only make matters worse for you the longer you keep it. As you see him more, you will start to see the 'other' side of him and then there will be regrets and jealousy entering in. He is not worth falling for! There plenty more Romeos out there who deserves a Juliet like yourself! Then your heart will truly perform happily and honestly!
Good luck =)
2007-03-01 08:39:39 · answer #2 · answered by indyhype 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as ur not affected in the play (good acting) then let him go. U gotta give him up sometime, b/c he'll break ur heart, might as well do it now to save the trouble.
Ask him about it first, though. Not what he wants, but what he did and if he isn't going to change. Then u decide what to do. If he's a jerk, let it go before the play, and if he's affected in his acting, that will be an added bonus.
If he's not a jerk, and u don't want to hurt him, but u know u gotta let go, do it immediately after the play, so u don't get in further than u already are.
2007-03-01 08:32:02 · answer #3 · answered by Sara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just act like everything is normal and after the play is done juz break up with him...because no one deserves to hv a bf who is with two other girls! You probably deserve better than that.
2007-03-01 08:28:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him now. If you are doing a play together it will be a real challenge to both of your acting abilities. It might even be a relief to him if you do the breaking up....he might not want to be the one to end the relationship. Break a leg!
2007-03-01 08:27:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No no no no, hon dont fall for someone thats more than likely cheating on you. Not good! I did before & I was ruined until my friend showed me theres more to life than that jerk. Please dont make the same mistake I did, I would hate for someone to feel the way I did for 3 months.
Good Luck.
2007-03-01 08:28:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u don't like him then try to be away 4m him & slowly, slowly some time after the play if u want u can break up.
2007-03-01 08:34:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about that and if you want to break up with him if your a good actress/actor you won't let this phase you
2007-03-01 08:30:36 · answer #8 · answered by Marissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start ignoring him for few days n do tell the reason of your ignorance. after this youll be with him. thisw theory works so try for it.
2007-03-01 08:28:24 · answer #9 · answered by Goosebump 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋