Is it worthwhile to be in a non-relationship that is being with someone sexually doing all the things that people in relationships do and you are happy the problem is he does not want to make things official and be branded as my boyfriend. He saids he isn't sure if he wants a relationship. Does it make sence to be with I him? Hoping he changes his mind
2007-03-01 00:43:36 · 16 answers · asked by Ans 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You want a relationship and he just wants the sex. So no, it doesn't make sense to be with him, unless you can be happy with the way things are.
2007-03-01 00:52:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the sex is good, and you don't mind being his whore, then yes, be with him.
If he really liked and repected you, he would have no problem being in a relationship. Boyfriend/girlfriend is only a title.
If you are secure and independant, move on and find someone who will treat you like you deserve to be treated.
BTW he won't change his mind, he's just keeping his options open for a "better girl" to come along, and he's using you till he finds someone he really wants to be with.
2007-03-01 00:53:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Known as "free milk and the cow".... why should he change his mind and offer you the relationship when he's already got everything he wants from you? He has no motivation to change the status quo.
One day, it's either going to be you settling for what you can get from him, or giving him the ultimatum to fulfill some of your relationship needs. Things can't always be just how he wants them.... or they won't be at all how you want them.
Look for a middle road, but if there's not one, don't be afraid to pack up your toys and go looking for someone who wants to share a bit better.
2007-03-01 00:49:22 · answer #3 · answered by Jarien 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't make sense at all. When you are having sex with someone, you are in a relationship with them, whether you are willing to admit or not! It's not like you are asking for his hand in marriage, it's only girlfriend and boyfriend, right?! He needs to grow up. If he doesn't you need to move on, or stay in the non-committed whatever it is.
2007-03-01 00:51:00 · answer #4 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It definitely makes no sense as your just being used for pleasure and trust me your worth much more.... i think you should move out of this and go in for a committed relationship and experience the best feeling called LOVE......
2007-03-01 00:55:58 · answer #5 · answered by rhea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is giving him an excuse to do stuff with other women to. If you have feelings for him, you might end up being hurt. If your looking for a real relationship I would say something to him. or find someone new.
2007-03-01 00:47:41 · answer #6 · answered by whatever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can be happy with that and JUST that then fine. However, you say you're hoping - which means you are not happy. Find someone else - you'll be happier in the long run.
2007-03-01 00:47:59 · answer #7 · answered by Queen of Cards 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
commitment isnt his middle name is it.....in any form.he may have issues or he may just not want anything other than sex from you,,if this isnt what you know you can deal with it will only make you feel worse the longer you leave it,lay it out on the table,,"i want .... from you,,what do you want from me?" but be honest with yourself,,who are you kidding if you just go along with it for his happiness?
2007-03-01 00:49:56 · answer #8 · answered by lex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
noooooo, he just wants you for sex,money ,clothes,gas,food,etc.but i bet he has his sweet heart on the side you dont even knou about that he treats like a queen,like a real girlfriend.trust i know from experiance my self "get me".just move on youll find the right one
2007-03-01 00:54:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him some time. Chances are, he will come around. But if he takes to long, broaden your horizions and look for someone new.
2007-03-01 00:48:11 · answer #10 · answered by loveangel22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋