So I met this girl at a night club the other night and she said she will be back tonight at the same club and asked if I would be there. I said yes and she said I will see you there then. During that night we danced and kissed a bit. We talked a bit as well and I eventually gave her a ride home. I would like to, after tonight, take her out possibly. I got her number the previous night and I am wondering how I should go by doing this. Is it best to just have fun that night and then call her later and set up date or should I try to set it up at the night club. Also, I bought her a drink last time and I am wondering if I am obliged to buy for her again tonight? It can get really pricey.
2007-03-01 00:37:55 · 14 answers · asked by styler 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK. You've got a foot in the door. Don't barge in.You don't want to appear too needy. Now it's time to back off,make her wonder, and let her pursue you.Don't even think about setting anything up at the club-it's never a good idea. Call her in a couple of days if round two at the club goes well. And make sure to ask her to buy you a drink. Trust me on that one. Good luck!
2007-03-01 00:51:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you put a price on a potential relationship?? The price of 2-3 drinks is nothing compared to the endless nights of dating that you may have with her. If she gave you her number, then you are already half way there. You know a lil something about her already. Should be able to figure out what she may like so make reservations for dinner. Then call her up and tell (not ask) her that you would like to take her out to dinner and then hit the club afterwards if she would be willing. This lil surprise in in taking control will please her. From what I read all the time, ladies like that sort of initiative. It's nothing too drastic and if she declines, the reservation can always be cacelled without any money lost.
There is no doubt that the sparks are already flickering. Now just get out there and light it up fully, whether it be at the club or at a nice dinner table. Don't worry about the cost. She will be worth it in the long run if something good results from your initiative.
Best of luck to you =)
2007-03-01 00:47:39 · answer #2 · answered by indyhype 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey!
I say have fun but hint at some point that you would love to see her outside of the club scene. In my opinion, clubs are good for fun but if you are really interested in finding out more about this person then you should arrange for a more intimate setting like dinner, coffee, dessert and the like. Also, don't feel like you have to buy her drinks, at least not at this stage. If the girl is definitely worth your while then that's when you'll want to spend money on her. For now it's cool, you bought her one drink...maybe she should shout you one now ;)
2007-03-01 00:52:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Buy her a drink, its not that pricey (you are obliged to buy her a drink since this shows her that your both chivalrous and a gentleman -something every woman wants in a man). Also set up a date later on, setting it up tonight would just make you look really desperate, you need to play it cool, but not too cool. Just have fun and enjoy her company.
2007-03-01 00:46:48 · answer #4 · answered by sinkablehail1978 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go for it, if you really like the girl! its up to you if you wanted to set up the date while youre still at the club.
2007-03-01 00:44:01 · answer #5 · answered by konfuzed_baby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should go meet her at the club but then ask if she wants to go somewhere else, somewhere quieter. I know if a guy did that to me I would definatly go with him! And that way you can get out of buying her the "pricey drinks." But you should take her out to a nice dinner! she would love it!
2007-03-01 00:48:22 · answer #6 · answered by Katrina 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
usually you can tell whats cooking after the 3rd date, if she consistantly hangs out out the nightclubs, that should set off an alarm.. find out what she enjoys besides the club life.. then make you decision then..if it is expensive club, find other things to do together..dont waste money in a nite club.
2007-03-01 00:48:12 · answer #7 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i say that you should tell her you want to take her out. i met my fiance in a nightclub. after we met we texted each other for about a week and then he told me he wanted to take me out and now a year later we are planning our wedding. it doesn't matter where you meet someone, if it is meant to be then it will work. you don't have to buy her a drink but one or two would show how polite you can be. good luck
2007-03-01 00:56:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask her out to some where other then the club
2007-03-01 00:44:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah go for it u met her one than again after that so you should u never now what could happen
2007-03-01 00:41:24 · answer #10 · answered by T-Money 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋