does it matter where you come from, how poor you were and what you've been through, when you have made it and progressed in life and in love?
2007-03-01 22:52:28 · 24 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not a bit. i had a really bad few years, went off the rails in a bad way, but now i'm ok i think...its all about who you are today not what you were in the past...
2007-03-01 23:00:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've almost answered the question yourself - if you've made it progressed in life and love who cares where you come from. In fact you've probably worked harder and progressed further than anyone who had it handed to them on a plate.
2007-03-02 07:01:45 · answer #2 · answered by Samantha C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Our past may play a major part of daily lifes today. Suppose one had one or more major terrible, horrible things happen to them; for example....being raped, brutally, loss of limbs, can't focus on keeping a job, home being destroyed, family business being destroyed, and sometimes a very beloved pet can cause a sensitive person to become withdrawn. But cheer up- the human spirit is very powerful, but the person has to be willing to make a great turnaround.
2007-03-02 07:03:21 · answer #3 · answered by regwoman123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing that matters is that you are honest with your self and the ones that love conserning the past, we have all done things in our past and for most people we have been poor, as long as you obtained you finacial situation legally I say congrats on making yourself a better life
2007-03-03 06:13:58 · answer #4 · answered by leschal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think it matters because if you made it and you are well off. Someone helped you achive it along the way and told you can do it. So chances are you could help someone that is poor or help someone that does think there is any hope out there. So to answer your question it does matter.
2007-03-02 06:58:34 · answer #5 · answered by topgun0123@sbcglobal.net 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No I dont think it matters personally but some people really have issues with it and play a lot on their past which bring problems into the future of the relationship.
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2007-03-02 09:04:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes & No.. No it doesnt matter about the past - Love is more important - but yes, it can make a difference to the future. Be warned - your experiences make you who you are - too much difference can "Change" things over time...
2007-03-02 07:02:08 · answer #7 · answered by want_to_explore_life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course it matters
this is how you got to where your at
i was poor and in a bad marriage
i had to live this to know i could do better
i went back to school found the love of my life and now i own my company
we have to live,experience life to be the ppl we are
that is what makes us who we are
2007-03-02 06:57:48 · answer #8 · answered by elite_women_rule_the_rock 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might matter more to you, if you've overcome obstacles and can now appreciate your happiness, than to someone who has never seen the other side. Sometimes we need the darkness to appreciate the light.
2007-03-02 06:58:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
to a large extent it doesn't matter but i realised that people who came from nothing and made their way up by themselves manage to have a disciplined lifestyle better than those born with silver spoons in their mouths. this is personal opinion though.
2007-03-02 07:00:44 · answer #10 · answered by cutiesweetie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋