In a bar or a club, what is it about a girl that will make you decide whether or not you'll approach her?
2007-03-01 23:05:38 · 21 answers · asked by Si 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To ask her if she knows where the toilets are
2007-03-01 23:17:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A mutual attraction. Talking about when i was single here, but when i was on the pull, i would purposely make eye contact with the girl and see if she looked remotely interested. If she did then i'd attack, attack attack. I found it's all about confidence but without being too up yourself.
Also you can play it like a bit of a numbers game, if you try it on with enough women eventually you're likely to pull one (unless you're a monster).
Another important thing i reckon is to not care if you get blown out, just move on to the next one. One method on doing that is to talk yourself into thinking you're the fittest bloke in the room (even if you're not) and if they turn you down more fool them. Start with the fittest bird that you think you may have a slight chance with then move down to the roughest (by which time you'll be pi$$ed anyway so wont care). Although i always tried it on with birds way out of my league and occasionally it worked (as i say its a numbers game).
2007-03-01 23:13:51 · answer #2 · answered by Juz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Courage and determination. Some women can get pretty nasty when appraoched by an unknown man.
The thing is a female may wish to go to a bar or a club to socialize with her friends. But she gets approached by guys all the time who just want sex, and think that's all she is there for. So they try all these corny lines which just gets really boring after a while.
2007-03-01 23:11:40 · answer #3 · answered by Spikey and Scruffy's Mummy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Noodle Told Ya The Truth My Friend....lmao.. Glad He Got The First Answer In....If You're This Far Down The List..Ur Confused ...So Go back To The Top Reread Noodles *ANSWER* And Move On...Good Luck With The Girls ...lol..
2007-03-01 23:33:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i was in a bar or club, i would have had a few drinks, so that would be all it would take to decide. but also, her appearence and the look in, and of her eyes would play a huge part too.
2007-03-01 23:21:59 · answer #5 · answered by otsy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confidence!
2007-03-01 23:45:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I second the first comment dude XD. I go up if they're hot. That's all that matters. And being easy ;)
2007-03-01 23:10:37 · answer #7 · answered by davesmithistheman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just a little bit of courage!
2007-03-01 23:09:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are scared of rejection and looking like an idiot.
2007-03-01 23:09:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confidence and sometimes guts
2007-03-01 23:09:00 · answer #10 · answered by Soul Reason 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋