Singles & Dating - 28 February 2007

I'm currently involved with a married man of which was my highschool sweetheart. He's in an emotionally abusive relationship with a very controlling psycho, yet he hasn't even filed divorce papers. He says he loves me, doesn't want to leave when he's over and has expressed that he wants happily everafter with me when I asked him what he wants from me. He says he doesn't want to hurt anyone, of which I've replied that someone will be hurt but it's up to him to decide who. It's been about 3 months since we crossed the line of just friends into lovers. I feel he's the one and worth the wait, but just how long does one wait before giving up hope of turning a dream into reality?

2007-02-28 16:37:31 · 8 answers · asked by amberraven2000 2

I have his attention. But what can I tell him that will totally make him want me? Any suggestions?

2007-02-28 16:36:46 · 19 answers · asked by Bigmomma 3

ok hear is sum bakstory . last weak i was at a party wthi girls and boys (i aim school btw). my grilfeind was already there she came with a gyu named TREVRO. trevor is a JREK. he is very mean to hre and treats her bad but she alwyas is with him.

i was their with myf riend jayson. jayosn and i r have ben friends since 2 years ago. he said i shuld tlak to her so i did we talk ed for a while but trevro caem up and said "ITS TME TO GO" so i said good night to her and him.

the next daay her friend was talking to a girl in my class and siad she had SEX with trevor. i m not sure who to believ.

PLEASE HEP I FEEL HORIBLE ABOUT THIS.

2007-02-28 16:32:54 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay so i've liked this guy for about 3 months now. when i first noticed i liked him i told a few of my friends and one of them told him. so i also told him a few days later. i've hung out with him only about 4, 5, maybe 6 times and just recently we had a really good time together. i used to talk to him on instant messenger a lot, but i imed him a few days ago just saying hey and he never responded. my friend then imed him and he responded to her. so then today he wasn't online so i texted him and told him he should get on because i missed talking to him. he didn't respond to my text so again, my friend texted him and he replied to her text. but then, about 15, 20 minutes later, he got online. so after he was on for about 5, 10 minutes, i imed him but he did not respond. and ever since one of his exes (that he's still really good friends with but she has a new boyfriend) told him that i was talking about her and said things like i was jealous that they were dating, even though i.....

2007-02-28 16:32:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me & my mate met a yr ago thru a store that he took over & i usually shopped in.Over time we became close we share our things with each other e.g CDs,Books etc hes open with me & we enjoy each others company & he even told me he likes talking 2 me He makes me feel comfortable & safe like I can be myself arnd him yknw & it was the moment I realised my feelings starting 2 change in2 something more I freaked & I started avoiding him 4 awhile but that didnt wrk so I thort I'd try moving on with other guys i'll get over him but that didnt work
We have fun with each other dont get me wrong I love his company & everything about him my mum yes my mum lol & friends say that we're more then friends but I keep convincing myself that we're just friends
My mum have seen us 2gether & when we talk its like no one else is in the rm or so my mum says.

But are we more then friends from what ive shared with yous what is your guys verdict?

& Should I run or should I stay

Im 20 & hes 28

2007-02-28 16:31:27 · 12 answers · asked by ¸¸.•*´`*♥ Selah 21 ¸¸.•*´`*♥ 4

the looks more or the personality and tell me why

2007-02-28 16:31:10 · 13 answers · asked by lilmed4ever 2

okay so my sister is in love with this cartoon animae person and she is 17, sha is looking for someone just like him. she will not find him cuz hes not real. she already goes to counseling and her counselor knows. what could she be needing, is she just trying to avoid boys altogether?

2007-02-28 16:30:41 · 3 answers · asked by siayae 2

There's a guy at my school that i really like. But i am a really shy person and can't build up enough courage to ask him in person. what should i do?

2007-02-28 16:29:31 · 12 answers · asked by melissa c 2

2007-02-28 16:29:28 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

She said she was dumping me because she didnt like me anymore but i dont know why I didnt do anything to her.
I really want to talk to her because she was my best friend and now I feel stranded with no members of the opposite sex to talk to.
She also knew she was going to break up with me two weeks in advance and is now acting cold towards me but I just started the post break up process and she has a head start, making her even more cold to me.
I made the mistake of trying to talk to her online and then the next day in person.
We see eachother a few times a day and cant get aways from eachother because of our classes.
I dont know what to do, I want her back but she doesnt like me and I cant get over her but I see her everyday.
I thought I was ready for a break up but I was wrong I was just mad.

2007-02-28 16:28:49 · 29 answers · asked by ReconSix 2

My best friend (for a few years) and I have recently fallen head over heels for each other - we were not expecting this at all - we truly care and adore each other but we decided that right now is not a good time in our lives to have that serious relationships we long from each other. We're getting older and realizing that as young adults we need to build our own foundations FIRST before jumping into selfish desires.

Any stories are inspirational words??? or actually, movies that show love being stronger the second time? and do YOU believe that love is stronger and better the second time around?

2007-02-28 16:28:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

how should he tell his parents that he has a girlfriend?

2007-02-28 16:27:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-28 16:27:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

..even though you really like her??

2007-02-28 16:27:06 · 17 answers · asked by HAPPY <3 2

My fiance has recently adopted a god daughter without my prior knowledge. I have not met the little girl but I have heard from others that he treats her like a little princess. He buys her things and carries her around like she is his own daughter. I am jealous because she has a mother but her father is a deadbeat. He wants to help both of them out. I am concerned he will focus more of his attention on her than on me. And we plan to have children of our own. Help!

2007-02-28 16:25:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-28 16:22:42 · 20 answers · asked by lil momma 1

what can i do to win over this guy that i like. he seems to show interest buy i am soo shy. any subtle ways in letting him know that i want him?

2007-02-28 16:21:41 · 9 answers · asked by Bigmomma 3

man I am buzzed

2007-02-28 16:20:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im 18, and my girlfriends just turned 17. Ive known her for a max of 6 months with a long 10 month gap near the middle. She would call this "over a year" i call it just over 6 months. But thats not the problem. A long time ago i was the "other guy", and she was seeing me on the other side, her boyfriend at the time tricked her into 'loving' him using pot, alcohol, and sex (which he got her to do by telling her she was the only one and he loved her.) So she finally got rid of me and went and did her thing with him. When we next met, she'd gotten beaten by him, broken up/ made up with him several times, i know for a fact she tried to get back at him by having drunk sex with one of her friends. And she had a miscarrage with the origional boyfriend EVEN after the abuse towards the end of thier relationship. What i want to know or would like help with is how to cope with our relaionship. I have a hard time trusting her, after she told me about sleeping around... etc... but i DO love her.

2007-02-28 16:19:56 · 3 answers · asked by lecrackzor 2

i am the type of girl that doesn't really have "feelings". in other words, i'm like one of the guys. so, when i realized that i liked this guy, i didn't know how to react. i have a friend who crushes on him too. that makes it harder to tell him that i like him, so what should i do? :(

2007-02-28 16:19:15 · 12 answers · asked by Monica 3

2007-02-28 16:17:59 · 26 answers · asked by freecheetahgirl 1

well okay...
theres this guy at my school and i think he likes me....
hes really cute and i like him alot alot...
he always looks at me and smiles...
takes my binders..notes...ect.
i have no classes with him...
he always looks at me when he passes me in the hall.
so what do you think does he like me or not....
and we dont really talk much so what should i do?

2007-02-28 16:17:16 · 10 answers · asked by stephy 1

I was in love with Mr. X and he told me periodly he loved me too.
We recently broke up because of some very insensitive situations he put me and had no reguard for my feelings. ex... he invited and disinvited me to his mother's retirement party( I never laid eyes on his mom before even though we've had a 4year relationship). We had to keep our relationship private due to the fact that I still have my baby's father in my life due to the fact that our child is young and he watched him while I work and go to school. Mr. X always wanted me to severe my relationship with my son's father, but has never done anything nowhere near as supportive as my son's father, infact he has only given me perfume as a gift in 2005. He never surprised me with gifts or better yet, has never called on my birthday for 2 years. so I left him, knowing that he probably never loved me, but I still miss him terribly..am I a sucker for love?

2007-02-28 16:16:35 · 11 answers · asked by mizzbee1975 1

this girl says her niples not boobs but nipples are hurting, her and i are curious to know what this possibly means?

2007-02-28 16:16:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ive see then them
they think there as clever as anything and act all innocent
but that fortunately that does not work with me. when they tried it
and I shut them, up put them "in their place" and make them look like fools in front of everybody
I dont care

2007-02-28 16:14:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have broken up and gotten back together over a hundred times. Just recently this person broke up with me for 3 weeks of December and then wanted me to come back. Then, when I came back things were ok then i was feeling like this person would tell me certain things instead of everything. And they weren't showing me that they loved me, doing things to make me feel special or wanting to have sex like before. And I tried to confront this person in a calm nice way but they didn't try to change and always thought i was just trying to start arguments. Then they broke it off with me again last monday and i went away for a week then came back to our apt and this person was still like they feel the same way and never wanna be wit me again. I love this person soooooo much and got so much plans for us and nothing but good intentions. I know i did a whole lot of things to hurt this person in the past but i need for them to forgive me and move on from that. I don' wanna be without this person.

2007-02-28 16:14:36 · 8 answers · asked by nextkobe1986 1

2007-02-28 16:13:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I let my boyfriend (of a year and a half) know how I was feeling about our intimate part of our relationship (or lack there of). He bluntly explained that he was "too lazy" to make a first move....and had "no motivation" for the future. He also explained he needed to change and get this game he's addicted to out of his life. When this happens, who knows....I try to be supportive and let him know what exactly bothers me without being offensive but nothing seems to get through. We're "taking a break" now but that usually only lasts a day or two. What should I do at this point? I know I still have feelings for him but I feel like I've fallen out of love because we are no longer close (sexually or mentally).

2007-02-28 16:13:05 · 3 answers · asked by bri 3

Ever since I moved to Denver,Colorado in 2000 iv'e always liked mexican/chicana girls they are real lady like feminine sensitive humble shy I dated one in 2001 she was really caring she hugged me kissed me treated me like a man I really liked her they're just some of the prettiest women iv'e seen I would like to date one again those kind of women really turn me on

2007-02-28 16:12:40 · 6 answers · asked by Bennie G 1

How do u know if he's just telling you what u want to hear or he's telling the truth? I know it's a dumb question.

2007-02-28 16:11:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous