I let my boyfriend (of a year and a half) know how I was feeling about our intimate part of our relationship (or lack there of). He bluntly explained that he was "too lazy" to make a first move....and had "no motivation" for the future. He also explained he needed to change and get this game he's addicted to out of his life. When this happens, who knows....I try to be supportive and let him know what exactly bothers me without being offensive but nothing seems to get through. We're "taking a break" now but that usually only lasts a day or two. What should I do at this point? I know I still have feelings for him but I feel like I've fallen out of love because we are no longer close (sexually or mentally).
2007-02-28 16:13:05 · 3 answers · asked by bri 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why not just break up and start dating others. Maybe you'll realize you really do love him or you'll realize you don't love him and you need to move on. He seems to be unmotivated and uninterested in your relationship. Seems quite boring and unexciting.
2007-02-28 16:21:36 · answer #1 · answered by Lana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, he's putting a game before you? He has issues, see him in a week or two, if the connection (no pun intended, in case it's an online game) isn't there anymore, break up and move on. Ask him why he is seemingly giving up like this, if you find you still care about him, ask if there is any way you can help him out of this ditch he's in presently.
2007-02-28 16:19:03 · answer #2 · answered by Katie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he is putting you behind a video game. No sex no, motivation? what the heck is wrong with this guy? Time to say good by. See if he can find the get lost game on net flicks.
2007-02-28 16:29:11 · answer #3 · answered by landersonjr1958 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋